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LoL I"ll say it again...it"s weird. I didn"t sit here making a pros/con"s list and possible outcomes of every thing involving her, her school, my ex and the odds of them knowing each other and what would happen if they both drank red kool-aid on the 3rd Sunday of a month under a full moon while...

like I said, I don"t bring up ex"s in conversations with women so it wont get brought up.

She"s in the burbs, only one high school there..high school at least...in her town, I know this from Recent-Ex telling me, if you want to go to other schools here outside your district it"s fairly expensive. I mean there is a small chance of her going elsewhere, but not to high. On an...

no, I know they went to school together because she told me shes lived in her town all her life and there is only a year age difference between her and Recent-Ex. I don"t talk about ex"s with women I"m dating unless I"m in an actual relationship with them and they request the information.

Man honestly..the Great Clips girl....I would have thought was way out of my league, if I could seal that deal...fuck. I shot her a text this afternoon, It"s looking like we"re meeting up on Saturday....but shit got weird. She lives near Recent-Ex...they went to school together. I live in...

I"ve no problem with dating around as long as everyone is on the same page, I"ve had my heart broken, I"ve no interest in doing that to someone else. I have a hard time cutting off ties with anyone regardless of what happened...well within reason. Even Recent-Ex I still talk to, am kind of...

So Sunday I was in a rush to get over to a female friends place before I had dinner with Nodrama-Ex. female friend was sick so I stopped off at Olive Garden and picked up some of her favorite soup to take over to her and on the way I had to stop and get what little hair I have left cut. So I...

I guess comparing may have been a poor choice of words, just when something happens it"s more of a "well that"s different from what I was used to" type of thing, I dunno it"s hard to explain. I"m fine with it in all because like I said, everything else has faded, I figured this would just be the...

K so I"m running into a few problems. I"m comparing girls to Recent-ex and finding flaws I wish weren"t there when I compare them...even with Nodrama-ex, who by all accounts is pretty great...she"s got the "I need to please my guy" mentality which is pretty fucking sweet really as long as it...

Eomer, I"ll be the first one to admit I used to be a needy bitch, I have experience with it, I lived it for a long time, the way we give our women in this thread fakes names, if women had their own thats just what my name would have been "needy bitch" You came off as a needy guy who was...

LoL she knew going into the evening I couldn"t stay out late due to having to go home to finish up some work before I went in today, it"s one reason we met up early. It wasn"t a game I was trying to play so much as me wanting to keep my job when I go in this morning. Like I said, she knew...

Alright so did an early dinner this afternoon/evening with Nodrama ex. It went well, she got out of her study early so I picked her up and we went out for some food, talked some things over, it was pretty productive. I told her I had things to do (I didn"t really, other then a bit of work for...

I wouldn"t say creeped out (close...but not quite there for me) but I would say you did some pretty bad shit in those few texts. You came off as needy....WAY to needy. There"s confidence, and there"s obsession. You"re not the first and you come off flirting with the second. Let it go and move...

Yeah it sounds like a case of going out with a guy she seemed to like to see what was better out there then the guy she was with...and don"t take offense to it, but at the moment you didn"t strike her as that guy. just leave her alone, she knows your interested, don"t come off as needy and try...

Non drama ex texted me this morning complaining how the hospital food sucks for where she"s having her sleep study done, I took that as an opening to dinner tonight when she gets done with it. She accepted the invite, said it sounded wonderful and was looking forward to some real food...

Well I had my kids this weekend, they live a good distance away and I hadn"t seen them in a few months she called and we talked for a few minutes I told her I couldn"t talk long due to wanting to spend time with them and not on the phone. She just hit me with it, "Look, I know I made some...

Meh, had there been any circumstances behind it other then me bring up to her that maybe wasn"t a good time for either of us to be dating, (or at least it wasn"t for me) I might be inclined to agree. I"ll still be seeing the other ones I"ve been going out with, I"m not dropping anyone for anyone...

So another of my ex"s came into the picture recently. This one and I broke up for no other reason then we had no time for relationships. Seriously was no bad drama or anything we both just came to the decision that a relationship wasn"t best for either of us at the time. We both liked each other...

