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Yeah, we"ve "known" each other for ~8 weeks, but without much interaction. We"re basically on the 4th day now and I am sticking with the advice of taking things slow. Didn"t stop me from driving to her place at 11pm last night after work. Did the "sit in front of the tv and talk" thing, then...

28 Oh haha well played One more good thing about her: zero baggage. No damaged goods from what I can gather so far. Still can"t believe I"ve finally met a sane, mentally stable woman (who is not married or similar yet).

Possible, but I don"t think that was the motivation behind it. I knew he had been hanging out with her, in fact I had already thought they"d be together soon. Never brought it up myself though. She showed up at my place on saturday as planned and said "I have to tell you something, but maybe...

I don"t think she really cares about what kind of job I have at all. But I"m also quite sure she"d support me in any way she could if anything blows up. Just like I would do for her. Talking to other girls is not something that bothers her. She"s not that insecure. In fact, she"s probably the...

No worries, I won"t. I"ll let her say it first. Sticking to "I feel good when you"re with me" and similar for a while. She told me that some guy I know from seeing + smalltalk called her and showed his interest in her... and she told him she"s not interested. It"s going to be a bit awkward...

I"d call what I listed as "having a good feeling about things in general", but f semantics. So what is love by your definition then? Waking up next to her and just watching her sleep, feeling lots of happiness deep inside? Being able to talk about just anything without feeling awkward...

Yeah I know that at least part of the feeling is all that "fresh and new and exciting" stuff. But there"s also a substantial amount of "this one is not fucked up in the head, has a steady well-paying job, is very down-to-earth, funny, not easily offended or upset, and really knows how to excite...

Oh I am slowing down, no worries. It"s just that we share so many views it"s almost scary. We really have a lot in common. Hobbies, music we like, general thoughts about life or people, that sort of stuff. I"ll wait for her to say it first, just to be sure

Just wanted to update that I have still found no traces of crazy in Stehpanie. God I think I love her. I"ll wait with telling her that though.

Thanks. I"ll have to test the waters for the rightfully earned reward first, can"t promise it though. Hell I don"t even have a shabby pixelated cellphone pic for myself to drool over while she"s not here

It"s 9 AM here and she just left ~30 mins ago had 2 hours of sleep last night too! Thanks for all the advice (especially the repeated asskickings which I obviously needed in order to get shit done). edit: nice girl Vatoreus. Well done.

Oh gods. She just asked earlier what I"m doing today, and said she"d be able to stop by for the movie. edit: I guess that"s a good sign. Lucky I got all my stuff cleaned up. I have about 15 minutes tops before she"s here now. Had enough time for another shower before though, and to clean...

Got her number yesterday, called today. Going climbing together with friends on saturday, movie afterwards very possible. It almost sounded like she expected the call already. We only talked for about 10 minutes though (she has a report to finish for work). This gives me one more day to...

have to say, the tablet pc makes your posts even more amusing, in a good way

Oh snap. No. I didn"t consider it a good idea to just blurt out "oh can I have your number" with the others around (that would have looked really stupid), and we were never really alone (well except when getting into our cars). That would have been the best moment for today, but we"re set up...

I can"t believe my luck. There was a movie about the Eiger North Face in the cinema last year or so, and it was released on dvd/bd recently. Saturday, I thought "what the heck" and ordered the BD. It arrived at work today, and I put it on my passenger seat, thinking nothing of it. Went...

Haha

Well you guys basically nailed it (or so I think). After the "I"m not so sure about us anymore" (which was followed by the "o hai let"s fuck"), I sat down to think. And I didn"t actively pursue the matter, i.e. try to "win her back", because frankly, with all the psycho shit in her head, it...

Uhhhh I don"t give a shit about her. I had no idea why the fuck she"d ask me, I wasn"t upset by the question, I just found it odd. I laughed myself to sleep that night.

I"ll break the combo with a funny story from last night. Jessie, the psycho girl, contacted me. Sent a mail and asked my opinion about her new boyfriend wanting to share her with his best buddy. She wasn"t sure about it... Why she came to me, I have no idea. In the end, it just helped...

I prefer them small and pointy myself. Got lucky so far.

