Girls who broke your heart thread

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So like I said, my ex came to me about a week ago wanting to talk and start hanging out again, said she wanted to make things up to me after what she did to me and be in my life again etc..

So we hung out 3 days straight, all day everyday and she slept over.. then she had to work for the next 3 days but didnt have her car due to an insurance thing (shes getting car back next week) so she "claims" she stays at this guys place thats like family and has a girl that lives next door to him thats like family and she (her parents are divorced, never sees them) claims they"re like her new family blah blah..

I know this is stupid to ask but yeah.. so she works like 10 to 6 pm then lost her phone earlier on in the week so had a hard time getting a hold of her.. so I went to pick her up yesterday since she wasnt working anymore and noticed she had her bag of shit in the guys room, she was smoking while we were talking and she would keep going over to play with his hair while she smoked.. huge red flag to me, huge huge huge huge. I also saw this little thing of lube next to the bed.. another huge red flag cause she never oculd have sex w/o lube..

So I remained as calm as I could since I just met the guy and was in his place, told her I wanted to leave now and let"s go, she ersisted and wanted to smoke another bowl or two and said to chill, as she continued to randomly fuck with his hair which increased the chances of me breaking something in anger lol..

Eventually we left, I lit her up outside in the hall with million questions, said she sleeps in the same bed with clothes but doesnt like him and hasnt hooked up with him, says hes like family to her along with the girl that lives next door and they"re all just really close.. I accepted that for now but I just woke up and remembered about the lube and it"s really got me going. I know what the answer is but I"m telling myself otherwise..

yikes. I sent her a txt just now asking whats up with it and we"ll see.. she was all over me after we got in our fight and made up, hung out all day then took her to her dads for fathers day then she wants to sleep over tonight.. like the thing that bugged me was she talked to me all day everyday and slept over until work then said well im stuck in channelside so im just going to stay here.. the guy looks like a chump and all but the whole hair thing to me is somethign a girl does when she likes a guy.. she claims just a friendly thing, but the 3 years i knew her she always did that to me.. and we dated.

Yeah I know, you"re all going to say you"re right, she"s fckin that guy, using you to get over her previous ex (its been a year since we broke up) and shes totally just lying to you.. i"m going to wait for her reply and see what I want to do, I think I"m just going to stop initiating contact with her and see what that does, if she bites then I"ll see what I can pull out of her, if not then then thats my answer. I dunno I mean she was with me all week basically, minus the 3 days where she claims she worked 10 am to 730 pm then left there at 830, went smoked and ate and slept.. said she basically just slept after work for the next work day.. soon as she stopped working i picked her up and now she wants to sleep over 2n and then she"ll get her car 2m and wants to sleep over after she gets her car and go to the beach tuesday.. if she liked the guy/sleeping with him wouldnt she be more inclined to stay there longer than the days she worked? FML

Like I said I know what I should do, I just wanted another opinion but more so wanted to see if anyone had ever been in this exact situation and how it turned out, I like hearing about scenarios rather than what you "think"

But just to add more in, she didnt have car/phne while working so yeah I was giving her the benefit of the doubt with having a hard time getting a hold of her during work.. I even went to visit her and she was all smiles and giggly that I was there, wouldnt stop touching me whenever she had a free moment..so I was like okay once she gets her phone and car maybe things will be more reasonable.. but after the lube and the sleeping in same bed as the guy (to which she claims never naked or cuddling) I"m wondering.. she just got her phone back yesterday (a new one) and her car on monday so like I said, just going to pull back a bit, see if she bites and she claims she"ll be driving me this week and that she didnt talk to me much during work cause she had no phone.. but that still doesnt solve the lube..
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I try to avoid insults and try to be productive, but that"s on hold for this. You can"tpossiblybe this retarded. This is seriously just as bad as that one guy who"s girlfriend fucked another guy in his own house. You are gonna get your own The Package meme in this thread if you don"t shut this one down quick.

She touches his hair like she touches yours, she sleeps in his bed and the dude has lube next to his bed (seriously, who uses lube? that alone is a red flag). Each of these individually are enough to tell her to fuck off. If you are in denial with all 3 combined, I"m guessing she could fuck him in front of you and you"d somehow find a way to deny it.

