Have you cheated?

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Anemone_sl

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It kinda seems like most people have, at least once. You hear sob stories from friends, so you figure it must happen a lot right? I'm kind of sickeningly interested in the personal lives of strangers, so tell me: have you?

I haven't really, but I've done something just as bad, if not worse. For a while when I was like 21 I dated a married guy, and the really weird part was that he had a 14 year old and a 16 year old daughter. He was air force and about 40, and we had to sneak around a lot like we were still high school kids. I'm not proud of it but so long as she never finds out I don't regret it at all (I'm 24 now, hope he never tells her).

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Tuco

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I added a poll to this topic. It's anonymous and I don't think it's possible to make it unanonymous.

As for me, I've only known one woman and have never cheated on her.
 
Deathwing

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Not sure you're going to get many cheaters on this forum.

But a more interesting tangent, how did it feel to date your dad?
 
lindz

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Yes, but it was a high school relationship so not sure if that counts. I was in a 4 month relationship (that ended up lasting like 2 years) with a shitty guy. I was 16, stupid and I ended up sleeping with an older guy I'd had a crush on since I was 13.
 
McCheese

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I've never cheated and the very idea of it disgusts me. I'm an extremely trusting and trustworthy person, and I expect (rather foolishly in my experience) to have that reciprocated. I've never understood relationships which stay together after cheating. For me that is an instant relationship death sentence.
 
Chysamere

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McCheese_sl said:
I've never cheated and the very idea of it disgusts me. I'm an extremely trusting and trustworthy person, and I expect (rather foolishly in my experience) to have that reciprocated. I've never understood relationships which stay together after cheating. For me that is an instant relationship death sentence.
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Tarrant

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Never cheated but been cheated on which ended a 8 year relationship/marriage.

I never understood cheating, if you aren't happy just leave the person you're with. Anyways, after being cheated on I know how bad it feels to be in that position and vowed to never do it myself.
 
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Anemone_sl

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I find my opinions on the subject change based on what works of literature I've read recently. When I was dating the married guy I was rediscovering Heinlein, which I think explains a lot.
 
lindz

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McCheese_sl said:
I've never cheated and the very idea of it disgusts me. I'm an extremely trusting and trustworthy person, and I expect (rather foolishly in my experience) to have that reciprocated. I've never understood relationships which stay together after cheating. For me that is an instant relationship death sentence.
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Once I grew up and stopped being a selfish, fucked up child I held the same opinion as you do. My husband is the world to me and I could never imagine hurting him or being hurt like that. I don't think I could stay in relationship where my partner cheated. :\
 
chaos

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I technically cheated on my ex, but it wasn't a big deal. She cheated on me, I was 3k miles away and got drunk and slayed a dragon. Not my finest hour, but I didn't really feel guilty or anything, we were still together on a matter of paperwork after that so whatever.
 
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Solariss

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I've never cheated on anybody.... But I've been with 2 girls that had boyfriends, one being an ex of mine. I basically had another girl break up with her boyfriend, but she wouldn't do anything with me until she did. I did date her for a while, so I'm not an entirely horrible person
 
Vandyn

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chaos_sl said:
I technically cheated on my ex, but it wasn't a big deal. She cheated on me, I was 3k miles away and got drunk and slayed a dragon. Not my finest hour, but I didn't really feel guilty or anything, we were still together on a matter of paperwork after that so whatever.
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Same as me, ex started sleeping around, which in turn led to me moving out and sleeping around, which in turn led to divorce. I never felt guilty about it either, once she did the deed I knew the relationship was already over.

Things like that happen when you get married young and stupid.
 
chaos

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Vandyn_sl said:
Things like that happen when you get married young and stupid.
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Yes, god yes. I only wish someone had been there to tell me what a moran I was for getting married so young. Not that I would have listened, but at least I'd know who had my back.
 
Fuse

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McCheese_sl said:
I've never cheated and the very idea of it disgusts me. I'm an extremely trusting and trustworthy person, and I expect (rather foolishly in my experience) to have that reciprocated. I've never understood relationships which stay together after cheating. For me that is an instant relationship death sentence.
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Pretty much this.

Im kinda suprised by the results of this poll, this place is not quite the hive of scum and villany I thought it was.
 
Szeth

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Never cheated... unless you count having sex with a girl that has a boyfriend. Is that cheating on the guys part?
 
Convo

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Hah I've been accused of it multiple times but I never have.. I have hooked up with girls who were in relationships, engaged and married. I actually didn't know about most of them until after tho. Shit happens I guess..
 
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Insomnia_sl

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I have never cheated, closest I ever came to it was when we had threesomes (3 times), with her and her friends. They set them all up so its not like I egged any of them on. My brothers friend actually ended up getting divorced the one time they did it, thankfully nothing negative ever came back on me.
 
Lithose

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Anemone_sl said:
I find my opinions on the subject change based on what works of literature I've read recently. When I was dating the married guy I was rediscovering Heinlein,which I think explains a lot.
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It explains a lot about women, yes. Or men pretending to be women.
 
BrutulTM

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Fuse_sl said:
Pretty much this.

Im kinda suprised by the results of this poll, this place is not quite the hive of scum and villany I thought it was.
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A big factor in the amount of cheating is opportunity. With some exceptions, MMO enthusiasts aren't known for having tons of loose women flocking around them.

I have never cheated, but I don't get too sanctimonious about it because at the risk of exposing myself as not being an international playboy, it's not like I have turned down a whole lot of free pussy.
 
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