God damn it and it was almost finished too

Will do. 1st step is to get some sort of contact information out of her. It gets old to set up stuff with other people and just hope they"ll drag her along. That will also be the biggest hurdle. If I do get her number or e-mail, it"s straight sailing from there.

Wow, don"t know what to say... thanks Aychamo, Dabamf, Tenks, and the others. I can be (or act) really confident around people... as long as I"m not romantically interested in them, it seems. I also manage to talk in coherent sentences and joke around a bit, give little compliments, but...

Excellent advice if I weren"t so shy (i.e. a huge pussy). Guess I"ll have tojust do it.

You"re right. Maybe she never got my number at all... next time I meet her I"m asking if she has it, and to just call if she needs someone to go climb with (because sports is so innocent and pure ) Her reaction to that should also give me a better idea of where I stand.

Finally met Stephanie again after 6 weeks of nothing. Weather was ass, perfect day for the climbing gym. In true idiot fashion, I managed tonotask for her number so we can climb outside together sometime. Fucking amazing. I"m so stupid it actually hurts. On the other hand, maybe going slow...

Funny you should mention that, I thought the same In fact, my best buddy and his twin sister "found" me someone. That is, his sister thought it would be a great idea, he did not approve though. They know some girl who lives literally a stone throw away, same street even. Short hair, tattoos...

I"ll have to explain a bit here. She had initially wanted to go alpine climbing this weekend, with some guy. Some time this week when we were talking on the phone I told her I"d be going climbing on saturday and she said she"d come along. The other guy cancelled their trip. I said that"s...

We established that she"s all amounts of crazy a few pages ago These 22 calls just mean we were right. Oh and she must have my cellphone number, I called her from that once or twice, and if she"s as crazy as I believe, she"d absolutely make sure to write it down / save it. But there was...

So uh... hell my shit seems pretty minor to what Sharmai is pulling off..... anyway, tried to call Jessie this morning for the climbing trip, she didn"t answer, so I went with some other people. Just got home 10 or 11 hours later and there were 22 calls Tried to call back and ask why...

I see what you two are getting at, but it wasn"t that bad (just returned from the party). Took place in his garden, all we said to each other was "hi" and "bye" basically, and it wasn"t as awkward as I thought it would be. We just hung out in different parts of the garden, with different people...

A restraining order because my ex goes to the same birthday party? Are you fucking serious? It"s not like she"s throwing rocks or knives at me. I can just sit there and ignore her, and have a fun evening with my friends.

Yeah, what they said. I"ll be going to my best friend"s birthday party tonight and my ex (the crazy 45 year old) will be there (they are coworkers, well all 3 of us are, but the two work on a remote site, see each other every day). Still undecided if I should get hammered and puke in his...

Oh you guys If you are a "couple" (for lack of a better word), she"ll have you there anyway. If you"re not, you might try talking to her. May backfire though, resulting in you not getting in her pants at all. Maybe something like "aren"t you afraid he"s going to try and talk you into another...

Oh no, not at all. It"s just that most of them seem to be "ex boyfriends" of some sort. Dabamf, the baby was from a coworker she"s been banging (he"s married + kid), wasn"t planned, yadda yadda. Anyway, nothing good can come of this. Going to concentrate my efforts elsewhere.

What"s funny is that I just got off the phone with her, and asked her why she had sex with me last night when she was unsure about her feelings. I seem to be taking things way too serious, she says those two things are not connected at all. So she wants to be friends and hang out, and maybe...

Not going to quote everyone who asked, but yes, she"s in therapy. PTSD indeed it seems, established an eating disorder at age of 12 when her parents got divorced. Been raped while under meds some years ago too. One of her ex boyfriends beat her up when he was drunk. Oh and she lost her kid about...

mental I guess. Shizophrenic sounds about right too. Too bad, she"s really nice most of the time, but the whole "I"m not sure about my feelings" and 3 hours later "Oh hai let"s fuck" thing also seems odd. Not that I"m complaining... Just looks like she doesn"t know what she wants. (yeah I...

A few hours later she called and wanted to hang out. So we watched some TV, fucked a bit, watched more TV, and in the end I gave her a ride home. Doesn"t sound too bad right? Yeah, that"s because I haven"t told you about the 15-minute-periods where she would be sitting there just staring...