Ah ok so you"re fully aware that you topped out the creep-o-meter with the phone interaction with the girl? If you don"t recognize that then we"re going to have to start screening your phone calls similar to how all of Eomer"s emails have to go thru Aych first.
Strike that to if you have a reason to apologize. A woman won"t come out and say "Apologize now" and once you say "I"m sorry" things will be golden. You have to accurately read the situation. If you"re going for the cocky&funny/neg approach and you apologize for ripping her then it was all in vein. You just kind of look weird at that point.Unless she brings up something specific that you need to apologize for, never apologize. It looks and sounds weak. If you fuck up just joke about it the next time it comes up.