Ravvenn said:
Random question but I"m curious. Let"s say for a moment you did go meet her to catch up (as friends). Would you have told your current girlfriend?
Interesting question... but if I had decided to meet with my ex, that would speak volumes about the condition and nature of my current relationship. And to be frank, then it would mean I shouldn"t be with my girlfriend.
The conversation wouldn"t be "I"m going to meet with my ex" or "I did meet with my ex" but rather, it would be "I"m not finding everything in need in this relationship, and I don"t think this isn"t going to work."
I"m not married and I know that I can meet with anyone I choose, but there really isn"t a point to meet with your ex and "catch up," even if it"s as friends. The emotional connection that was there is something that can be easily reestablished. I wouldn"t try to argue that it wouldn"t be a big deal either, because it is.
Also, there"s no point in trying to hide things like that from your partner because that poisons your relationship, make you nervous, make you feel dishonest, and if you really care about the person you"re with that will eat away at you.
And...
Ser Kegkilla said:
do you know how many producer cocks have been in your ex"s mouth in the last 5 years? hundreds.
This goes through every guys mind. If I never knew her, that wouldn"t matter if we just met randomly. But every person she was with between the time that they left you and the time they came back, was someone they thought might be better for them, someone they thought was better than you...and that is why you don"t look back.
I know, tldr;
But I"ll leave you with something other than flying dogs... a cat with thumbs