I did that once with some chick from Myspace a few years ago. A mans got to do what a mans got to do.
Girls who broke your heart thread
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For the bringing a girl flowers, I like to just bring a single flower on a first date. Especially if your going to meet her somewhere and she cant hold a dozen flowers with her all night.
A single tulip or orchid or something that fits her is better for a first date. If the date turns to shit you wouldnt have had to spend $50 on a dozen.
A single tulip or orchid or something that fits her is better for a first date. If the date turns to shit you wouldnt have had to spend $50 on a dozen.
When I read the above statement, it actually lends veracity to the remark that many single mothers have indeed made a "mistake."aychamo_aycono said:
Did he start abusing her only after she had the child? In all likelihood, there were always signs that the guy was an abusive piece of shit, even if he never once physically struck her prior to her pregnancy. In such a situation, carrying a child in a doomed relationship was indeed a mistake and smacks of poor judgement. Based on intuition and the sadly not uncommon occurrence of women doing batshit insane things (such as carrying a douchebag"s child to term , hoping to salvage a relationship), I"ll stick with my assumption.
That said, I don"t think single mothers are unworthy of love. I"d rather just leave it to someone else.
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Are you saying if a girl gets pregnant with her husbands baby and the husband freaks out and turns bad that the woman should have an abortion, otherwise it"s a mistake? How old are you?Jayblah said:
I"m saying that the situation you describe above doesn"t seem very plausible. Can it happen that the husband turns into an aggressive, wife-beating douchebag only after his wife was with child? Certainly. More likely though, there were signs that he was an asshole or had shown aggressive behaviour towards her before. I"m saying that if that was the case, then it was a mistake to have gotten pregnant in that relationship.aychamo_aycono said:
That said, I don"t know your girlfriend or her story, so its just conjecture. I apologize if I"ve given offense.
I am 29.
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Okay so just got back from the date I was talking about earlier and all I got to say is one thing.
Holy Shit.
This girl is 110% awesome. I"m officially off the market, she loved the flowers, we hit dinner and then went to see Marley & Me after we sat in the theater until we were kicked out.
The night was awesome, she was awesome and that"s all I guess I can really say about it.
Holy Shit.
This girl is 110% awesome. I"m officially off the market, she loved the flowers, we hit dinner and then went to see Marley & Me after we sat in the theater until we were kicked out.
The night was awesome, she was awesome and that"s all I guess I can really say about it.
The funny thing is, whenever you talk to a guy who is dating a single mother, he is always adamant about how much of an asshole the father of his girlfriend"s child is. ALWAYS.aychamo_aycono said:
Hah thats a funny post. I went to the link and most of the people on the forum were telling her that shes the one who fucked up.
She didnt have a full body shot because she knew she was fat and not "Average" like she said. She said that he was a total jerk on the date, but then when he texted later, she went over to his place. What a moron.
She didnt have a full body shot because she knew she was fat and not "Average" like she said. She said that he was a total jerk on the date, but then when he texted later, she went over to his place. What a moron.
that thread = gold.
and.... the jerk she named in that post shows up in the thread, discounts a bunch of the shit she said and then drops this link to an old thread of hers... owned
OkCupid.com: Forums / Dating Advice / I am not who you think I am
edit: and apparently he says she"s the one that texted him... lol. Trainwreck
and.... the jerk she named in that post shows up in the thread, discounts a bunch of the shit she said and then drops this link to an old thread of hers... owned
OkCupid.com: Forums / Dating Advice / I am not who you think I am
edit: and apparently he says she"s the one that texted him... lol. Trainwreck
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All I"m saying is it"s not like every single mother out there is some pathetic whore who fucked up. Shit happens.Snugglebear said:
Edit: Ie, Jessica Alba.... if she broke up with Cash Warren..?? hello!
You"re right. But most of them are. If you are under 22, divorced, and have a kid, you may have fucked up.aychamo_aycono said:
Fixed imo.Snugglebear said:
Edit: The divorce line is failing miserably on POF in my area, I guess the chics out here are just not biting and/or don"t get it. I"m having much better luck tailoring a question about them based on their profile and then running game if/when they respond.
