Actually, my day ran late by 4 hours and I found watching a movie with someone of value to be more, well, of value than spending it fact-checking some jerk. If he were just some e-prick, it would be one thing. But I find his online persona more tolerable than off, which that alone should be very telling.
Keep in mind I haven"t said a goddamn thing all this time, but he"s made more than one post baiting me (and his behavior was not limited to just posts). They (his posts) may fly right over the heads of many, but when I know what went down and was pulled into it, I know when something is meant for me. I could have changed another number in that list, and that being I knew her first and he didn"t introduce us. I don"t even know why that"s worth lying about, seriously.
Next, he says calmly there was no spark. Let me tell you about "The Spark" and why it is appalling that he even mentioned it.
The Spark is a Lie
The above phrase turned into a joke after this whole charade. I seriously laugh out loud when someone mentions "the spark" because of him. I"ll go into that after I say a few things. First, I"m not going to get insanely nasty and air a lot of personal and rather humiliating things; mainly because unlike him,I don"t say things with intent to hurt others. I won"teveraccept an apology from someone who isn"t truly sorry. Given his behavior over a year later, I"m glad I didn"t. I actually considered not posting all this time because I felt guilty, I didn"t want to hurt someone although it was the same person who went out of their way countless times to grief me. Why? Because I can"t freakin" force someone to love him? There is no good reason for all of the shit he did, including treating all of our female guildmates like absolute shit because of one woman hurting his ass. I dislike you because you"re a bad person, Zehn. I dislike you because you treat people like shit. I dislike you because you actually put effort into mistreating others, particularly women, particularly my friends.
Do you think I care your shadow took your cock out of his mouth long enough to make a post insinuating that I started this shit? Oh, that"s right, I pushed his woman into the arms of another man, too. I bet it had nothing to do with the fact she met him on her own and perhaps if he wasn"t treating her like shit it would have never happened. I support anyone who wants to be happy, it"s not my place to judge unless they involve me or ask for it. Take responsibility for your own actions/mistakes and stop projecting your shitty shitassedness on everyone else. Maybe then you"ll stand a chance at actually moving on, something you clearly haven"t done.
Now, on to The Spark....
What happened during his visit with her was a complete lack of a connection and a whole lot of awkwardness. She was admittedly passive, AGAIN for good measure, she admitted to this, she didn"t want to hurt him. This is something you all know (ever been given a fake number, there"s one small example). She did, however, call me while he was there and out getting pizza or something and was panicked because she was uncomfortable and wanted to leave. Sutekh"s girlfriend knows about that because she heard the whole damn thing; we felt sorry for her being in that position, and for him. That must have sucked.
However, she told him there was no spark. His response was anger, and he opted to turn around and insult any and every single person who would agree that a connection, click, spark, something has to happen between two people for things to go forward. He was pissed, told us that Hollywood has brainwashed us all, warped our minds into believing in some spark that doesn"t exist. It"s not like she mentioned love at first sight, we"re talking about a connection - something required by both people, not just one. Something he clearly thought he had enough to cover for the both of them. I have never in my life met anyone who actually would go off on someone for admitting to a lack of a connection and basically call them a fucking retard for it.
Then we have the time she was coming to visit me and I lost count of how many times he called, texted, and messaged me on Facebook trying to get in touch with her. That just so happens to be stalker-ish and creepy. The same could be said if you were to send a message to a female guildmate who is married, and talk about your exceptional "oral skills". If it"s not a close friend of yours, it could be seen as, dare I say...inappropriate?
I also wasn"t the first or only person who said that my female houseguests were creeped out at my party. So much that Lorenzo had Amy sleep with him and Christine because he was worried about her safety.
These, along with MANY other things, don"t require me to repeat to convince anyone of anything. You aren"t ever an interest of my discussions, yet after all this time, what are you doing? Is that the problem? You were instantly forgotten so you have to force yourself back in? I was nice to you, I was there for you, and supportive of you. You turned around and were extremely nasty to me over something I did not do, you took a shot at me, and a shot at someone important to me. All because you were acting like a damn girl. I had your back more times than I can count, but you"d roll over on anyone because that"s the type of person you turned out to be.
TL;DR
You got pity fucked, you came on so strong you suffocated her and creeped her out, she told you and you took your anger out on everyone around you including people who were your friends. She moved on, and whoopie-doo, was cybering her ex. I"m over it, you should try doing that, too. You were so fucking vile day after day, you ran off a lot of people, myself included. I couldn"t even enjoy a goddamn game, what used to be a getaway from bullshit, because people like you go out of their way to ruin it. Perhaps you two self-loathing assholes can high-five over your accomplishments now.
I won"t put up with this shit any longer and I"d appreciate it if you"d knock off the subtle jabs. I see them, I responded, THE END. You"re married and expecting a child, try acting like it. Take your bitterness and invest it into a better emotion. Alternatively, you can just grow the fuck up.
PS: She stopped posting here because of you, however, she may be coming back to reply. I informed "the other man", too, for good measure.