This post reads like it was typed by your penis. But as others have already told you: even if this is the "right" long term move, you're making a fool of your wife. And that is a pathetic, cowardly way to live life. End it and live the glamorous life of banging your classmate without continually backstabbing someone you supposedly cared about enough to marry.
Still sucks to find out you married poorly. But her longer term prospects are golden.
you're right. she'll never be the same though. the seeds of vindictiveness have been sewn inside her and will continue to grow and grow until they transform her into an unholy, man-hating beast. she will feign a smile and fake exuberance when she inevitably walks down the isle to take the vows of a new bedfellow but when she opens her mouth to croak the words "i do" her mind will be thinking "do i? why doesn't this feel like it did the last time? did wormie have these thoughts about me at his second wedding? what did i do to deserve this? where did i go wrong?" she will go through the motions in life doing everything right, but deep inside it will feel oh so wrong. she will have three children to satisfy the demands of her Hebrew mother and when they grow old enough she will send them away to spend their summers at an overnight camp. but none of this will dull the phantom pain that will haunt her forever. she will eventually come to terms with the fact that nothing will quench this yearning inside of her. she will decide that her time has run its course and she will do everything she can to make sure her daughters don't make the same mistake she did. she will take it upon herself to have an unhealthy amount of control in their personal relationships. she will be overly critical of every man she brings home. her overbearingness will result in the implosion of her daughter's relationship with the one man she truly ever loved. and so the world turns...
Why not? That's how they treat relationships with men. How many times have you heard about the dude finding out about this exact sort of situation with their wives and girlfriends? Like every single time! They never fucking break up with you until they've already moved on emotionally at least, usually physically to some degree as well, with another guy.
The problem is you can't generalize the behavior of an entire gender based on your idea of how they act. But we can look at wormie's particular situation, and tell him that what he's doing is wrong.
I didn't mean in an absolute sense I meant "we perceive it to be wrong." In kegkilla-land I guess anything could be fine, you post your side I'll post mine.
Say women are emotional and irrational. Follow their lead for how to handle situations. Legit advice up in this thread.
