If only it was "just clean shit up" for me. I mean that would be lovely, but there is so much stuff my husband doesn't even see that needs to get done. If it's on a list maybe sometimes he'll do some but there is so much shit I can't put on a list. Like today I did a ton of laundry and noticed my kids drawers were getting full, so I sorted through them, donated a bunch, tossed other stuff in the garbage. Our dog was getting really matted so I spent half an hour brushing her out and cutting out the mats. Then I called around to get estimates for a new fence and emailed middle daughter's teacher. None of that is shit I can put on a list, but it's just stuff that needs to get done.
I mean I don't blame him - I've been the one managing the house for ten years so I know the transition is going to take a bit. But like... I'm exhausted. I'd be totally fine doing all this shit if he was picking up more of the other stuff.