Even if, in some ridiculous nonexistant situation where there isn"t anything going on (this is in a universe that doesn"t exist, a universe where a guy named Lost isn"t a total sackless retard), you"re all hot and bothered by her behavior yet not doing anything about it, meaning she has already lost any respect she had for you.

I thought you were doing well, seeing other girls and whatnot? What"s wrong with you that this chick can make you completely lose your testicles?

Verbal barrage for your own good. You must see the magnitude of your stupidity.
 
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Dabamf said:
and the dude has lube next to his bed (seriously, who uses lube? that alone is a red flag).
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Contrary to what pornography tells you, spitting on your dick doesn"t cut it for certain backdoor activities.

Just saying, there"s a perfectly good explanation for lube next to the dude"s bed. He"s railing your ex in the ass.
 
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so i"m just going to let that ride, you"re all right and im putting my foot down im not going to accept the fact that she runs her hands thru guys hairs or sleeps in same bed with them, specially with lube.. i wouldnt accept it as her bf and ive already told her im not here to be her friend so i might as well see things like i am her bf.
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blah blah blah, she"s a waste of time. "put your foot down" by never speaking to her again. she"s using you for cash/rides/etc and deep dicking the other man. you have no spine, and you"re only with her because you have no other options.

in closing: forget about her. don"t speak to her or text her anymore (don"t even bother saying it"s over). learn to be happy with yourself first, then find someone who you can be happy with. stop tolerating bullshit and be a manly man.
 
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Foremost, lost, this is why you shouldn"t smoke pot. It"s made you a raging pussy who can"t get over your slut whackjob of an ex.

Also, who is Alcestis and why is she queen of the internet? I swear this is the first time I"ve even seen her username.
 
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Haha, I only smoke socially which was until last week, once or twice a month, but yeah you"re right.
 
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lost said:
Well when we started dating 4 years ago, she couldnt get wet in the beginning either. She claims she used to flow like a river up until her parents got divorced. She said it really made her sad and since then she"s never felt loved by her family or like she ever really had a family. She went through therapy, was on anti depressants and also said she felt self conscious about the way her pussy looked, top that off her dad used to sexually abuse her when she was little by making her get naked, locking the door and spanking her with his belt.. so I just assumed all that added up to having a hard time getting wet.. but yeah ever since 4 years ago she"s never failed to not be wet unless we had foreplay for a good hour, and thats not very helpful when you want to be spontaneous, but neither is having to apply lube real fast either.

She also used to not let me go down on her due to her insecurity, she couldnt get off with me watching her (while she used vibrator) until a good 8 months into the relationship when I finally convinced her there was nothing wrong with her body.. (I probably hyped her up too much). She can"t get off from sex either, and has to use a cock ring or vibrator..

So for some you might think she"s having butt sex, but after 3 year relationship of having to use lube everytime, its a hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee red flag
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Yikes. Damaged fuckin" goods, my man. How old are you? Believe me when I say this, "You"ll get over it." Now would be a very good time to start.
 
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Dude.. Lost..

Here let me tell you how to handle this situation.

You don"t send her another text and don"t talk to her again.
Jesus you even said yourself any dude can look at this and agree with you. Wtf is wrong with people on this forum?
 
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Ashes Emberblade said:
Foremost, lost, this is why you shouldn"t smoke pot. It"s made you a raging pussy who can"t get over your slut whackjob of an ex.

Also, who is Alcestis and why is she queen of the internet? I swear this is the first time I"ve even seen her username.
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Read and be enlightened.
 
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Also, lost, drop that ho like a brick of shit and walk the hell away. Ignore all calls and texts from her. She doesn"t want you as a boyfriend, she wants you as a slave. If the new gf isn"t making you hot, find someone else who does, just stay the hell away from your ex.
 
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Vatoreus Malfost_sl

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Yep, damaged goods I know. I"m 22, we broke up a year ago and she just recently started showing her face again. Figured I"d see if she changed at all but appears she hasn"t.

