Parent Thread

My wife and I have friends with 2 kids ages 7 and 5 who act the fucking fool all the time. They refuse to listen to their parents because their parents are to lazy to discipline them after they learned talking dont work with their kids.. Their kids have learned this at an early age and take full advantage. It really drives them nuts when we get comments in public on how well our child behaves. All I have to do now is look at my son and he fucking knows. I dont need him to respect me before the age of 7 I need him to fear me. Everyone including his teachers think he is "Such a good natured boy. They dont know the work it took with the back of my hand

Is that a serious post dude?

For real?

What part are you having a hard time understanding? I mean I already ELI5 it for you

You want your kids to fear you?

Never spanked my kids. Never will. As chaos says; it's violence. Being their father does not grant me the right to cause them physical pain.
I only need to look at my kids and they'll cut out any shit. It's called parenting

Daelos said:

Never spanked my kids. Never will. As chaos says; it's violence. Being their father does not grant me the right to cause them physical pain.
I only need to look at my kids and they'll cut out any shit. It's called parenting

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if all you have to do is look at your kid and they know then they fear something. What is it they fear. They dont stop for no reason even if its time out they fear

vGrade said:

if all you have to do is look at your kid and they know then they fear something. What is it they fear. They dont stop for no reason even if its time out they fear

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They don't like my disapproval or disappointment.

Daelos said:

They don't like my disapproval or disappointment.

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What age? You're one of the lucky ones I was was talking about on the last page then. Not all kids respond the same. You only need more than 1 kid of your own to see that. My little brother needed no spankings growing up. He got the same parenting as I did. Im actually about to call my dad and thank him for spanking my ass. Thanks for reminding me

Your children are going to need counselling.

Yes, my children know the look, too. And I just had a conversation with one of them (17 years old). No, she said, she didn't fear me. She just knew that when I look at them like that, they've done something they shouldn't have. That makes them pause and evaluate their actions. It doesn't cause them fear because I'm going to come down on them later.

Having said that, at a certain age, when that type of reasoning wasn't possible, I did give a small swat to a some of my children, but almost never. If one of my kids was reaching for the woodstove, I smacked their hand away. I didn't make it a happy, "nonono, sweetie, you shouldn't do that." I just smacked the hand reaching for the stove. This was so rare that it had a massive impact.

Who the fuck wants their kid to fear them? This is a good thing? What?

My kids do not fear me. Sure I can shoot a look or speak in a certain tone of voice and they know it's business but what they're showing me is respect not fear.

Volto! said:

Who the fuck wants their kid to fear them? This is a good thing? What?

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Fear the consequences

vGrade said:

What part are you having a hard time understanding? I mean I already ELI5 it for you

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I asked if it was serious I didn't ask for you to explain it

So funny. If you're walking through the mall or out to eat and your kid is being a fuck up "Its the parents fault" but if they are being good its " Oh he or she is such a good child" AKA born that way. The parents in this thread ignore the 10 absolute facts if listed in this thread and attack the one thing they dont agree with. Typical reddit shit there. If I were to come in here and say all kids are the same and can be parented the same way im sure I would get shit for that too

Noodleface said:

I asked if it was serious I didn't ask for you to explain it

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If you dont think im serious as in "im joking" then you need my reasoning explained to you

vGrade said:

So funny. If you're walking through the mall or out to eat and your kid is being a fuck up "Its the parents fault" but if they are being good its " Oh he or she is such a good child" AKA born that way. The parents in this thread ignore the 10 absolute facts if listed in this thread and attack the one thing they dont agree with. Typical reddit shit there. If I were to come in here and say all kids are the same and can be parented the same way im sure I would get shit for that too

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Post anywhere that your aim is for your child to fear you And you'll get the same response except maybe NAMBLA

Yeah, dude, parenting is hard. We all know. That doesn't excuse using violence. I wouldn't hit a dog, I'm damn sure not going to wrap myself up in knots trying to justify how it's totally ok to hit my kids.

My middle girl was just taken tot he ER, I can' be there with her yet. She's 7, urgent care dr said 80% chance it's appendicitis. I'm basically freaking out right now.

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That's the fucking worst. I'm hoping you caught it ahead of time (before she's been in pain for a while).

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Yeah it started hurting at about 1 this afternoon, so not too long. I wish I had known that she had a fever, I thought it was just normal kid stuff. Luckily m wife's a paranoid hypochondriac.

They have to make her drink some resolution stuff, I don't know how this is going to work, she doesn't do well even with that fruity flavored medication much less whatever the fuck that stuff tastes like.