Not much drama to be had unfortunately.
About 2 years ago I hit it off with a girl long distance. She was in the process of breaking up with her ex. Red flags should have gone off but it had been about 2 years since my last relationship and I was thinking with my cock. We talk, after about 3 months later I tell her I need exclusiveness in a relationship. She says she wants that too and that she wants to be with me.
So that was my big fuckup. At around this time I make "the mirror" intending it to be a surprise gift for her birthday next year. I like random art projects (the protoss wood carving etc...) so it was fun.
We finally do get together and spend a week together. Sparks don"t fly. I start to pack to go home and she begs me to stay. At the end of the week she tells me she"s really glad I stayed and I go home. We proceed to spend the rest of the month calling, texting and going on as usual and she is now staying with her parents and fully separated from her ex, or at least I thought.
She goes back to Cali to finalize shit and from what I can tell informs Lori that I"m some sort of super creeper because it"s around this time that she starts not returning my calls. I freak out and call Lori and she tells me to chill, don"t worry, nothing is going on. Girl and I continue emailing each other, everything seems fine, but she asks me not to call anymore.
Red flags again should again have gone off. My second big mistake.
After about two weeks of being told not to call, I get an email from her telling me to back off and a message on FB from an old guildmate telling me that she"s with him now. I send a message to girl saying I"m sorry, I didn"t mean to overstep my bounds and that I"ll move on.
She calls me and tells me I misunderstood, that it"s complicated and she just wants to be in a relationship where she doesn"t have to care. I say okay. I switch to friend mode and just talk to her about the Rift alpha and shit like that.
Then one day I get a text from her saying that she can"t be friends with me anymore. Later that day I get an email from an anonymous person with screenshots of her sexting and talking about her master/slave sex relationship with her ex all through our relationship. One catches my eye, it"s a text from her to her ex when we had met in July for that one week. "You"d be proud of me, I didn"t have sex with him as you requested master."
At that point I kinda just sighed.
As for the drama?
I attempted to patch up my friendship with Lori because I wasn"t going to let a shitty girl ruin it realizing we had been played. She would have none of it. Am I a little upset that she lied to me about girl being with someone else? Yeah.
That"s about the extent of the "drama." Sorry. She thinks I"m a creepy stalker and I"m pissed she never apologized for not letting me know earlier that the girl was lying to me.
Anyways.
As far as my current wife? We had met about 5 years ago or so. At the time she was in a relationship with her then girlfriend but we stayed pretty good friends over the years. This past year we were both single and sparks flew. Everything went pretty quick from then on.
