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God I love you guys.

Well I "kept" one for over 4 years. Granted, she was a bit crazy, but still.

You all are probably right and I should just shut up and move on. Still can"t get my mind off Steph, should probably put my energy in getting over her instead of stupid mindgames. Thanks guys.

I don"t know. Maybe because I"m an asshole. Maybe for the lulz... Itwillmake her think about how she treated me in ~3.5 of the 4.5 years we spent together. Good fucking job Brad, now I feel sorry for her without having even done it... bravo. God damnit. I think I"d best just beg her to...

Yeah, sounds awesome! I"ll stick to mindfucks for now. Coming up next: We had planned to go to denmark for a week in september. Well that"s obviously not going to happen. When her kids (real assholes at times, 15 and 17 years old) heard that I wouldn"t be coming with them, they said they...

Vim, I think what it boils down to is this: She likes you. She doesn"t see you as a partner, but as a friend. Looks similar to what happened to me... it wasn"t that I was being too "nice", that"s just what made it harder for her to break up with me. Or so people around me say...

Well played sir, well played.

Probably a big mistake, but I showed up at her nail studio (best jokes write themselves, don"t they) yesterday after work to make an appointment for a pedicure. (since I permanently molest my feet by putting them into really tight climbing shoes, might as well do them some good once or twice a...

Word of advice... don"t look in the bowl after taking a shit today. Just don"t.

This is one of the days where I hate Blizzard for not letting euros play on US servers (without bending over backwards). P.S. Sam, roll 20 priests for fear ward, yo. That"ll show them.

Oh man am I ever in the same fucking boat... Saw Steph at the climbing gym today, and everything was just like before we were a couple. Weak knees included. Fuck. Did some small-talk, told her the new haircut isn"t as nice as her old one was (hah!), got "friend"-hugs as a greeting and...

I"d post an update but there"s hardly anything going on worth mentioning. Haven"t seen Steph in almost 3 weeks, and I"m having a really rough time getting over her. Gah. People keep telling me it"s going to get better over time, but instead it keeps getting worse. Tried going out with...

Tits are awesome, it"s just that she has her left shoulder bent back, thus lifting her left boob. I"d hit that.

Haha no In fact I sent her a mindfuck e-mail because I"m a vindictive bitch. "You were right, we should sit down over a cup of coffee some time and talk, I had so much time to think, (insert lots of whiny wah wah here)". Yeah it"s an asshole move but she treated me like shit for 4 years...

Sorry to disrupt but I just heard, 30 minutes ago, that my crazy ex (the 45 year old) is now dating a 32 year old guy. And I can"t stop laughing at that fact. Carry on.

Back on topic, seems like Eomer had it right. Bottom line is, she just didn"t "fall in love", and while our three weeks were nice and fun, something seemed to be missing (to her). That"s a reason I can accept. Being "too nice" is not. The "too nice" thing just made breakin up with me a bit...

I think I"ll just tell the next woman I grow an interest in to not expect any of that bullshit from me, she either wants me, or doesn"t. Going to see howthatgoes, haha.

I think it"s about time someone bans Sam for his own good. The guy won"t listen to rational explanations, he"ll always come back with "HIGHEREST BURST DPS LOL I WIN" no matter what numbers you throw at him. FOR FUCKS SAKE when I was still playing EQ and raiding, I put in over 40 hours per...

Hah. Same here, I mean, I"m not getting younger. The ridiculous part is that Steph once said she"s tired of looking around, just wants to settle down, do the "house + 2 kids + dog" thing, and I thought I had finally foundthe right one. Steph"s friend also said that after all the bad luck...

Well your analogy is a bit off... but I think I get the point. (I"m not moderately attractive, we weren"t drunk, it was not just one weekend) The "I still like you, let"s not avoid each other" proposal was from her, so she should not be uncomfortable around me. Either way, I"ll wait a few...

