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No, I only talked to her through texts. She refuses to go anywhere to make the exchange, and she is going on 3 weeks of "It's in the mail", so I said I would show up to pick it up. Mainly I was saying that because I wanted her to be aware I know exactly where she lives, kind of hoping at some point she would go "Why the fuck does he know where my house is in relation to the front gate? Why does he know I live in a gated community? Fuck this, I'm just going to send it."So did you actually talk to her or just text her because the texts you posted don't really align with what you said above (this says she insists you show up at her community and the texts look like she doesn't want you to come around at all)?
I keep mainly getting advice on working things out rationally, which I have been trying to do for 6 weeks. I'm of the opinion that she doesn't understand rational, and so was hoping to make her uncomfortable without actually threatening.