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Yes because being happy with someone you are content to spend your life with, having a family and have stability in your life....fuck, the poor guy must be dieing inside.

Cutlery, kudos to you on your successful relationship....and at the same time....fuck you for it as well.

Yeah, I"m seeing more and more the "I say one thing and mean another" stuff. The thing is, with her other past relationships, shes had no issue telling the guy why and what for when things ended. I fail to see why I would be any different but I seem to spark all the awesome circumstances with...

Doubtful, she found out the guy was married. Not ruling anything out and that thought crossed my mind too it"s just from everything I know about her, her behavior isn"t adding up...she"s very upfront and blunt about...well...everything but anything is possible I suppose. Either way, it"s...

This wasn"t even internet dating, this was a girl I went to school with and looked me up on Facebook. We kinda connected and were in the process of getting to know one another before we decided on what we were going to do with things. Both of us just came out of crap relationship circumstances...

Girl I was talking to just up and stopped talking to me in the middle of talking to me through texts the other night. Nothing unusual was being talked about, we were talking about pain killers as I currently have some fractured ribs and she was giving em advice on how to take them for fast...

Just give it time, if you"re really that interested in her just enjoy where you are now. She knows you want more, you"ve made it clear and honestly if you really like her as much as you say you do, do you really want to feel like you pressured her into something she wasn"t ready for? Because...

Mainly just from past experiences really. As stupid/corny or retarded as it sounds, I will acknowledge if a girl is physically hot or not, but I don"t develop an attraction until I get to know them. The main way what you asked happens is in the case of my recent ex, we found each other...

yeah Dabamf, those words did kinda float through my head. The shitty part about it is I still care for her, she"s going to get hurt and while I wont say I told her so....I"m not going to be there to mop up her tears so to speak. As for what Eomer is saying, I guess let me give my take...

Thanks Lus, I didn"t change just to make things work with her, granted she was what opened my eyes to the need to do so, but it was for me too. I like who I am now for the most part. My ex as it turns out...is semi retarded it seems. As I started before my friend went through with her plan to...

Well I"m not discouraged so much, a bit down that things didn"t manage to work out but I"m okay with starting over...and I"m not THAT old...I turn 29 this November....just at the moment I"m coming off feeling beaten up and slapped around emotionally so I feel kinda worn out from it all....it...

Well me and the ex are just that....ex"s. She decided for now she wants to pursue shit with this other guy, shes goin out to bang em this weekend. Whatever at least I can say I tried and I came out a better person from it all. Yeah it sucks but -meh- Started talking to a girl on OKCupid...

If you know they are faults and flaws, and acknowledge them as this...why not work on them and fix them instead of just saying, "this is what"s wrong with me, accept it." Well have them, but just living with them isn"t good by any stretch,

Bingo. Nothing is more unattractive to a woman then a guy who has no confidence...no confidence leads to insecurities and at that point, it"s game over.

Nice guys don"t finish last, it"s just they are the ones more vocal about it when they get hurt, dumped or things don"t turn out well. Dickheads simply don"t care, there"s a big difference. You can be a nice guy without being "that guy".

Go in expecting to fail and you will, stay positive man.

She"s the one that contacted you, she"s the one that put herself out there and she"s the one that just gave you all the control. Roll with it and see what happen and yes you just need to be yourself, being something else will just bite you in the ass later. Sorry if that"s basic advice you...

Thanks There is still a lot of work to do, it"s not going to be something that"s going to happen overnight but I am now 100% confident that it WILL happen eventually. We both have somethings that need to be worked through and we acknowledged them last night. We both admitted where both went...

Ex came over tonight, we talked about a lot of things some were good, some not so much. At the end of the night we took a long look at one another and she said to me she was giving me a chance and we are going to move with it very slowly. She can see if things stay the way they are now with my...