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Sir, if you are dating a woman with kids, I have some fucking stories for you.
Stories that back-up the fact that you are a complete dumbshit if you are with a single mom in their 20s for anything more than sex.
Come back and visit, we will pick up some ladies that will make you change your mind. Or just my balls who knows.
Stories that back-up the fact that you are a complete dumbshit if you are with a single mom in their 20s for anything more than sex.
Come back and visit, we will pick up some ladies that will make you change your mind. Or just my balls who knows.
The whole point it, most of the time, they have a kid casue A) they forgot to take B/C B) they said they were off BC but said otherwise to get dude to fuck them and give them a kid so they can trap said dude. I dont care what the fuck you say, thats what MOST single moms stories are. They either forgot to take the pill, and let dude bareback or they trapped him thinking they could keep him if he had a baby around. Period.aychamo_aycono said:
Sure Mr aychamo I am sure y our the exception to the rule ect ect ect. But lets look at the facts. By all acounts the chick your dating either was married to young and had a child to young or had a child out of wedlock cause she or he didnt use B/C. Both of those screem as I said in an earlier post "Mistake"
I"m a call this now and I hope you prove me wrong, but down the line if your not barebacking the bitch already, she"ll get you with the but it feels so good papi put it in me I am on the pill. And boom aychamo jr. Now you have one on the way cause single moms want 2 things .. they want a man around to help provide and take care of the kids, and they want to feel still wanted.
Now you could prove me wrong and that would be great. But the rule still is, hell its even a lykis 101 rule, you dont date single mothers. You dont spend more than 40 $ on a date, and you always no matter what .. wear a condom.
But shit this is foh, fuck her and post pics ^_^
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the girl I"m with is 24 and has a kid -shrugs- I"m 28 and have two I like to think I"m sane and everything I"ve seen out of her shows me she is. Until she does something to show me otherwise I don"t see how holding experiences that you"ve all had with single mothers and I haven"t against her.
I"ve dated a few of them, never had a single drama problem. -shrugs- If Aychamo is happy let him be happy for fucks sake.
I"ve dated a few of them, never had a single drama problem. -shrugs- If Aychamo is happy let him be happy for fucks sake.
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My wife"s older sister had a kid in high school. Apparantly she was really bad with birth control.
She got married to a different guy shortly after my wife and I did almost 10 years ago now, and the husband adopted the kid after the father turned douchebag drug addict and gave up his rights.
The thing that surprises me about all of this is how different my wife and her sister are sexually. Brother in law is complaining constantly about how he never gets any, and I have no such issues with my wife. Whenever he"s really crabby, my wife just tells her sister "Just give him a blowjob, he"ll be fine." She responds with "Those are for birthdays" Oooooh, yeah, ouch.
I totally wouldn"t have guessed that kid in highschool = prude at 30.
She got married to a different guy shortly after my wife and I did almost 10 years ago now, and the husband adopted the kid after the father turned douchebag drug addict and gave up his rights.
The thing that surprises me about all of this is how different my wife and her sister are sexually. Brother in law is complaining constantly about how he never gets any, and I have no such issues with my wife. Whenever he"s really crabby, my wife just tells her sister "Just give him a blowjob, he"ll be fine." She responds with "Those are for birthdays" Oooooh, yeah, ouch.
I totally wouldn"t have guessed that kid in highschool = prude at 30.
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The thing against women with kids, it"s not the kids themselves. They are usually easy as pie and real fun.
It"s the woman who had the kid at a young age. Especially in high school.
What kind of person has a kid in high school? A moron.
Thus single mom"s at my age (22) are absolutely retarded.
It"s the woman who had the kid at a young age. Especially in high school.
What kind of person has a kid in high school? A moron.
Thus single mom"s at my age (22) are absolutely retarded.
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I think just like most things, you can"t just say single mom = slut/douche bag/whatever. Little mistakes can have huge consequences, and just because you"ve made mistakes in the past doesn"t mean you haven"t learned (what you can) from them. *shrug* whatever, it"s the same as a million other things that people try to draw definite conclusions from.