Djaypally said:
Another reason is because she lied about getting with someone new when she originally asked for the stuff.
WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA?...
In all honesty, get rid of every single thing that reminds you of her. Maybe you"re the type that wants to remember the good times, maybe you"re the type that wants her back, or maybe you"re the type that wants to rape her fresh corpse... Either way, get rid of ALL physical reminders of her. It"s not going to help you. It never will. It isn"t a hair of the dog, it isn"t going to get her back, and when it comes to the third scenario... it"s evidence. Chuck it. All of it.
I don"t mean throw out the shit that is rightfully hers. If you have her DS, throwing it out is just going to create more drama between you two and more of a reason for her to be in your life. At first that sounds like a good thing, since you miss her. It"s not. Don"t try to be friends. Don"t try to be enemies. Try to be strangers. Hate her? Sure why not. But don"t make yourself into a bad person because she"s a lying cunt.
Now more than ever it is easy to keep the illusion of someone being in your life when they really aren"t (facebook, myspace, etc). You may even want to delete that as well (trust me, you can live without knowing what your friend did in mafia wars today).
Take some time, be selfish, do shit you want to do. This seems like your first major break-up... Welcome.
To some people becoming a man is when you fuck a broad for the first time, or have your bar mitzvah, or shoot your first deer. For me, it"s when you feel like some vile cunt ripped out your heart, but then after you gain the dignity, self respect and confidence to realize a woman can never break you. That doesn"t mean become some cold prick that treats other women like shit because you were treated like shit once. It"s actually the exact opposite. It"s treating others how they deserve despite what individuals have done to you. It"ll all come in time.
So yeah.. give her the shit she bought. Hell, you can even give her the shit you bought. None of it will matter. What matters is it"s not around you and you can start moving on (it"s a sloooooooooooooooow process). The day you are looking forward to is the day you realize you haven"t thought about her in a week. That is a very good day. Good luck.