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Nurses get a ton of emotional trauma at work that they exercise out in their personal life. They are 100% batshit.
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Nurses get a ton of emotional trauma at work that they exercise out in their personal life. They are 100% batshit.
Meh this can be VERY hit or miss depending on where the nurse actually works.

ER/Trauma? Sure

GI Lab or outpatient? Hard to imagine that being “traumatic”
 

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Meh this can be VERY hit or miss depending on where the nurse actually works.

ER/Trauma? Sure

GI Lab or outpatient? Hard to imagine that being “traumatic”
In my experience even the ones who dont have a blood and guts job are out there.

And nothing with the woman I mentioned. Shes been out of work for 6 days now with a kidney infection and some other issues, at least thats what she told me. So very well could have never have been interested or lost it, or maybe just bad luck.
 
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Meh this can be VERY hit or miss depending on where the nurse actually works.

ER/Trauma? Sure

GI Lab or outpatient? Hard to imagine that being “traumatic”

This is somewhat true, but regardless of their specific discipline, it seems as if the culture/atmosphere still has a noticeable effect on them. Lots of promiscuity, batshit-adjacency, etc. I consider it almost as bad as military with regard to partner viability.
 

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Meh this can be VERY hit or miss depending on where the nurse actually works.

ER/Trauma? Sure

GI Lab or outpatient? Hard to imagine that being “traumatic”
Got several nurses in my family and several friends (doctors) who married nurses. They're all batshit.

I'm not arguing with your point, there are probably nurses with non-traumatic jobs. I guess I haven't met those ones. The ones I've met are all batshit.
 
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Got a son(22) has a great job, no debt. Newer car, great shape. He's killing it. The sense of entitlement from 20 -26 women is off the charts. The ones that aren't are so mercenary. I'm starting to think this passport bro thing isn't a bad idea. Anyone have advice for him.
 

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Got several nurses in my family and several friends (doctors) who married nurses. They're all batshit.

I'm not arguing with your point, there are probably nurses with non-traumatic jobs. I guess I haven't met those ones. The ones I've met are all batshit.
I think everyone has misunderstood me, or maybe I miswrote something idk.

I’m not saying nurses aren’t on average a bit batshit, although I know plenty of normal and good ones.

I’m just saying for the vast majority “trauma from their job” is a lame ass/BS excuse and reminds me of the Bill Burr bit about moms having the hardest job.
 

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Got a son(22) has a great job, no debt. Newer car, great shape. He's killing it. The sense of entitlement from 20 -26 women is off the charts. The ones that aren't are so mercenary. I'm starting to think this passport bro thing isn't a bad idea. Anyone have advice for him.
One of the managers on my team did the Philippines thing a couple years ago, so that route still works.
 

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I’m just saying for the vast majority “trauma from their job” is a lame ass/BS excuse
I think the biggest part of it is that the job self selects for people who want to take care of people and who are ok doing so even when that turns out to be really disgusting. That kind of person is going to look at things a bit differently.
 
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Got a son(22) has a great job, no debt. Newer car, great shape. He's killing it. The sense of entitlement from 20 -26 women is off the charts. The ones that aren't are so mercenary. I'm starting to think this passport bro thing isn't a bad idea. Anyone have advice for him.
20-26 is going to be pain and misery ahead, if he's looking for long-term. Women have faaaaar too many options nowadays to "settle down" that young. He needs to just focus on having fun, bash the gash and dash, etc. 30+ women start the move to their "provisioner" phase. If he's interested in something long-term then, that's the better time. Until then just continue killing it - focus on fitness, money, self. Have fun with many women, learn how to fuck, etc.

And can also confirm that nurses are batshit but also some of the greatest sex you'll ever experience. Same goes for teachers. Those two professions for some reason...cray cray.
 

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Got a son(22) has a great job, no debt. Newer car, great shape. He's killing it. The sense of entitlement from 20 -26 women is off the charts. The ones that aren't are so mercenary. I'm starting to think this passport bro thing isn't a bad idea. Anyone have advice for him.
I’d start by not asking for advice in a forum full of MMORPG nerds in their 40s-50s
 
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Oncology nurse sees what, 30-40% of her patients wither away and die, slowly and in pain the entire time?
Not really? She’s not a hospice nurse and I doubt she works on a BMT unit. I’m not really gonna make myself more doxxable than I already have on these forums though so feel free to assume I’m full of shit.

