Oh my God looking for a new house is depressing. We're still probably (hopefully) 18 months from moving but spend yesterday driving around to a few open houses and holy shit I want to kill myself. We looked at this $950k 4,400 sq ft new construction, and it was just the most sterile and soulless thing. Sure, it is open and has nice finishing touches and we could repaint walls to be colorful, but just walking in didn't feel anything like a home.
For example, this is back in an area close to us we were driving around. This is the top top of our price range but there's just no way I could consider spending that much money for this.
We went to a different neighborhood still close to us that had a 10-15 year old house for $600k, was well lived in and some some character. The main issue there is it felt so lateral to what we're already in that going from $450k > $600k home we basically gain nothing for $150k.
We've got a lot to figure out in 2 years. It almost makes me want to just remodel where we are and make this work until the kids are in high school or something and we can really move far outside town.