I think the happiness fat people experience is a different animal. Comparable to the happiness a crack head experiences. Crying while they eat but still enjoying it.brekk said:
Girls who broke your heart thread
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Step 1: Get a law degree, namedrop it continually on the internets, but NEVER USE ITEtoille said:
Hahahaha.Etoille said:
Maybe you should publish your findings and become the most famous psychologist in the history of mankind.
God can those of us interested in making productive posts here all collectively agree to ignore these clowns shitting up the thread? Posts like dianetics asking for advice would normally get like 2-3x the response but instead we"re all distracted responding to people that are acting like jackasses.
Starrrttting NOW.
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This.Dabamf said:
I"m rather interested in Dianetics, MANNING THE FUCK UP.
edit: Dianetics, I don"t mean to be badgering you, but seriously. I used to be shy, second guess their signals, and wait until they basically forced me to go for it. Or in some cases never went for it. Just a few weeks ago I drunkenly posted in this thread about lost love for a girl that was a very close friend, but I wanted more and never went for it when I have the chance. Do not go down that road. KISS THE GIRL
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Pay attention to the lyrics. They speak truth.
Find another girl.
You"ve been friend-zoned. Find another chick, and diddle her pooter. end of story.
You"ve been friend-zoned. Find another chick, and diddle her pooter. end of story.
I fear as much. When I first asked about her and the other dude I told her to keep in mind I wasn"t her friend.khazadum said:
A few times since then she has said various things and I"ve told her "This sounds like friend talk, I"m not your friend." She cracks up and says "Oh, I know, its not like that." Etc.
Fuck.
Just make sure to move on properly and don"t turn into a creeper. Hence the find a new girl part.Simas said:
*shrug* Sounds worse than that (friend zone). She knows she"s fucking with you to get her attention fix but she"s completely flippant about it. She"s not worth even dating dude. Someone who is going to date someone in a committed relationship while jerking you around?Simas said:
Move on. You can do a helluva lot better.
She knows she can have you anytime she wants, because it"s true. The psychology is set, and you lost, IMO. The only way this would ever work out is if you get to the point where you don"t care if it does or not .... yes, I know it"s a broken record.Simas said:
If you weren"t in the friend zone, you wouldn"t be having that conversation. You"d be pulling your pants down, for a win-win: either she"d leave, or bob your nob. Yeah, it"s crude and possibly metaphorical, but it"s true. If you ever want to have a sexual relationship with a specific girl, that has be achieved before she can even think about talking to you about other dudes. There"s exceptions, but assuming this is one of those is a bad recipe.Simas said:
I slightly disagree with the consensus here, but I will agree with the conclusion that it"s time to move on.Simas said:
I think it"s hard to say where you stand with her, beyond the obvious conclusion of: not first choice. I"d tentatively say you"re between friend zone and romantic interest. If you told the story accurately, I think you handled it excellently and as a man should. You kept her in check multiple times when she tried to establish a just-friends relationship with you and showed some balls. On the other hand, she DID try to friend you, even if you rejected it.
Based on both I"d guess she has mixed feelings for you. You probably show some attractive qualities, but you may be showing some unattractive qualities as well. I"d try to figure out what those are. Observe yourself when you"re around her.
The end result though is that you are 2nd choice at best (and not a choice at worst), which means conclusively it"s time to move on. Even if you accept being 2nd choice, you can"t ever win in that position because the girl sees that you accept that position and, as a result, no longer respects you. It"s a lose/lose.
Unrelated, I guess I"m the only one that kinda liked this chick in the story. She does what she wants and is as honest as she can hope to be with everyone in the process. She is probably making a mistake trying to be with the other guy, but we"ve all done stupid shit like that and learned from it. I continue to sway back and forth between multiple desires. And she was perfectly straight with Simas about the situation. Fuck, she shows more self-awareness than almost any girl I"ve ever met.
Going to do something I rarely do and disagree with Dabamf 100% in this instance.
You are 100% and fully entrenched in the friends zone and there are a few things that stick out in my mind why this is true:
#1) She lied to you and says "she doesn"t date." That was a complete lie and straight to your face. She didn"t mean "Sorry, I don"t date anyone" she said "Sorry, I won"t dateyou." Of course she dates. She"s a god damned fucking female. Everyone dates. If she had even a remote interest in that time she"d of tried to work something out.SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU IN ANY ROMANTIC WAY.
#2) You were "hanging out/studying" on an "everyday" basis and yet you didn"t put your dick in her vagina. You are in the 7th circle of hell -- the friends zone with a chick you would love to fuck. More over there are alot of things going wrong here. Firstly you are spending alot of time together with no physical or intimate contact because she just broke up with her boyfriend. Hell you couldn"t even get the bitch drunk enough to get her vag wet enough to slide your throbbing meat log into her. It"s not going to happen.
#3) When you hang out, she vents about other guys. You view it as "Oh I"m so nice. She will see I"m not likeTHATguy and will want to be with me forever!" Truth of the matter brotato is that she wants to be with that guy and not with you. She finds him interesting and a challenge. You pose no challenge to her. You offered yourself to her, she said no. She is fully aware she can string you along and play with you as a fun little puppet until someone else comes around she"s romatically interseted in.
I"m not going to say sever all ties with her. I do fully think you can have friends who are girls but this isn"t going anywhere. If you try to make it go somewhere I suggest getting a lifetime membership to the bangbros network because they have some fuckall amazing porn -- you"ll need it.
You are 100% and fully entrenched in the friends zone and there are a few things that stick out in my mind why this is true:
#1) She lied to you and says "she doesn"t date." That was a complete lie and straight to your face. She didn"t mean "Sorry, I don"t date anyone" she said "Sorry, I won"t dateyou." Of course she dates. She"s a god damned fucking female. Everyone dates. If she had even a remote interest in that time she"d of tried to work something out.SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU IN ANY ROMANTIC WAY.
#2) You were "hanging out/studying" on an "everyday" basis and yet you didn"t put your dick in her vagina. You are in the 7th circle of hell -- the friends zone with a chick you would love to fuck. More over there are alot of things going wrong here. Firstly you are spending alot of time together with no physical or intimate contact because she just broke up with her boyfriend. Hell you couldn"t even get the bitch drunk enough to get her vag wet enough to slide your throbbing meat log into her. It"s not going to happen.
#3) When you hang out, she vents about other guys. You view it as "Oh I"m so nice. She will see I"m not likeTHATguy and will want to be with me forever!" Truth of the matter brotato is that she wants to be with that guy and not with you. She finds him interesting and a challenge. You pose no challenge to her. You offered yourself to her, she said no. She is fully aware she can string you along and play with you as a fun little puppet until someone else comes around she"s romatically interseted in.
I"m not going to say sever all ties with her. I do fully think you can have friends who are girls but this isn"t going anywhere. If you try to make it go somewhere I suggest getting a lifetime membership to the bangbros network because they have some fuckall amazing porn -- you"ll need it.