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Oh my... it keeps getting better and better. I pick up Jessie today to take a walk through town and later hit the cinema. While we"re sitting over coffee at some place she tells me she"s not so sure about us any more, and she needs some time. But she still wants to hang out with me and do...

She sounds fun to be around, as long as she can laugh at herself a healthy amount and not take her little mishaps too serious. Congratulations

Good to hear that Eomer, your girl seems cool and sane. Let"s hope she stays that way. Cinema postponed to tomorrow because Jessie isn"t feeling well at all. Told you she had some issues and she"s aware of them... well today she had a few ... "stiffening up" moments (damned if I know the...

The funny thing is, now that everything is settled and cleaned up (unless the ex starts more stalking crazy shit), Jessie told me she"s not sure she can develop the same feelings she had during the first two days again. My fault because of saturday night"s fiasco, I"ll take the blame for...

Fourtyfuckingfive... in the end, I"ve really gone and found a younger woman now, just like she"s always told me I would. What she didn"t tell me is that she"d drive me away from her with crazy stuff first. Jessie does have her issues/problems, but at least she"s aware of them and tries to...

That"s what makes Jessie awesome... most girls would have run and said "call me after you cleaned your shit up". And after tuesday night I"m somewhat confident that she"s just kinky enough for pics. This belongs on the screenshots banner imo.

Well yeah, I guess going down to let her talk and then send her away wasn"t the best solution, but as you noted she would have found a way in and then would have started yelling at my apartment door, ruining a romantic evening even more than she already did. Keeping the ex away from Jessie was...

Been a while, so here"s an update from me: After work on tuesday I called up Jessie and we planned to take a walk and have some ice cream. I arrive to pick her up and *surprise surprise* she says we could also go to my place, and she"d love to spend the night if I wouldn"t mind. So...

I plan to do that from now on (or just shut it off completely).

You"re right Dabamf, I let the ex control my behaviour too much. Jessie is really cool about the ex sending me text messages (for now at least). Only happens at the worst of times (i.e. during a quite encouraging period of groping and kissing and stuff). I"m sure it will end soon. I"m not...

Oh man I"m ruining my +internets with this thread but I totally deserve that. I think I made it clear enough to her that there"s no more chance for us. She seems to get it now. I"m also quite sure she knows I will be seeing the new girl. Gonna stop beating myself up over stuff and just...

I wasn"t going to tell her to not call again... if she picked up, I"d have asked her why she called and improvised from there. Anyway, I hope I"ve been enough of an asshole towards the ex now to get it across. I don"t like acting like an asshole (who does), and want it to be done once and for...

I told her numerous times that there is no chance, but I guess I didn"t make it clear enough to her - or she just doesn"t want to believe it. Anyway, the car thing... it"s easier here in Germany. Basically every city or district has a letter code that starts the license plate, consisting of...

Thanks a bunch I was working at my 2nd job this afternoon. The ex texted me asking if it was ok if she showed up. I said "fine with me", she wanted to talk. We were doing some petty smalltalk and I was trying to make it sink into her that whatever happens, I don"t see us getting back...

Sent Jessie a message to apologize this morning and we talked on the phone for ~90 minutes. Made me feel much better overall. She cheered me up really good. Wouldn"t have expected that after last night really. She also mentioned in passing that she likes to suck. +1 awesomeness points...

You"re so right... I feel like total shit today. I"m sitting here crying like a baby... didn"t think it would get to me that much. God damnit.

Oh i see, this is where i messed up. Anyway, had a great day today, picnic + walk through the woods to a huge climbing area, hanging out, making out, fondling of breasts, and laying around naked. (Thanks Wolfen and the other PGT posters for the enormous amount of relief you provide)...

re: kegkilla I think you should talk to the guy and make it clear that if you are not allowed to attend your sister"s wedding, she"s not getting married to the douche that"s trying this stunt. Then punch him in the stomach, knee his nuts, and pull out your baseball bats (2). Good luck.

not happening, she had surgery last week (that "lost my unborn child" stuff) and is basically off limits for another week. just got off the phone with her too, talked about kids and stuff. she seemed much less crazy than the first impression after that topic came up was. I sure hope she...

Well the picnic thing was her idea... she doesn"t seem "crazy crazy", more like the "silent crazy" type... which can be even worse.