Anyway, wanted your opinions, I mean I knew what I should do but when comes to your own chicks you cloud your judgement with little details here and there that you convince yourself go against what you see as something clearly obvious.

Funny thing is the chick that wants to date me now (but I"m not really into) is crazy in bed. It"s such a huge difference when you"re having sex with a girl that cant get off from sex and one who can.. miles of difference. This new chick does all the work, wants to go multiple times, gets off atleast 5 times before I do and still wants more, not to mention she is a pro cowgirl, it"s crazy but the second night after sex she"s like I never saw us becoming more than friends, did you ever see this coming? Kind of freaked me out, cause I"d rather be single, I was like yeahh I dont know we hooked up before.. (once a year ago but nothign came of it). So the next day I snuck out early and she texted me later saying she thought I was going to be with her the whole day and spend time with her.. yikes.

Then I came home that day and my ex had messaged me, but that chick been telling me how amazing I am everyday since we had sex last.. so liek I said, my ex makes me retarded but other girls I can play the game with.. but god yeah.. girls that get off during sex is WIN
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You like the abuse and the feeling that you aren"t good enough. That"s something you need to get past quickly. I had that same problem and am currently getting over it. I was only attracted to girls who were terrible to have relationships with and shunned the ones that might actually be good.
 
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Vatoreus said:
You like the abuse and the feeling that you aren"t good enough. That"s something you need to get past quickly. I had that same problem and am currently getting over it. I was only attracted to girls who were terrible to have relationships with and shunned the ones that might actually be good.
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I mean I"m not sure I see where you get that from, I"m just pretty attracted to her I"m not necessarily seeing that I like abuse, I"m just seeing that my ex is kinda bad girl, tattoos piercings all that crazy shit I like and then this new girl is pretty plain jane not as wild etc.. I mean yeah she likes sex but she"s not as loud or as kinky etc.

Then again yeah I like bad girls, and well bad girls are exactly relationship materials.. so maybe I see it but at the same time you can have a freak in the sheets but good girl on the streets type of girl..

Ah well we"ll see how it goes. I try not to put too much personal info on the internet cause I"ve seen how people have been fucked by it (specially on bb.com haha) but had a lot on my mind when I woke up and wanted to make sure I wasnt going nuts.
 
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Yikes. Damaged fuckin" goods, my man. How old are you? Believe me when I say this, "You"ll get over it." Now would be a very good time to start.
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For sure poster has fatal attraction written all over him. WTF. Your putting that beat up from the feet up poon on a pedestal, which is your first mistake. Second, I"ve been with a girl who was all the above therapy, AD"s, parents divorced but not sexually abused and she fucked like a rabbit. About the only thing she was good for. Women like that in general are for ever fucked up in the head and looking for a guy like you to save them. Don"t go on a holy crusade to fix this broken package, find a girl who doesn"t need fixing at all you will be better in the long run.

Best relationships I"ve ever been in have been women who"s parents were not divorced and had a healthy mental psyche. Once you find one of these mental competent girls you will see a whole new light and wonder why the fuck you were even wasting your time in the first place. There are like 3 odd billion girls on this planet, don"t be fucking stuck with the crazy bitch.
 
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Check, just go no contact and you will forget the girl soon. No contact is the best way to get rid of her. I was in the same situation awhile ago and she was AMAZING at sex. She knew she could control me with it too. Would call me up in spurts of 3 months and fuck me wild and I would let my dick control my rational thought process.

Then I met this shy girl who had her shit together and thought she wasn"t a freak at all. WAS I WRONG. She made me forget completely about my sex driven good for nothing ex. After the no contact, I made sure to get her number blocked on my cell phone so I would never have the urge to ever contact her again.

Fast forward to two years later, I was at barnes and nobles having coffee and reading the new mixmag and she saw me and sat down at my table. I brushed it off and continue reading it. She asked me how things were and stuff and I kept every answer to a yes and no. She knew I was over it and she wasn"t. I kid you not it took me 30 minutes to finish the magazine and she was still sitting there wanting me to talk to her and after I was done I put the magazine down and left. While I was walking away I heard he sobbing. That sir is when you know it"s all over.
 
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