Girls who broke your heart thread
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I don"t know man. I"d be worried you would bore them to death with your stories.Aamina said:
He"s that strange econ prof you had in college that wore a plaid polyester shirt and light blue polyester pants, that spoke at great length but never really said anything.aychamo_aycono said:
I"m just holding a grudge because you drove 8 hours to bang my ex-beauty queen wifeCamerous Valde Unus said:
No stalking necessary. I"m not forgetting that thread any time soon.
What are everyones thoughts on their girlfriend/wife/fiancee lezzing out with some chick? not a threeway, just having hot lesbianic sex. I always thought it would be super hot to see, but it was never anything I would have pursued. it was always just a kind of fun fantasy, as i had never been with someone who had experienced that before.
some background on me, i am not a jealous person, but as a girlfriend you can keep your stories of anything sexual with your exes to yourself. even if i ask, dont tell me. i dont want to know. i dont care about stories of dates, or vacations, or whatever, even tell me you loved your ex. but keep the sex shit to yourself. the more detail you give, the worse.
so one day i was talking to the gf, we had been together 8 months or so and things were going great. i find out she had a lesbian experience once. in college, drunk, she ended up in a bedroom with a chick and they were fooling around. of course me, i want full disclosure of that shit. i kept asking questions until i had all the details, and it was a pretty hot session from what she says. but then I started feeling weird and couldnt understand it.
after a few days of being confused i realized that it bothered me to think of her with another girl! i had never thought that could happen...but now i know, even hot scissoring is off limits. i still dont want to hear about your sexual past, even if its a hot porn fantasy.
I"m not having any kind of crisis here, we are still together and life is great. I"m just wondering if anyone else feel the same about their significant others past sex life.
some background on me, i am not a jealous person, but as a girlfriend you can keep your stories of anything sexual with your exes to yourself. even if i ask, dont tell me. i dont want to know. i dont care about stories of dates, or vacations, or whatever, even tell me you loved your ex. but keep the sex shit to yourself. the more detail you give, the worse.
so one day i was talking to the gf, we had been together 8 months or so and things were going great. i find out she had a lesbian experience once. in college, drunk, she ended up in a bedroom with a chick and they were fooling around. of course me, i want full disclosure of that shit. i kept asking questions until i had all the details, and it was a pretty hot session from what she says. but then I started feeling weird and couldnt understand it.
after a few days of being confused i realized that it bothered me to think of her with another girl! i had never thought that could happen...but now i know, even hot scissoring is off limits. i still dont want to hear about your sexual past, even if its a hot porn fantasy.
I"m not having any kind of crisis here, we are still together and life is great. I"m just wondering if anyone else feel the same about their significant others past sex life.
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So you"re a little unnerved that she cheated on you before she even met you? Because that"s the line you"re walking here. It"s your average everyday insecurity.Kyp said:
You didn"t exist. She"s allowed to have sex with people. That much is 100% irrefutable. The only real question is how insecure you are about thinking about your girl with anyone else. You don"t have to like it, but it"s a fact, and ignoring it isn"t gonna change it. It"s perfectly fine to not want to hear about it, but the fact that it"s bothering you enough that you felt the need to post it here is rather telling about your mental state. I think you"re downplaying it ("I"m not having any kind of crisis here") here because you know it too.
It"s fine man, she"s allowed to fuck girls and guys in her past, just like you are. It doesn"t mean she has any desire to go back to those times, and it doesn"t mean that you"re worse in bed than any of them. I mean, you could be, but she"s not with them anymore for a reason. It"s also fine to not want to hear about it, but if it"s gotten to the point where it"s a "Guyz, my gf did shit before she met me, wat do i do?" then you"ve gotta take a step back and look at the big picture.
haha I appreciate the feedback.
