Marriage and the Power of Divorce

Gotta admire a person with delusions of grandeur with no skills being "held hostage" by their circumstances who can also magically just get a job in a STEM field at will.

Actually no you dont need to admire them, you need to delete their contact info and block them

It's not like working at Intel is hard pffft

Hoss said:

Lol on the old forum the page number was in the tags for the thread. For every posts per page setting.

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That's right! I remember I had tagged it. No wonder I remembered it. Lol at multiple tags depending on your forum post per page setting!

You are supposed to be impresed knew what Intel was.

God damn it. We need entertainment. Make the bad choice.
Go for the bad end.
Fuck her. You know you want too.
Stick the dick in the blender again, this time it will be different.
Document it for our entertainment.
Fuck the crazy right out of her. You can save her. Be the hero!

The real question is why are you talking to 20 year olds? What are you gonna do for a first date? Bring her to Chuck E Cheese?

my wife and I have separated our money out and living like roommates with the occasional fuck. We don't fight and house is big enough it really isn't an issue. Not sure if its salient at this point or that I care to work on it enough just to reproduce the wheel after 8 years.

it is an interesting divulge into the female mind. Even if you think you have a keeper, deep down women ultimately have a one up in the relationship once power dynamics come out.

sorry for no drama. mildly depressing(kids), somewhat liberating(30ys old, good career).

That's kind of sad man. I guess if it works.

I changed some things and I'm under the mantra of never stop dating your wife. I think somewhere along the way I stopped doing that. Won't be getting into my marriage anymore though so put away your fangs

R.I.P. Noodleface December 2019. His tombstone reads "Happy Wife, Happy Life"

I think the reality most women have in a normie divorce is that the husband will leave the house, get a new pad close to them, and still remain in a quasi relationship that they can rely on.



Its funny how natural it is to get into marriage, and how unnatural it can morph overtime.

I feel 18 again. Last night the wife and I stayed up till 3am together. At my parents house, well the mother in law suite where I lived. Just sat up talking to each other about "stuff", holding each other, and listening to my Gram Parsons reel to reel tapes. Yes I felt a lot like high school. I gotta say I felt better mentally and physically today. Odd things. It really took the years off for a short time, went back 30-35 years for a sliver of time.

Noodleface said:

I'm under the mantra of never stop dating your wife. I think somewhere along the way I stopped doing that.

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That's a way of framing it I've never quite thought of before. Been with my wife 15 years and am happy, but something to think about going into the new year. Thanks.

Captain Suave said:

That's a way of framing it I've never quite thought of before. Been with my wife 15 years and am happy, but something to think about going into the new year. Thanks.

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We were relatively happy minus the things here. It was just something someone said in a relationship advice thread I casually read through and sort of changed my frame of mind. It's a simple concept but probably something a lot of guys forget to do

Kind of curious how much alike or different the rest of ya'lls wife are from you. My wife is a lot different than I am. She's much more liberal than I am but it wouldn't take much. We have had a lot of discussions over the years about such. I know this sounds odd but one of the things I have liked about her since we first got together is she will calmy talk to me about a lot of stuff that goes on for days and days. Some have been fantastic discussions that we were on opposite ends on. Always stayed friendly. She has the ability at time to tell me how wrong I am, tell me how it really is, how it should be, how I really should feel. And I walk away informed and not mad. It's rare, very rare. People I work with would love to have that ability.

She's has a lot of "standing up for the opressed" which is totally different than myself. But we still get along just fine. I've thought about it a lot lately. I do not know why.

Out of high school and starting college I really looked hard for someone that was a lot like me. Over time I started looking for someone not so much like me. I don't know why. I value our long discussions pretty high on the list of stuff she brings. Sounds odd I know.

Soygen said:

Is your wife's mantra "never start cleaning the house"?

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Can't speak to Noodle's wife, but that sure seems to be mine's.