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There"s not a lot I can do, if and when she is ready she will make it apparent I know that. I"m not going to lie, she"s a bit messed up in the head with her meds she is on for her depression and I think she"s at a point where she"s not sure about ANYTHING in her life much less "us". Do I...

Yeah I dunno, I"m just kinda freaking out about it all in general because depending on which way it goes....it could wipe out a lot of hard work on my part. My friend has just lost it though, she wont answer my calls even at the moment, could be because I called her a psycho..(for me any name...

Ex came over and stayed the night last night, we had dinner, took her son to the park and just relaxed. Had a nice time, nothing went beyond the friends barrier though so not much to report. I didn"t push anything and we just pretty much enjoyed the evening together. Talked to our mutual...

lol I"d +1 that if you had your rep turned on.

You need to realize there will always be negative things in your life, be they things that directly effect you or not, they will always be there. You cant avoid them, you can however let them not bother you. Stop letting negativity show through, don"t let it get to you...how you handle those...

okay first I have to ask before I start in on anything, do you want to get back with your ex wife or no, and I don"t mean fuck buddies but do you want an actual relationship again?

This is something actually that has been brought up already. Not long ago she asked how work was going and I told her me and my boss had just went rounds about asking me to do things outside my job description (we have a contract about duties...what is and isn"t mine) and that if this was going...

Well at least you had time to brace for it man, still like you said though, that sucks. Best of luck to you in your new search.

Sorry to hear that Tenks, I take it you were together awhile?

I said I wanted too.....but I wasn"t going to though, at this point that would push more then pull...not good. And yes, during our relationship I would do things like that as well. Flowers for no reason, surprise her with dinner, a simple card that said I loved you, even the whole steak thing...

Great advice, I just got off the phone with her, here are some small updates from last night and today. So last night she dropped by, she got off class early and called as I was getting home from work. I missed the call as I was in the shower but the girl knows my schedule so she popped by...

She knows you drink, I don"t see the problem with throwing back a couple as long as you"re not totally sloshed, nothing wrong with drinking socially, going out of your way not to is changing you and how you are, don"t do that, be yourself.

The vast majority of women do not know what they want regardless of all the times they say they do. If they did, threads like this wouldn"t exist and dating would be at least 80% easier and more successful for both sides of the fence. I say 80% because yes, you will get the ass hat that fucks...

LoL of all the things I could lie about, talking about my ex and the process in which I am attempting to get her back isn"t on that list I assure you. Nor is the fact that I"ve taken it upon myself to seek help outside of what I can do for myself and have sought out professional guidance...

Well since I just posted it in screenshots.....there you go.

I corrected my typing, my fault and sorry about that. I had to start and stop writing that like 7 times to help customers, I"m at work at the moment and it"s hard to type out a complete thought before I get interrupted by someone.

I"m glad I have more confidence in myself then you do. The things I"ve done to improve upon myself aren"t temporary, and honestly with or without her they will stay the way they are now, this isn"t something I woke up one day and was like "hey i should do this....maybe that will get her back"...

Had you read other posts, that was taken from an earlier convo where she said she was hesitant about jumping back into things quickly until she was comfortable that changes she was seeing were permanent and not just something that was temporary, which I understand, I was full emo bitch mode for...

lol, all ideas are appreciated, no reason to knock them. And yes I know she is coming over because she wants to. She stayed over two Sundays ago and things went very well, I hope to continue the trend this Sunday as well...not giving my hopes up on anything happening just going to take it...

Not a bad idea, but she"s coming over to MY place sunday to stay the night, this will be her second stay since the break up.

No, she has a normal persons diet, eats whatever she wants pretty much.Though she likes ramen, fuck who doesn"t? lol

Yeah she"s going to school, no she"s not into parties, yes she has a career shes just working on furthering it.

Sunday I hope I can deliver my package to her....lol, we"ll see, not gonna push it.

small updates....nothing major just writing this helps pass some time while I"m at work and will help me get things off my chest I guess. She"s calling me more now, which is a good thing you would think....it"s making things harder for me though, I just want to tell her how I feel....i know I...

It"s why it was brought up briefly and won"t be again, trust me, I know Again the only reason it was brought up was because she asked and I honestly didn"t think twice about it, used it to gauge a few things then promptly moved the subject to something else. In the end it was good, she just...

Etoilli I am 28, I"ll be 29 this November, my Ex is 24, she will be 25 a week after my birthday. She fits most answers you have on that list, well all of them really except for the ex but that"s in part due to my own fuck ups with pushing her away, otherwise she"s aces on everything else.

Yes and no, sometimes the fault DOES lay at the female end of the spectrum but yes more often then not there IS something on our end that could have been done differently. Bingo, which is why I am confident that I can get my ex back. I at one point displayed the traits she found attractive and...

I dunno I feel like I left the "poor me" attitude behind awhile ago, I own up to my mistakes, my posting here is me admitting that, improving myself and trying to fix it....I don"t want pity, just advice when people have it. If I wanted pity I would still be the lame ass guy I was from before.

Well fuck I hope I don"t come off as the "poor me" type, if I do by all means please kick me in the ass about it. :/

I"m not using jealousy to get her back, I used it to gauge a few things, hence why I let is go as quickly as it came. If we do get back together and it crashes and burns again then I"ll know that things just weren"t meant to be but I"ll at least know this time, it wasn"t from anything I...

yes, some light jealousy is fine and as I said, it let me test some waters I wouldn"t normally be able to. While the above seems like it was a long drown out convo, it wasn"t, it was kept short, light hearted and then it was dropped. I made sure not to dwell on it, even though she wanted to at...

Brad honestly....I"m not sure if you want to get back with your ex or not, but you are indeed going about it all wrong. She was seeking your approval even if she didn"t realize it. You don"t have to like the changes in her, but you can tell her if they make her happy then you are happy for...

Well I went out of town this weekend, took a girl friend with me to visit some friends that live about 90minutes south of me. Was an enjoyable time and I took this time to kind of work the situation with my ex a bit. Saturday night we were all sitting around playing Rock Band....my throat has...

Yeah I know, it"s just a constant battle to not blurt everything out to her, tell her how I feel and so on and so forth and it"s just getting harder and harder to deal with. I know the course I"m on is the best one, but there are times when I"m like "Man fuck it...I"m calling her and telling...

She knows my Friday nights are free because I"m on call for work and I stay in for the most part, my saying I was unavailable because of plans would have been known instantly to be a lie hence why I went along with it, otherwise yes I would have said something else all together. All this...

Yeah she canceled, said we would have to reschedule for another time. Sucks....oh well.

Meh, I won"t respond to the trolls comments, most people get what I"m doing this and that"s fine. Anyways, she just called me, said her son is sick and she"s not sure if she"ll make it over or not. I was kinda bumed but I told her I understood and not to worry about it, we"d figure out...

Oh I know I can"t present myself as a totally changed man in 3 weeks, and honestly, I"m not "changed" per say but I am now basically reverted to the state I was 7 or 8 months ago. I"m confident, I"m not insecure and I"m taking charge more of things within my own life and in the world around me...

Mini update, she called me a little bit ago and we talked for about 10 minutes. Tomorrow she"s coming over and is going to chill for a bit and make me cupcakes.

That thought has gone through my head and as well honestly, and I like to think I know her well enough that this isn"t the case. She"s a pretty strait shooter and loyal to a T, if she was fully committed to the other guy then she would be with no other business going on on the side. She"s not an...