Well... I suppose you're right but... come on now. Don't use your phone. Use a new email your SO doesn't know about. Why MUST you use a phone? But yes you guys are right. People are stupid and sex has a way of making us even dumber than we usually are.
Even if she didn't screw the guy, she spent significant effort arranging a covert trip to screw some guy behind his back, and sat through a night of her husband's brother's wife (allegedly her best friend as well) screwing some dude repeatedly. While "holding hands" with a stranger and drinking heavily. Even if that story is true... wow, that would be a trust annihilator.
Made a ton of money and helped rid Mexico of a drug lord? Don't spoil it for me, I haven't finished the series yet.
I imagine it's hard to arrange a meetup without calling and being called by the enabler. Personally I'd just create a throwaway google account and use that, then call only when necessary. Explaining all the fucked up texts is impossible, explaining a dozen calls over a week is hard. Explaining a couple calls when you're on your 'girls night out' isn't so bad.
You didn't finish it yet? You had him as an avatar!!
Of course I finished it, might start watching it again soon. That was just a bad joke. Even if I didn't, I think Breaking Bad is past spoilers territory. Even Tuco watched it by now.
If you remember, when I caught my wife it was the same shit. I broke my phone in the afternoon on a family trip, later that evening she had gone to bed, and I was just chilling and relaxing. Saw her phone on the nightstand and went "Ohh, I'll surf the net on that." (Literally the first time I had ever touched her phone, as I can't stand iphones). I turn it on, and there are notification messages on the welcome screen from a dude, clearly in full on sexy time mode. I opened her messaging, and read the texts. She had erased everything before that evening, so she was probably talking to him all the time and just erasing at the end of each session, but she had apparently forgotten before she fell asleep.
The worst thing about the PI was giving him a feed to it. I bet most PIs would do the investigation and take at least a few days to build a report of the affair. It's probably best to keep the client distanced from the scene as I can imagine a lot of clients would see the first bit of evidence then ruin the whole deal by reaching out to the person to confront them. Not to mention he'd have to be worried about updates while managing the surveillance and discretion.
Complacency probably sets in after you have done it for a while with no consequence. You get more brazen, then you get caught. I agree, it's not that hard to believe she got lazy about covering it up.
Yep. The mind of a cheater is a foolish one. Usually they mentally build up reasons to victimize themselves in order to stave off feelings of guilt while committing the affair. Covering their tracks makes this more difficult and they'll instead favor a less discrete, "If they catch me so what, I want him to know and be hurt by it!" approach.
