Marriage and the Power of Divorce

Gavinmad

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People do it all the time, they have open relationships or invite in thirds and it works for them, at least for a while. I don't understand it, but I don't understand a lot of fetishes.
Cuckold specifically means your wife is cheating on you, not an open relationship. Maybe the modern usage of the word has changed the definition, but that's the origin of cuckold.
 

Noodleface

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If he's into cuckholding that's all well and good but what really matters is how do you feel about it? I think it would take an insane amount of trust and a special relationship to want to do that. It could cause a serious wedge in your marriage if either one of you isn't 100% committed to the idea and you actually do it.
 

Lenas

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Cuckold specifically means your wife is cheating on you, not an open relationship. Maybe the modern usage of the word has changed the definition, but that's the origin of cuckold.
Way to stick to the archaic definition

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chaos

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Cuckold specifically means your wife is cheating on you, not an open relationship. Maybe the modern usage of the word has changed the definition, but that's the origin of cuckold.
The kink version takes on many forms. Some guys like their wives to go out and fuck dudes then come back and tell them, some guys like to be there, some guys like the humiliation, some guys don't. Dan Savage has a very enlightening podcast where this comes up more often than you'd think.
 

Palum

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I dunno, to me the guy being a cuck does worse damage than a threesome/open marriage/etc.

I feel like it's one of those things that someone imagines is great until it happens and then they're like 'oh, fuck, what have I done' OR they're actually Wil Wheaton.
 

Itlan

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Your husband asked you to cuckold him? Or you want to cuckold him? Either way this marriage is fucked.

PM if you need a bull, though.
 

Kedwyn

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I have no doubt people do it and some probably enjoy it. Like most porn, it's mostly staged garbage for the demented shits that can't actually get laid and those looking to launch a few quick knuckle children / crank out a quick, easy one.

Back in the day, seeing a set of scrambled titties was all you need. You'd be at full mast for an hour. Now, tits are just tits. Watch enough porn and it takes a little more and a little more and a little more to get there. Watch a ton of it and well you wander even further down the hole.

If you can make an open relationship work, all the more power to you. I have no interest in complicating my life with needless drama. Bringing in "bulls" to "seed" your wife is a whole level of fucked up though. Much less eating the pie after. Not sure what kind of repressed, gay, humiliation shit it takes to go there but I hope I never understand it.
 

chaos

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Dude, in the days of scrambled titties you were like 10. At 10 I'd jack it to literally anything. But even back then, adults were pissing on each other to get off, and spitting in each others mouths, spanking, stomping, bdsm, cuckolding, whatever. Picture your favorite picture of your grandmother, then imagine that under her clothes she has a butt plug in getting ready for the pounding your grandfather is going to deliver later that night. This is our true heritage.
 

Palum

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Yea but if you really want to see your wife get fucked, we have this magnificent new invention called the video cassette recorder.
 

lindz

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It has been entirely roleplaying for years. It has been progressing lately though.

A few years ago, I was really insecure with the idea but things have changed with me in the past couple of years.

And he's not interested in watching. Just the knowledge of me with someone else, then telling him about it.
 

Fifey

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The kink version takes on many forms. Some guys like their wives to go out and fuck dudes then come back and tell them, some guys like to be there, some guys like the humiliation, some guys don't. Dan Savage has a very enlightening podcast where this comes up more often than you'd think.
This.

For all the macho guys acting like this is a big ordeal, would you let your wife invite a girl into the bedroom with you? If so, you're a hypocrite.

Personally, I'm against open living together commited type of relationships because one person can and will get jealous, its great if you have a person you're seeing and get weird with it but I don't know about marriage. Once you've been gaped out by a BBC, he might regret his decision and his fantasy didn't live up to expectations, it will be an awkward 6 months as you both recover from that.