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I"d like to say I had advice for that but I find myself when I think about it, I don"t have any clue when the right time is to tell someone how you feel...but maybe that"s because there is no "right" time for it, there is no preset time when you need to bring it up....just whenever you are...

I"m starting off my day agreeing with Arkk.....this can"t bode well.

It doesn"t make my life any harder or easier really. I originally had it because it was easier to give updates on my kids to me whole family. My nearest family member is two states away so to me this was easier. Then I began adding friends and peeps from school I hung out with from back home...

Yep, my history sucked pretty hard as far as putting my eggs in one basket and imploding when that basket was crushed. I"ve done both, multiple...as long as all are on the same page...is the way to go and it helps with confidence to a level that I can"t really explain. And currently there are...

If you can lose your job over seeing her then stop fucking seeing her before you get attached to her.

rofl +1, I"m the same way...wtf it"s just facebook people.

FUCKING BRAVO SIR +1 for you

Eh I"m fine with it, it could be considered a mistake I supposed if I wasn"t 100% confident I could fall for something she might pull and I don"t live on my facebook, fuck I"m still friends on there still with people I wouldn"t mind seeing get hit by a bus at some point. I"ll probably take her...

For sure, don"t let anything she does suck you back in unless shes willing to do it on your terms and your terms alone, only you can be the judge of a situation like that. You are on the right track though, keep it up, don"t let her texts out of no where seeking attention from you spark a...

Well done Dianetics, well done.

Rofl

Selfish bitch

Well I called her, she seemed happy to hear from me but she was kinda out of it it sounded, she said she had been in bed all day, convo seemed, I dunno...not all there I guess. I won"t be contacting her again until she hits me up, it"s how I"ve been doing things, she"s told me tons of times how...

Take away the glasses, a bit more hair on top and brown/blond hair and yea pretty much I"m George lol.

LoL I"m not BIG per say, I am over weight though that"s for sure...and bald. But whatever, I"m not arguing the results I"ve had with this girl so far so I"m not about to start now. And I was kinda treading the line of thinking myself anytime I"ve called she"s sounded ridiculously happy to...

K well, updates and then advice needed. /livejournal Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Last night I got home from work and do a few things, log onto my computer and see hair dresser online, her name is Michele, so from here on out this is how I"ll refer to her. We start talking and we...

Stop talking to her, I know first hand what "friends" bullshit means, it may not seem like it, but you"re on the verge of going down a very destructive path if you choose to take it. As for Brad....She said she would dress up for him...in my opinion him telling her to wear whatever she...

I"m not quite sure how to take that....lol I just had a wrench throw into some things...not a bad wrench, just a very unexpected one and odd one. Someone I knew back from high school who is pretty much me...but with a vagina...and much better looking...got a hold of me through facebook and...

As far as Anne, fuck that...you can"t text someone and in teh same text be like "opps" bullshit, she obviously meant to say it...if it was really an "opps" then her ass wouldn"t have sent it in the first place. She"s playing games with you, don"t fall for that trap. Been there done that...

haha, thanks, but honestly I"m not about to fuck someone I"m not committed to at this point and the girls I see know this as well, I"m totally upfront about my intentions and plans I don"t need drama so I make sure to not create drama. K, I went out with Hairdresser today. We met up for...

This. I don"t understand how people DON"T see other people, I don"t even really call it dating until its a committed thing, otherwise we"re hanging out or whatever. Yeah we"ll go out on a "date" but we aren"t "dating". How is this a odd concept for so many, me...the guy who knew absolutely...

Every woman I date knows I am seeing other women, knows as soon as something begins to have tones of getting serious that I"ll let them know. They all still talk to me, because they are playing the field the same as I am. Again, as long as everyone is on the same page it"s honestly the best...

which is why I said should that occur then I"ll switch gears at that time. Until that happens, I"m just going out with women who are cool, whos company I enjoy and seeing if any of them are compatible for the long term...you cant do that in one or two dates and the whole dating world is to...

You"re the one generalizing at this point. The women I"ve slept with I would bet is considerably lower then many in this thread, as soon as something like that is close to happening then yes I will switch gears at that point. Until then there"s nothing wrong with seeing what else is out there.

Um, I"m not fucking a single one of them, and two of them ARE seeing other people as well, seriously, whats the big deal? If there is no commitment then I fully expect them to be seeing other people as well, because I am. I thought this was common practice? I had one girl Iw as seeing tell me...

So because I"m seeing more then one girl at a time, looking for a person I feel comfortable enough to commit to (and who feels the same way with me)...this somehow means I"m not looking for a committed relationship? Your logic is flawed sir.

This. I don"t usually cause waves, but fuck the guy has done a lot to improve upon himself and for you to come in here and bash him and bet on when he will self destruct is childish and petty, not only that, shows how little of a person you truly are. Anyways...this thread may have turned...

hahaha nice

Rofl that"s awesome. I mean...it kinda sucks for ya...but that shit is gold.

good luck to you with the divorce, even though you"ll be grateful for it in a few years (assuming you"re not now) they still suck ass to go though. Last night the girl that"s been my friend and I took soup to, she and I went to the MoA and fucked around with this Magic Quest live action game...

No problem, the two major deal breakers I have are; 1. Issues with my having kids 2. My being divorced If either of those two things are issues, I move on. Those are two things I can not change (not that I would ever change the fact I have kids, my kids fucking rule) so why waste the time...

Honestly, the only time I think about it for the most part is when I post about it here. I get bored at work since I pretty much live here thus, I post on forums, this being one of those sports, I could very well talk about other things more then this on here, yet as soon as I navigate away from...

While online looking up some comedy clubs here in the cities she messaged me on yahoo and asked what I had found out. We decided to hit Tiger Sushi at the MoA and then the comedy club there. I gave her the options of that or Acme which si up in the warehouse district, an area neither of us knows...

Got home a little bit ago and decided to call her, she seemed really happy I called. We talked for awhile about various things, I seem to make her laugh a shit ton, so that seems like a good sign. We talked about what we would like to do this weekend, seems like we"re getting Sushi and a...

hahaha, come on, "Eomer"ing it up" was classic.

LoL, get said pics and post away.

if you have said pictures, please by all means post them so we may judge if she looks good for a 45 year old or not. Unless she obviously doesn"t....then forget I said anything.

I work 6 days a week, at least 10-12 hours a day, my schedule isn"t hard to figure out once you"ve known me for a few weeks. Hell even when the hairdresser texted me last night her first text was "only 3 hours to go and you"re free from work!" and I"ve only been talking to her for what...12...

I feel you as far as the woman knowing your schedule and life enough to know you don"t have anything else going on. Recent Ex was that way, and still is to an extent, she didn"t bank on me moving on though so when I said I had plans it go to the point where I actually really did have plans...

See I think I"ve kinda come across a different "I dont care" attitude and that"s, "I"ve nothing to really lose here, I never expected it to get this far" attitude. Should she pack up her shit and go it"s fine, I expected it at some point. Don"t mistake this for lack of self confidence, my...