Yeah it IS kinda weird you don"t like kissing Brad, I"m pretty sure most any woman while they say will understand will eventually develop insecurities about the whole thing at some point. And I agree, going back and forth about Brads issues isn"t really accomplishing anything, all that"s been...

LoL, well I"m not in high school and I"m not interested in revenge.....as well there isn"t really anything to get revenge for. Was finally able to get my friend to talk to me last night about what she"s doing, she still doing everything but so far I have her talked down to "Well I"ll just send...

I know about the support thing for her and her son, i came to the realization awhile ago. I"m fine with being friends with her, but that friendship is being toned down a lot. I"ll be there for her as much as I am for any of my other friends, special treatment has worn out. You"re right, I do...

You must have missed my last post about my getting past things and moving on and seeing someone else? yea.....that said I do still love her, that isn"t going away anytime soon, and I don"t give her anything, when we hang out, we just hang out, that"s it. I"m getting zero from her and she"s...

There"s not a lot I can do, if and when she is ready she will make it apparent I know that. I"m not going to lie, she"s a bit messed up in the head with her meds she is on for her depression and I think she"s at a point where she"s not sure about ANYTHING in her life much less "us". Do I...

Yeah I dunno, I"m just kinda freaking out about it all in general because depending on which way it goes....it could wipe out a lot of hard work on my part. My friend has just lost it though, she wont answer my calls even at the moment, could be because I called her a psycho..(for me any name...

Ex came over and stayed the night last night, we had dinner, took her son to the park and just relaxed. Had a nice time, nothing went beyond the friends barrier though so not much to report. I didn"t push anything and we just pretty much enjoyed the evening together. Talked to our mutual...

lol I"d +1 that if you had your rep turned on.

You need to realize there will always be negative things in your life, be they things that directly effect you or not, they will always be there. You cant avoid them, you can however let them not bother you. Stop letting negativity show through, don"t let it get to you...how you handle those...

okay first I have to ask before I start in on anything, do you want to get back with your ex wife or no, and I don"t mean fuck buddies but do you want an actual relationship again?

This is something actually that has been brought up already. Not long ago she asked how work was going and I told her me and my boss had just went rounds about asking me to do things outside my job description (we have a contract about duties...what is and isn"t mine) and that if this was going...

Well at least you had time to brace for it man, still like you said though, that sucks. Best of luck to you in your new search.

Sorry to hear that Tenks, I take it you were together awhile?

I said I wanted too.....but I wasn"t going to though, at this point that would push more then pull...not good. And yes, during our relationship I would do things like that as well. Flowers for no reason, surprise her with dinner, a simple card that said I loved you, even the whole steak thing...

Great advice, I just got off the phone with her, here are some small updates from last night and today. So last night she dropped by, she got off class early and called as I was getting home from work. I missed the call as I was in the shower but the girl knows my schedule so she popped by...

She knows you drink, I don"t see the problem with throwing back a couple as long as you"re not totally sloshed, nothing wrong with drinking socially, going out of your way not to is changing you and how you are, don"t do that, be yourself.

The vast majority of women do not know what they want regardless of all the times they say they do. If they did, threads like this wouldn"t exist and dating would be at least 80% easier and more successful for both sides of the fence. I say 80% because yes, you will get the ass hat that fucks...

LoL of all the things I could lie about, talking about my ex and the process in which I am attempting to get her back isn"t on that list I assure you. Nor is the fact that I"ve taken it upon myself to seek help outside of what I can do for myself and have sought out professional guidance...

Well since I just posted it in screenshots.....there you go.

I corrected my typing, my fault and sorry about that. I had to start and stop writing that like 7 times to help customers, I"m at work at the moment and it"s hard to type out a complete thought before I get interrupted by someone.

I"m glad I have more confidence in myself then you do. The things I"ve done to improve upon myself aren"t temporary, and honestly with or without her they will stay the way they are now, this isn"t something I woke up one day and was like "hey i should do this....maybe that will get her back"...