I guess I’ll ask it this way… do you assume every doc you know is also a batshit crazy person? Why would a nurse be any different?
 

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Not really? She’s not a hospice nurse and I doubt she works on a BMT unit. I’m not really gonna make myself more doxxable than I already have on these forums though so feel free to assume I’m full of shit.

I guess I’ll ask it this way… do you assume every doc you know is also a batshit crazy person? Why would a nurse be any different?
I'm around doctors/lawyers all the time and a lot of them are crazy, but with nurses it's been basically all.

One theory could be that nurses deal with a lot fewer patients and are with them/around them more, so they'd develop a lot more of an emotional connection with them. The docs are in and out. Because of this maybe the doctors have seen a lot more of whatever and they're jaded. I don't know.

The nurses in my family that I've actually talked to all have serious job-related trauma though. One of my family members had cancer and I went to a bunch of appointments, the nurses in there were so nice (Texas Oncology). Every time we'd go to the appointment the nurse would spend 15-20 minutes in there talking to us and getting all the updates and whatnot. How many of those patients that the nurse sees will die in the next 1-3 years? Again, 30-40%?
 

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I'm around doctors/lawyers all the time and a lot of them are crazy, but with nurses it's been basically all.

One theory could be that nurses deal with a lot fewer patients and are with them/around them more, so they'd develop a lot more of an emotional connection with them. The docs are in and out. Because of this maybe the doctors have seen a lot more of whatever and they're jaded. I don't know.

The nurses in my family that I've actually talked to all have serious job-related trauma though. One of my family members had cancer and I went to a bunch of appointments, the nurses in there were so nice (Texas Oncology). Every time we'd go to the appointment the nurse would spend 15-20 minutes in there talking to us and getting all the updates and whatnot. How many of those patients that the nurse sees will die in the next 1-3 years? Again, 30-40%?
It’s an interesting question. 1 year I would wager 10% unless you’re including people who go straight to hospice which your theoretical nurse never meets or only meets once. 3 years probably closer to 30% but I’d still wager lower if we’re talking all comers. I know some of those nurses you’re talking about (well not in Dallas I admit) and spoiler alert most aren’t batshit.

I would assume a nurse that works Ortho/Onc is working inpatient or in a very niche surgical outpatient office and not a Texas Onc style clinic so all of this is really moot to this guy’s situation.

This just feels akin to assuming all lawyers are greasy ambulance chasing assholes. There’s definitely some truth to it but I’ve met a few normal people working in-house counsel or whatever. No reason to not date one IMO
 

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This just feels akin to assuming all lawyers are greasy ambulance chasing assholes. There’s definitely some truth to it but I’ve met a few normal people working in-house counsel or whatever. No reason to not date one IMO
They're not all greedy ambulance chasing assholes, but enough are that I'd consider it a red flag at the start. It's a stereotype for a reason. Same for nurses. I would kind of assume there's something wrong with them and go from there, they can prove me wrong but thats where we're starting out.
 
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They're not all greedy ambulance chasing assholes, but enough are that I'd consider it a red flag at the start. It's a stereotype for a reason. Same for nurses. I would kind of assume there's something wrong with them and go from there, they can prove me wrong but thats where we're starting out.
Fair enough. I’m just saying, I work in healthcare and most of the nurse stereotype applies to like 80%+ of ER nurses, maybe trauma/ICU too. But general medicine floor nurses and outpatient clinic nurses have mostly come off as normal good people* who just wanted a solid job maybe where they could feel like they help people or make a difference. I respect it a hell of a lot more than someone who studied marketing or public relations or whatever BS

*your experience might be skewed by selecting for the nurses that were on a mission to bag a doc

edit to add: sweet baby Jesus if you come across a Labor & Delivery nurse RUN
 
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Got a son(22) has a great job, no debt. Newer car, great shape. He's killing it. The sense of entitlement from 20 -26 women is off the charts. The ones that aren't are so mercenary. I'm starting to think this passport bro thing isn't a bad idea. Anyone have advice for him.
Phillippines if only because no language barrier would be my bet. I guess.