She sounded normal at first, but the more I think about it the more I fear she needs a sperm donor. Picnic at the lake tomorrow. I"m such a helpless romantic.

Inc livejournal, skip if it bores you. So since nothing developed on the climbing front, I pretty much did nothing this week except sit around and watch TV / play PS3. I caught a fucking cold again and my sinuses are full of green-yellow goo. Whee, good times. Yesterday, in a case of...

Back story in spoiler (quote from pg7 of this thread) Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Since things don"t really seem to work out on the dating front (climber_girl seems to be too busy IRL to even call, don"t think she"s got the time for a relationship), I considered contacting the girl...

Awesome My ex keeps texting me about how she wants us to give it another try, she"s started taiji and getting acupuncture to help get over her hormone induced mood swings, but I told her I can"t love her any more after how she insulted me. On the one hand it hurts to be like that towards...

Looks like luck took a swing my way. Went to the gym for some cardio today, and ran into the other girl from tuesday, the one she was climbing with most of the time. Since she also had ordered something, I talked to her a bit, said "too bad climbergirl can"t make it on tuesday... you know what...

She"s hot, I"d hit it. Some people obviously are into whales. To each their own I say, I like my girls thin and sporty.

Sucks... no phone number, but I got the products she ordered instead. Now I"ll have to sit on my hands and wait. Sometimes when things go right they really go wrong somehow. Anyhow, I guess I"ll meet one or two of her female friends over the weekend ("meet" as in "walk by, say hi, check out...

ah well I forgot to include a few facts. he knows I ran into her, he was there. he also knows she ordered stuff. well... "ordered". he"s in charge of production and he told me that "we have a problem" so I think he"s on my side somewhat normally, she would/should have ordered through him...

That"s the plan. I just fear my coworker might say "I got her number, I"ll call and let her know." or "I"ll tell my friend to tell her it"s out." both resulting in me not getting said number.

Thereisa system, but she never put her number in. She"s not an existing customer in our database. Friend of a friend of a friend. Ah well, I"ll just tell my coworker I like her and beg him for her number on my knees if I have to. I think his friend (the one we had dinner at) sort of wants me...

I understand. Odd though, sunday was the first time we met. Why would she make herself available as an emotional tampon for somebody she barely knows... Well the order was placed outside business hours, while taking a smoke break during climbing... she said "hey you work at the same place as...

I need a second opinion on the climber girl, if you"d be so kind. I"ll recap some, so you don"t have to dig through the last pages: - met her on sunday at a friend"s place. they were cooking dinner for us. - she smiled at me all evening (being the gentleman I am, I smiled back. probably...

No, I"m the one whowasdating the 45 year old and is now eager to tap that 26 year old. Counted 2 tattoos so far. There might be more as I unpack (if I ever get that far and don"t fuck it up). It"s funny though. Met her on sunday, had never seen her at the climbing gym, and today she shows...

Update. Phone call. Done. She insulted me again, accusations like "if I died you"d jump onto the next one like it"s nothing" and stuff... wants her ring back (she gave it to me the last time we broke up, or the time before that, I forgot). I borrowed her some money a while ago and I asked...

She asked for a decision today. Again, via text message. I got over 100 of them since the friday fiasco. My response was that however much I want to make it work between us, I just don"t think we could each adapt enough to meet the other"s demands. Quite the diplomat I am! She started...

Oh what a wonderful week I"ve had: Been on a small fair for my company from thursday to sunday. It"s not far away so we don"t get to stay in the hotel with the other people, but drive home instead ("we" are a coworker (male) and me). Except for Saturday. I don"t know how he managed to pull it...

If it"s real, (and at this time I have no reason to doubt it), it"s fucking sad. Don"t do anything stupid. Get a bunch of hugs from some good friends too, it helps.

At that age, just not acting like a tool should be plenty enough. And watch out, when they get close to 30 their inner clock goes batshit insane... kids + SUV + dog + all that shit. Need more details for better advice.

"Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all. Good luck.

I can"t believe how prude you guys are. At least give Grobbee"s idea a shot before you dismiss it. There"s nothing wrong at all with what he suggested. One of my ex girlfriends sucked me off and kissed me, sharing what I gave her. I"m still alive, obviously. Another one (the freak with...