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Had you read other posts, that was taken from an earlier convo where she said she was hesitant about jumping back into things quickly until she was comfortable that changes she was seeing were permanent and not just something that was temporary, which I understand, I was full emo bitch mode for...

lol, all ideas are appreciated, no reason to knock them. And yes I know she is coming over because she wants to. She stayed over two Sundays ago and things went very well, I hope to continue the trend this Sunday as well...not giving my hopes up on anything happening just going to take it...

Not a bad idea, but she"s coming over to MY place sunday to stay the night, this will be her second stay since the break up.

No, she has a normal persons diet, eats whatever she wants pretty much.Though she likes ramen, fuck who doesn"t? lol

Yeah she"s going to school, no she"s not into parties, yes she has a career shes just working on furthering it.

Sunday I hope I can deliver my package to her....lol, we"ll see, not gonna push it.

small updates....nothing major just writing this helps pass some time while I"m at work and will help me get things off my chest I guess. She"s calling me more now, which is a good thing you would think....it"s making things harder for me though, I just want to tell her how I feel....i know I...

It"s why it was brought up briefly and won"t be again, trust me, I know Again the only reason it was brought up was because she asked and I honestly didn"t think twice about it, used it to gauge a few things then promptly moved the subject to something else. In the end it was good, she just...

Etoilli I am 28, I"ll be 29 this November, my Ex is 24, she will be 25 a week after my birthday. She fits most answers you have on that list, well all of them really except for the ex but that"s in part due to my own fuck ups with pushing her away, otherwise she"s aces on everything else.

Yes and no, sometimes the fault DOES lay at the female end of the spectrum but yes more often then not there IS something on our end that could have been done differently. Bingo, which is why I am confident that I can get my ex back. I at one point displayed the traits she found attractive and...

I dunno I feel like I left the "poor me" attitude behind awhile ago, I own up to my mistakes, my posting here is me admitting that, improving myself and trying to fix it....I don"t want pity, just advice when people have it. If I wanted pity I would still be the lame ass guy I was from before.

Well fuck I hope I don"t come off as the "poor me" type, if I do by all means please kick me in the ass about it. :/

I"m not using jealousy to get her back, I used it to gauge a few things, hence why I let is go as quickly as it came. If we do get back together and it crashes and burns again then I"ll know that things just weren"t meant to be but I"ll at least know this time, it wasn"t from anything I...

yes, some light jealousy is fine and as I said, it let me test some waters I wouldn"t normally be able to. While the above seems like it was a long drown out convo, it wasn"t, it was kept short, light hearted and then it was dropped. I made sure not to dwell on it, even though she wanted to at...

Brad honestly....I"m not sure if you want to get back with your ex or not, but you are indeed going about it all wrong. She was seeking your approval even if she didn"t realize it. You don"t have to like the changes in her, but you can tell her if they make her happy then you are happy for...

Well I went out of town this weekend, took a girl friend with me to visit some friends that live about 90minutes south of me. Was an enjoyable time and I took this time to kind of work the situation with my ex a bit. Saturday night we were all sitting around playing Rock Band....my throat has...

Yeah I know, it"s just a constant battle to not blurt everything out to her, tell her how I feel and so on and so forth and it"s just getting harder and harder to deal with. I know the course I"m on is the best one, but there are times when I"m like "Man fuck it...I"m calling her and telling...

She knows my Friday nights are free because I"m on call for work and I stay in for the most part, my saying I was unavailable because of plans would have been known instantly to be a lie hence why I went along with it, otherwise yes I would have said something else all together. All this...

Yeah she canceled, said we would have to reschedule for another time. Sucks....oh well.

Meh, I won"t respond to the trolls comments, most people get what I"m doing this and that"s fine. Anyways, she just called me, said her son is sick and she"s not sure if she"ll make it over or not. I was kinda bumed but I told her I understood and not to worry about it, we"d figure out...

Oh I know I can"t present myself as a totally changed man in 3 weeks, and honestly, I"m not "changed" per say but I am now basically reverted to the state I was 7 or 8 months ago. I"m confident, I"m not insecure and I"m taking charge more of things within my own life and in the world around me...

Mini update, she called me a little bit ago and we talked for about 10 minutes. Tomorrow she"s coming over and is going to chill for a bit and make me cupcakes.

That thought has gone through my head and as well honestly, and I like to think I know her well enough that this isn"t the case. She"s a pretty strait shooter and loyal to a T, if she was fully committed to the other guy then she would be with no other business going on on the side. She"s not an...

Wall of text inc, I will spoiler it so it wont take up a ton of space on here. Read if you want, give input, advice the usual if you feel like it. It"s going to be filled with a lot of details if for nothing else then for me just to get it all off my chest. This is pretty much going to be a...

Not at all and I"m not really certain where or what gave you that impression. I said flat out I don"t just want "any girl" I want to be with the one I was with up until yesterday. Mini update, girl called me about the stuff at my place, said she would bring her son over with her, we"re gonna...

-ugh wtf, click back on a browser and then it becomes a triple post.-

-double post-

Well some of us here aren"t like this at all. I can"t change who I am, I wish I could but those things are all physical not mental or personality wise. I"m closing in on 30 myself and honestly all I want in life is someone to settle down with, well not just someone, but the one I was with up...

Trying to give the girl I was with space to see if things settle on their own, but it"s so hard. We talked all the time, before bed, and she was living with me more then not.....I talked to her this morning to let her know she forgot some things and we talked a bit about things, shes still not...

to the first part.....it"s what I am really hoping for. Honestly, I care much more for this girl then I ever did my ex wife. I"m a total wreck and she stated before it would be all the depression stuff. 2 days ago she was almost 100% sure it was the depression, today she said she was almost 100%...

it just doesn"t agree with me, like I get pretty sick if I consume to much of it, my body reacts badly to alcohol.

not really no and I don"t care to drown my troubles either.

Well here I am again, the girl I had been seeing for 8 months broke up with me today. Things were going good, or I had thought and by all accounts of family and friends she told everyone she was happy and saw a future with me. She was staying over about 3 or 4 nights out of the week. She...

1 tit = 1 vote from me.

Brad--Other then her mother and in part her step father (he"s so submissive to his worthless wife it"s retarded) Everyone else is almost family....not quite yet, but pretty close. Soygen--Yes the mother is a WoW addicted bitch. No baggage on the daughter as far as that goes, we both play Free...

Okay well back when this thread was very young I was in here and found someone and things have been good, real good actually we hit our first major bump today after 5 months or so of dating. Her mom is a fucking waste of space, totally and completely. You aren"t allowed to have an opinion...

How could I NOT sig that? lol The ex needs to start posting, this thread just got interesting again.

She"s pretty cute man, I think better looking then tattoo girl honestly, good luck with it.

that"s a pretty big maybe, if there were a chance at that the flowers reaction woulda been a tad bit different other then a complete total shoot down me thinks.

I agree with Ancient, I don"t think the flowers messed anything up, if she didn"t feel that way then regardless of what Zarcath did it wasn"t going to damage his chances one way or the other, at least now he knows how she feels. If she wasn"t interested then what did he really hurt....especially...