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It could also be a guilt thing. She could feel guilty for having gotten too close to you before she was about to get married, and the detachment is just her way of making it up to herself.
I completely disagree. There"s plenty of girls I"m friends with that I don"t feel an overwhelming need to fuck, and the feeling is mutual. People of the opposite sex don"t HAVE to fall for each other.Why do men and women try to be friends? It never works. One always ends up liking the other a little more and it turns into someone getting hurt. Women don"t make good friends for guys, guys dont make good friends for women. The one cadveat is if you are only interested in fucking people of your same sex.
You"re out of the picture, and when he told his girl to jumped, she asked "how high?". He doesn"t have a reason to be angry with you, as you"re no longer a threat. He got what he wanted, and as far as he knows, this is the last time you"ll be in a social situation with his wife. He really has no reason to be angry at this point.Zindan said:About the hubby putting his foot down. I really don"t know, but to be honest, he is a pretty cool guy. During that day he was friendly and talkative towards me, never got any feeling of angst from him...and since being that would be unlike him, I probably would have noticed. And yes, she was friendly with everyone else, I guess it is just hard for me to admit that she decided to end our friendship like that.
I think it"s more likely that hubby doesn"t have any idea what went on between you and her while he was gone. Considering she lied to him in front of you repeatedly. For all he knows, you work together and maybe grab lunch every week or two.Zindan said:Thanks, that made me laugh.
About the hubby putting his foot down. I really don"t know, but to be honest, he is a pretty cool guy. During that day he was friendly and talkative towards me, never got any feeling of angst from him...and since being that would be unlike him, I probably would have noticed. And yes, she was friendly with everyone else, I guess it is just hard for me to admit that she decided to end our friendship like that.
You might well be right, but I don"t know if I could close on it either. Especially not with the second girl standing right there. Certainly just saying "come over to my place tonight" wouldn"t do the trick, but who knows?Dabamf said:Eomer, I wanna say this is a girl that, if you can do so confidently, you can drop all the subtleties and just look her in the eye and say "come over to my place tonight" and bone her without any qualifying or faked interest. Of course I don"t know that I could bring myself to do it personally, but I want you to!
You are an evil man, brekk. haha.brekk said:I"m going to go with the alternative theory that she was madly in love with you as well. Inviting you to the wedding as part of the wedding party was a reminder of what was coming and a hint for you to make some bold romantic gesture to tell her your true feelings before it was too late.
This isn"t some older woman being mature, its a 20 year old wanting her own version of every romance movie. You didn"t come through on your end, she went through with the wedding and now hates you for all eternity, because you had your shot and you blew it.
Well, let"s look at the facts. She"s 20 and probably has dated the same guy since highschool. She probably knows deep down that marrying him is a mistake and she"s giving up her shot at a "normal" life in her 20"s as a single or semi-attached girl. I really honestly can"t understand nearly anyone getting married before 25 these days. So right there, not a good start.Zildan said:Yet I would be surprised if their marriage lasts more than 5 years, seen far too many such early marriages fail later on.
Well we all get sick eventually if we drink too much, its about finding that limit and drinking slightly less than it.Tarrant220 said:it just doesn"t agree with me, like I get pretty sick if I consume to much of it, my body reacts badly to alcohol.
that"s the point.Tarrant220 said:my body reacts badly to alcohol.
Zindan said:Thanks, that made me laugh.
About the hubby putting his foot down. I really don"t know, but to be honest, he is a pretty cool guy. During that day he was friendly and talkative towards me, never got any feeling of angst from him...and since being that would be unlike him, I probably would have noticed. And yes, she was friendly with everyone else, I guess it is just hard for me to admit that she decided to end our friendship like that.
to the first part.....it"s what I am really hoping for. Honestly, I care much more for this girl then I ever did my ex wife. I"m a total wreck and she stated before it would be all the depression stuff. 2 days ago she was almost 100% sure it was the depression, today she said she was almost 100% sure it wasn"t. I really hope when the meds kick in things straiten out.brekk said:Give it a week or two. Depression + Depression meds leads to a lot of batshit mood swings, and fluctuations in libido/interest in love.
Well we all get sick eventually if we drink too much, its about finding that limit and drinking slightly less than it.