Soygen said:
The vast majority of fake tits look pretty terrible, especially if the girl is naturally very small-breasted. Not to mention that they feel completely different. Be careful what you(and she) wish for.
Bro, I really like you. Don"t make me serve you.
GaliemVaelant said:
You know, I"ve actually avoided doing this my whole life. I"ll probably have to relog after I type this.
(-10,10] Rating scale, based on outward physical appearance only. Okay, going backwards chronologically, in order of the first time with them, with an asterisk by the ones you"ve seen and a + by the ones I was in a relationship with...
Jessica 9
*+Shelly -2 (11 mo)
Chrissy 5
Crystal 2
*+April 3 (~1 yr)
Elle 5
What"s-Her-face 8
Rebecca 1
Sarah 2
+Ashley 9 ( 6 mo)
Fabiana 10(Brazilian woman, in college. Hearing Portuguese during sex is OMFGASM)
*+Mary 6 (5 yr)
Linda 9
+Kim 5 (5 yr)
[-10,10] Ranked for personality, without the other symbols...
Jessica 8
Shelly -10, 8(I swear to God, she has two personalities)
Chrissy 8
Crystal -10
April -5
Elle 3
What"s-Her-Face 0
Rebecca -3
Sarah 2
Ashley 9
Fabiana 5
Mary 10 and later -2
Linda 0
Kim 8
This is a first. I really can"t remember What"s-Her-Face"s name.
OK, I asked because I wanted to see how you personally rated people, primarily the two baggers. I also wanted to see how many other girls you"ve dated and how you ranked them compared to those two.
I"m fully aware everyone has different taste, and I agree you can"t throw airbrushed playmates into this type of system. It"s unfair to natural 9"s. I also think there should be a secondary rating system for personalities, so it"s nice you added that! I wanted to see what you think you"re capable of getting, looks wise. You certainly has some generous scoring, and I"m half tempted to have you score me for a uber ego boost.
Galiem, you seem like a really nice dude. You also seem to have some really messed up self esteem issues. You can"t take a compliment without pointing out a flaw. It"s like a friend telling me my hair looks good and me saying, "Thanks, but my face looks like shit".
Maybe it will sink in better coming from someone sans wang. Both myself and another female reader here saw when you posted your picture and had a WTF moment. We mutually agreed you look pretty damn normal, and are a cutie patootie. We both expected you to be really gross, to be blunt with you. You"re not. I haven"t seen your wardrobe, but even if it"s terrifying this is something we can change (I"d suggest you enlist the help of Kuriin, Alcestis and myself for a makeover). You look to be in great shape, as well. I"d probably feed you some more, you could use a few extra pounds.
Don"t worry about height, women come in all shapes and sizes. You"ll find someone who is a great fit for you as soon as you work on your emotional issues. I really don"t think you should date until you"re more confident. You"re too prone to be shat on. Even if you were split, you don"t deserve to be treated like a doormat. You were abused, dude.
You can"t say she had a good side and continue defending and excusing her actions because of her good traits and her past "trauma". Tons of women have been abused and don"t torture men because of it. They usually come out being insecure and clingy.
I don"t think looks should weigh in on how people are treated, or how they treat others. However, I think I"d rank high on your looks scale and there"s no goddamn way I"d ever get away with as much shit as your gremlin did. I came with baggage (don"t we all), and learned long ago - you cannot use issues from the past as an excuse for being a dipshit or for making mistakes. Once you reach adulthood, you"re fully responsible for all of your actions as well as the consequences that come with them. It is on you (as a collective) to seek therapy or whatever it takes to get your baggage issues under control instead of using it as a scapegoat for being a psycho.
You"re her apologist, and you"re ultimately enabling her behavior if you continue that. We (women) are all nuts, we just split into different crazy categories. The ones who control the crazy, and the ones who embrace the crazy. Your baby mama embraces her crazy, then she ties it up and rapes it.
You said she was abused. In the same post, you said and gave proof how she lied about you, she says you abuse her, etc. Who is to say that she may have *gasp* lied about being abused?
I feel sorry for the baby, I hope he turns out OK and I hope you really stick to your guns and go for custody. I"d strongly recommend you talk to a lawyer to get custody now (yes, it"s possible). I think you have enough proof to convince anyone she"s unfit to be a parent with her manic behavior. I"m sure there"s plenty more dirt to back up your case. You may be able to call CPS and ask for their advice on how to get a lawyer through the juvenile courts (free), it"s worth a shot.
Keep focusing on your future; try to set realistic goals and times to reach them. Work on your education, future career, and taking care of your child. Bitches love single dads, babies are like puppies. So lets hope this one takes after you.
You"ve been a trooper taking the punches here, you sure are a patient guy. That will really come in handy when that baby has colic, hah!