Her avoiding me because it would make her feel more uncomfortable about the situation would mean, to me, that she"s not sure she did the right thing. Ah whatever. When we talked on the phone on friday (when she dumped me), we agreed tonotavoid each other, so that would be stupid, but you may...

Le sigh. It"s a moot point anyway because she didn"t show up. Her friend said she won"t come because she isn"t feeling good. I debated calling her, but came to the conclusion that this might be the uber-stupidest thing I could possibly do. Oh and on the other ex (the crazy 45 year old...

They are closer to her than they are to me anyway, so it"s pretty clear which side they"d pick. I"m not that stupid Cold Confrontationit is then. I can be a stone-cold bitch if I really want to. I"ll see if there"s still a chance. Ithinkshe has feelings for me still, but fears they aren"t...

Movie was alright for my first "date", though we watched it at my place and we had been hanging out in the climbing gym and so on beforehand. Ah well I don"t know. Making out and fondling breasts worked fine on our first date. But on the other hand, look where I am now... (though the physical...

I think I have that movie somewhere and shall watch it tonight to educate myself. Thanks for clearing that up. Yeah maybe I treated her too nice, but in my imaginary world, treating your partner nice is somewhat expected... ah fuck.

I used to be the same way honestly... Whenever I had a new girlfriend, I fell off the face of earth and only got burped back up after she dumped me. I managed to get rid of that annoying behaviour over time though. But between 17 and 25, guilty as charged. I"d say leave him be, and be...

Guess your plan sounds good. It really doesn"t look like she"s putting inanyeffort to meet you. Might be a cultural thing too... I don"t know. My GF was really busy in the 3 weeks we dated, but when we had plans she stuck to them because she wanted to see me, no matter how late it would...

I don"t get it - language barrier.

Awesome

Well it"s not like nobody told me to keep it cool. I watched my actions around her, to not freak her out... I tried to be really careful. Never clingy, or anything. Always giving her room for other people and hobbies. We were also both trying to "take it slow", and see where things go. I...

Maybe. She said she felt like she didn"t give back enough, or wasn"t able to give back enough. Fuck that, I was happy with what I got back. I really fail at handling the situation right now. Had about 5 hours of sleep, and slowly it"s starting to sink in. One would think that at age 35...

pedestal... uh I don"t really think so. Or I might be so full of fail that I didn"t notice, but I like to think I"m not. What I"m guilty of is complimenting on her beauty, but not more than anyone would. You know, the "you"re looking good today" when I picked her up thing. (no, not every...

Yeah, I took that advice (or at least, tried to). It"s not like I bounced around her drooling all over myself all the time. On the other hand, she told me I"m "too much of a nice guy" and that makes it "even harder for her". Well if it"s so fucking hard to break up with me, don"t do it

Well I did hold back. We both had our free time after the initial week, she said that was ok. She also said that the behaviour I showed should be normal in a relationship, it"s just that she seems unable to give anything back. Her words. She also said she"s sorry like 20 times. She likes me a...

Aaaahhh fuck. I have amazing news, well, sort of. Stephanie was going to come to my place tonight. Instead, she called. She had been at my door and was afraid to come in, decided to tell me on the phone instead, to make it easier for both of us. You know what"s coming so I"ll make it...

Man and I thought I used to have a fucked up gf. Grab that puppy and RUUUUUNNNN!

Same, same. The ex has been quiet in the last 12 days. No contact of any kind. And Stephanie is still all kinds of awesome. My life has taken a turn for the better.

I wish I could give you more +internets. I really do.

Point being, we were in my town already and she drove back to her place to get something, late at night, and came back. She could have just said "you can come to my place instead" or "ah well. I have to go home and will see you some other day". It"s not like we live far apart, but it"s still...

No, it wasn"t for 4 days straight. But close. Fri -> she stayed with me over the night, Sat -> met in the afternoon, stayed at her place for the night, Sun -> left around noon and went to work, talked a bit on the phone when I came back Mon -> met at her place to talk and stay overnight...