Or, just maybe, people who end up getting arrested are exactly the type to have these meltdowns. A video of normal arrests of citizens not melting down or not being arrested at all is not going to get views. There's an inherent selection bias. Instead, you're just all "young women" in response to watching these.
which would be a valid point if millions of women were getting pulled over/arrested every day and there was only a few videos being posted, or if it was the same few women getting arrested and freaking out over and over and over again.
men have higher officer initiated engagement/interaction with law enforcement, where women are more likely to have initiated the engagement with law enforcement. same is true from traffic stops to residential interactions.
men get pulled over/cops called on them, women are the ones calling the cops.
Men as twice as likely to receive the threat or use of force against them in police engagements, compared to women.
Women are far more likely to perceive any interaction with the police as threatening or hostile.
So no. Men are the ones getting pulled over/arrested in huge numbers, far more likely to experience force or threat of force, and outside the hilarious drunks or the dindu crowd, they generally don't have freakout meltdowns (except for the chimp outs).
Where as women with their far few engagements (and they are almost always them calling the cops on a man), they almost always have meltdown/freakouts which is why theres so many videos of them doing it.