His tool status notwithstanding, this chick is someone with some kind of issues-- saying she"s emotionally dead inside... That kind of shit gets really tiresome, really fast.
Girls who broke your heart thread
- Thread starter Aychamo BanBan
- Start date
Big Phoenix
Pronouns: zie/zhem/zer
- 44,614
- 93,159
As dumb as asking what are we after everything they had done, the fact that she doesn"t want to continue says a lot about her.
She"s definitely not interested and any further attempts to try and gain her interest will work in their opposite intention. If she wanted time with you, as a poster said earlier, she would suggest an alternative or suggest SOMETHING as opposed to just a straight blow off.
Rule of Thumb: Smiley/Frowney emoticons are 100% sign of disinterest. It"s the pussy way of saying "Listen, we just aren"t going to work out, please fuck off".
Rule of Thumb: Smiley/Frowney emoticons are 100% sign of disinterest. It"s the pussy way of saying "Listen, we just aren"t going to work out, please fuck off".
Eomer
Trakanon Raider
- 5,472
- 272
That"s true to an extent, but not as firm as that. Some people really are busy and have prior commitments. But yeah if she doesn"t offer up an alternative or at least a strong indication that she will try to find the time to hang out, then pestering her isn"t going to change her mind.Grumpus said:
You definitely should have consulted us abouthowto ask her out before you went ahead and tried to schedule a grandma date. Dinner and a movie is like "I don"t date" red flag.please Shutup said:
"I"d like to take you to dinner ____." Direct, no confusion about it being a date, open-ended as to what can happen afterwards. Learn it.
Brikker
Trump's Staff
- 6,096
- 4,423
I was in a similar situation; unfortunately for me, we were also married. She still emails me from time to time and tells me how sad she is, that she misses me and hopes I"m doing well, etc. I don"t reply to these emails (she"s the one that initiated the break up). It takes time, but when you meet someone else things, of course, improve a thousand fold. No one likes to be alone. The best cure to a bad break up is meeting a new person.Chaotic said:
eXarc
Trakanon Raider
- 1,605
- 502
while the above posts in regards to this could absolutely be true - don"t underestimate the sheer massive amount of women who think things exactly like this "i know he"s already demonstrated interest, but if he"s really, REALLY interested he"ll ask again and make sure to try and get some time with me no matter how much I have going on!"please Shutup said:
trust me.
it"s hard to read, because she could truly not want to see you or she could just be pulling the (absolutely annoying in it"s indirectness) mindfuck card to have you chase her.
only you can read her and see if this applies, but I thought that I should say something in case you hadn"t thought of it.
best of luck bro
edit: also please read this from the point of view of someone who has done this successfully with a woman who not but a month later would not stop gushing about how flattered she was that I insisted we have a date together. shrug. just don"t be too forceful about it.