I"ll third what Dabamf said as well. The past is just that, if you can"t move on from it you"re only fucking yourself over and possibly a good thing with someone else. Get over it, move on, if it happens again, learn what you can from it and rinse/repeat. Soooooo yeah anyways. My ex told...

Yeah I know, that"s why I threw in the edit, I started writing that post then was interrupted by customers while at work, then finished it while you guys had already replied. Sounds like shit went well though, that"s awesome.

Yeah texting while out on a first date is pretty unacceptable in my eyes too and wouldn"t be acceptable until much, MUCH later and even then, only a quick one here and there in cases where it may be needed. If a girl is out with me...she"s out with ME, not me and someone on her phone as well...

I noted it because to me, it felt odd, not because I was like "oh noz Im falling for you againz" yeah like I said, I have lingering feelings for her, but I do for my ex wife too...doesn"t mean I would grab her from the path of a speeding car. -shrugs- and yes, my washer and dryer is indeed...

True enough, I see your point on the first part, I still see it as the situation was still to shitty to get into and she moved on, which I don"t blame her for ultimately, I would have too, I was a pretty big douche for awhile...but I do see what you mean. However she was already seeing the other...

This. I"m not some internet tough guy, I"ve been pretty open and upfront about shit, I"m not about to do otherwise at this point.

-shrugs- If I don"t talk to her for another 3 or 4 weeks I"m fine with it lol she just called me actually asking if I wanted to do something on my day off, I told her no. If I was overly attached I would have said hell yea. As it stands I"m probably going out with someone else that night.

She didn"t choose him over me, we broke up, a month later she started seeing someone else. People see others after they break up with them and I"m not holding out on her, I"m out there, I"m seeing other people and I am open to someone filling that roll eventually. I"m not dropping anything to...

My ex came over today, I was nervous about it...old feelings and such. She went out to lunch and caught up on things, we haven"t talked pretty much at all in the last three or four weeks. She"s the one that contacted me asking me if I wanted to go out. We had a nice lunch, she brought her...

It"s true to an extent. When proposing going out you want to give options, two usually. This leaves it open to her to pick something she likes while at the same time doing something you like. If he had said "well what would you like to do?" is him not being confident or indecisive. as it stands...

Agreed.

damn 41 and looked 30"ish? I"m almost tempted to tell you to rip into it just for the short term and see what kind of fun you could have, cougars can be awesome more so when they are as outgoing as you said she was. lol Good luck with Charlene, that"s going to be a tough one to crack from all...

You"ll always be reminded of her dude, I"ve had 3 major relationships in my time, on the way home from work last night I was flipping through the radio and heard songs that reminded me of each of them. It happens and will continue to happen. Of those three relationships I had, only one would...

-shrugs- I"ve been on the opposite end, had a girl call me I had no interest in, it was fucking awkward. Also I don"t know about his sister in-law, but i fI have friends interested in other friends, I wont give out their number without asking them first to make sure they are interested. If...

there"s a problem with that. If he gets a number from his in-law and the girl isn"t interested that"s one awkward fucking conversation you just blundered your way into. You mentioned the whole women talking about everything to one another, this is what I was getting at. It"s not like I"m...

Honestly, unless they are going on a month long honeymoon I would wait till they got back before I had her do it.

LoL, I agree, you said they were both good looking, wtf and go with the one you had a connection with. If you want an actual relationship....you kind of need a connection. Unless you want to get with her and end up in the same endless cycle you"re in now. I mean it COULD be different, but why...

Yeah, I just wasn"t sure how often the sister in-law talked to them or not was my line of thinking. But either way, he stands to lose nothing from having her look into it casually I"m thinking. I"d give it a week probably before I had her do it, assuming he hears nothing first.

I still after all this time fail to see the reasoning behind dickheaded responses. anyways... If you trust your sister in-law with it, have her nose around to see if either of them were interested in you. Can"t hurt and you only stand to gain from it.

LoL grats man

Fuck I feel depressed now.

Arkk, leave the dude alone for fucks sake. Shit he doesn"t get help people dog him, he gets help and people dog him. This thread has turned into live journal as much as it has about women, let him talk about whatever he wants as long as it helps him in the end.