the reason i posted wasnt because of any questions i have about insecurity. i know all about my own insecurities. this was just a weird example because i was so conflicted. thats what i wanted to hear from others about. i am very rarely conflicted about anything, but i really really wanted to like her story, (and i did) but my desire for lesbian sex shows was clashing with garden variety ex/past/baggage stuff. it was just a very weird feeling.
its not an issue in the relationship, i just had a dream about her lezzing it up after watching alot of lesbian porn last night and it reminded me of that convo we had a few months ago so i thought i would toss it up here.
the reason i posted wasnt because of any questions i have about insecurity. i know all about my own insecurities. this was just a weird example because i was so conflicted. thats what i wanted to hear from others about. i am very rarely conflicted about anything, but i really really wanted to like her story, (and i did) but my desire for lesbian sex shows was clashing with garden variety ex/past/baggage stuff. it was just a very weird feeling.
its not an issue in the relationship, i just had a dream about her lezzing it up after watching alot of lesbian porn last night and it reminded me of that convo we had a few months ago so i thought i would toss it up here.
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Do you see yourself marrying this girl?Kyp said:
Also, it may be a fantasy to jerk off while watching your girl lez out, but fuck man, don"t do that. I think we all will give you a resounding "DON"T FUCKING DO THAT!!!!!!!!!!!" It"s almost certain suicide for your relationship.
Just quit thinking about it!
It may be that it makes her seem a bit more whorish in your mind, especially if you"re consciously or subconsciously relating to it with shit you"ve seen in porn. Thinking about your girl in terms of porn can have some nasty results (pun intended). The fact that it was drunken lesbian sex probably doesn"t help. Advice: don"t equate what your girlfriend did with lesbians in porn.Kyp said:
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My wifes best friend used to be her girlfriend several years back and she"s coming to stay with us for a few months after the babies born next year to help out.
I"m okay with it being a double standard and letting them mash titties and grabass because, yay, lesbians! but yeah, anything beyond that won"t happen for a variety of reasons. Now if our guest wants to bring a girlfriend home with her and make some videos on our guest bed...
I"m not threatened by exes personally, or the sex stories involved. For the first week or so after getting married one of her exes didn"t take it too well and kept telling her they should still be together etc..etc...and another one has threatened to kill me if he ever finds out where we live for "taking her away from him".
I found it more pathetic and hilarious then anything. Watching some guy crumble and fall into wallowing self pity because I was hitting that? Sure, why not.
But otherwise it"s a big ball of I could not care less. I might be wierded out if she ~wanted~ to tell me the sex stories but so far the only one she wanted to tell me about was the time her ex-gf put a double sided dildo in her snatch and chased her around with it.
We"re too busy making our own to swap old war stories as is. ^_^ (ENJOY THAT MENTAL IMAGE FAZIN AND SERWAL)
I"m okay with it being a double standard and letting them mash titties and grabass because, yay, lesbians! but yeah, anything beyond that won"t happen for a variety of reasons. Now if our guest wants to bring a girlfriend home with her and make some videos on our guest bed...
I"m not threatened by exes personally, or the sex stories involved. For the first week or so after getting married one of her exes didn"t take it too well and kept telling her they should still be together etc..etc...and another one has threatened to kill me if he ever finds out where we live for "taking her away from him".
I found it more pathetic and hilarious then anything. Watching some guy crumble and fall into wallowing self pity because I was hitting that? Sure, why not.
But otherwise it"s a big ball of I could not care less. I might be wierded out if she ~wanted~ to tell me the sex stories but so far the only one she wanted to tell me about was the time her ex-gf put a double sided dildo in her snatch and chased her around with it.
We"re too busy making our own to swap old war stories as is. ^_^ (ENJOY THAT MENTAL IMAGE FAZIN AND SERWAL)
Haha this made me laugh. To the guy who left Kazakhstan good job, that situation sounded horrible.Aamina said:
I"m not Caucasian, but I was born to two white people.Kyp said:
Long and short, yes you are. Jealousy is that "worse" feeling you get when you hear about shit like that. Sorry man.