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This. I"m not some internet tough guy, I"ve been pretty open and upfront about shit, I"m not about to do otherwise at this point.

-shrugs- If I don"t talk to her for another 3 or 4 weeks I"m fine with it lol she just called me actually asking if I wanted to do something on my day off, I told her no. If I was overly attached I would have said hell yea. As it stands I"m probably going out with someone else that night.

She didn"t choose him over me, we broke up, a month later she started seeing someone else. People see others after they break up with them and I"m not holding out on her, I"m out there, I"m seeing other people and I am open to someone filling that roll eventually. I"m not dropping anything to...

My ex came over today, I was nervous about it...old feelings and such. She went out to lunch and caught up on things, we haven"t talked pretty much at all in the last three or four weeks. She"s the one that contacted me asking me if I wanted to go out. We had a nice lunch, she brought her...

It"s true to an extent. When proposing going out you want to give options, two usually. This leaves it open to her to pick something she likes while at the same time doing something you like. If he had said "well what would you like to do?" is him not being confident or indecisive. as it stands...

Agreed.

damn 41 and looked 30"ish? I"m almost tempted to tell you to rip into it just for the short term and see what kind of fun you could have, cougars can be awesome more so when they are as outgoing as you said she was. lol Good luck with Charlene, that"s going to be a tough one to crack from all...

You"ll always be reminded of her dude, I"ve had 3 major relationships in my time, on the way home from work last night I was flipping through the radio and heard songs that reminded me of each of them. It happens and will continue to happen. Of those three relationships I had, only one would...

-shrugs- I"ve been on the opposite end, had a girl call me I had no interest in, it was fucking awkward. Also I don"t know about his sister in-law, but i fI have friends interested in other friends, I wont give out their number without asking them first to make sure they are interested. If...

there"s a problem with that. If he gets a number from his in-law and the girl isn"t interested that"s one awkward fucking conversation you just blundered your way into. You mentioned the whole women talking about everything to one another, this is what I was getting at. It"s not like I"m...

Honestly, unless they are going on a month long honeymoon I would wait till they got back before I had her do it.

LoL, I agree, you said they were both good looking, wtf and go with the one you had a connection with. If you want an actual relationship....you kind of need a connection. Unless you want to get with her and end up in the same endless cycle you"re in now. I mean it COULD be different, but why...

Yeah, I just wasn"t sure how often the sister in-law talked to them or not was my line of thinking. But either way, he stands to lose nothing from having her look into it casually I"m thinking. I"d give it a week probably before I had her do it, assuming he hears nothing first.

I still after all this time fail to see the reasoning behind dickheaded responses. anyways... If you trust your sister in-law with it, have her nose around to see if either of them were interested in you. Can"t hurt and you only stand to gain from it.

LoL grats man

Fuck I feel depressed now.

Arkk, leave the dude alone for fucks sake. Shit he doesn"t get help people dog him, he gets help and people dog him. This thread has turned into live journal as much as it has about women, let him talk about whatever he wants as long as it helps him in the end.

Yes because being happy with someone you are content to spend your life with, having a family and have stability in your life....fuck, the poor guy must be dieing inside.

Cutlery, kudos to you on your successful relationship....and at the same time....fuck you for it as well.

Yeah, I"m seeing more and more the "I say one thing and mean another" stuff. The thing is, with her other past relationships, shes had no issue telling the guy why and what for when things ended. I fail to see why I would be any different but I seem to spark all the awesome circumstances with...

Doubtful, she found out the guy was married. Not ruling anything out and that thought crossed my mind too it"s just from everything I know about her, her behavior isn"t adding up...she"s very upfront and blunt about...well...everything but anything is possible I suppose. Either way, it"s...

This wasn"t even internet dating, this was a girl I went to school with and looked me up on Facebook. We kinda connected and were in the process of getting to know one another before we decided on what we were going to do with things. Both of us just came out of crap relationship circumstances...

Girl I was talking to just up and stopped talking to me in the middle of talking to me through texts the other night. Nothing unusual was being talked about, we were talking about pain killers as I currently have some fractured ribs and she was giving em advice on how to take them for fast...

Just give it time, if you"re really that interested in her just enjoy where you are now. She knows you want more, you"ve made it clear and honestly if you really like her as much as you say you do, do you really want to feel like you pressured her into something she wasn"t ready for? Because...

Mainly just from past experiences really. As stupid/corny or retarded as it sounds, I will acknowledge if a girl is physically hot or not, but I don"t develop an attraction until I get to know them. The main way what you asked happens is in the case of my recent ex, we found each other...

yeah Dabamf, those words did kinda float through my head. The shitty part about it is I still care for her, she"s going to get hurt and while I wont say I told her so....I"m not going to be there to mop up her tears so to speak. As for what Eomer is saying, I guess let me give my take...

Thanks Lus, I didn"t change just to make things work with her, granted she was what opened my eyes to the need to do so, but it was for me too. I like who I am now for the most part. My ex as it turns out...is semi retarded it seems. As I started before my friend went through with her plan to...

Well I"m not discouraged so much, a bit down that things didn"t manage to work out but I"m okay with starting over...and I"m not THAT old...I turn 29 this November....just at the moment I"m coming off feeling beaten up and slapped around emotionally so I feel kinda worn out from it all....it...

Well me and the ex are just that....ex"s. She decided for now she wants to pursue shit with this other guy, shes goin out to bang em this weekend. Whatever at least I can say I tried and I came out a better person from it all. Yeah it sucks but -meh- Started talking to a girl on OKCupid...

If you know they are faults and flaws, and acknowledge them as this...why not work on them and fix them instead of just saying, "this is what"s wrong with me, accept it." Well have them, but just living with them isn"t good by any stretch,

Bingo. Nothing is more unattractive to a woman then a guy who has no confidence...no confidence leads to insecurities and at that point, it"s game over.

Nice guys don"t finish last, it"s just they are the ones more vocal about it when they get hurt, dumped or things don"t turn out well. Dickheads simply don"t care, there"s a big difference. You can be a nice guy without being "that guy".

Go in expecting to fail and you will, stay positive man.

She"s the one that contacted you, she"s the one that put herself out there and she"s the one that just gave you all the control. Roll with it and see what happen and yes you just need to be yourself, being something else will just bite you in the ass later. Sorry if that"s basic advice you...

Thanks There is still a lot of work to do, it"s not going to be something that"s going to happen overnight but I am now 100% confident that it WILL happen eventually. We both have somethings that need to be worked through and we acknowledged them last night. We both admitted where both went...

Ex came over tonight, we talked about a lot of things some were good, some not so much. At the end of the night we took a long look at one another and she said to me she was giving me a chance and we are going to move with it very slowly. She can see if things stay the way they are now with my...

Yeah it IS kinda weird you don"t like kissing Brad, I"m pretty sure most any woman while they say will understand will eventually develop insecurities about the whole thing at some point. And I agree, going back and forth about Brads issues isn"t really accomplishing anything, all that"s been...

LoL, well I"m not in high school and I"m not interested in revenge.....as well there isn"t really anything to get revenge for. Was finally able to get my friend to talk to me last night about what she"s doing, she still doing everything but so far I have her talked down to "Well I"ll just send...

I know about the support thing for her and her son, i came to the realization awhile ago. I"m fine with being friends with her, but that friendship is being toned down a lot. I"ll be there for her as much as I am for any of my other friends, special treatment has worn out. You"re right, I do...

You must have missed my last post about my getting past things and moving on and seeing someone else? yea.....that said I do still love her, that isn"t going away anytime soon, and I don"t give her anything, when we hang out, we just hang out, that"s it. I"m getting zero from her and she"s...