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She has had a boyfriend for like a year, they talking about moving in together. Hence my surprise.
So how did this asexual pronouncement occur? Was she just telling you or mom she has no interest in sex or did she proclaim she’s asexual on social media? I’m wondering if she’s truly just not interested in sex or she just needed a label like all kids now seem to need and none of the gay ones worked for her situation.
 

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She has had a boyfriend for like a year, they talking about moving in together. Hence my surprise.

People end up in the serious stages of relationships for all kinds of reasons and perspectives. I've just never met anyone who didn't like sex when they actually found a person who did it for them, unless they had a hormonal problem. We're universally wired for it, for obvious reasons. GIve it time; I'm sure this will sort itself out. Maybe she just doesn't want to feel pressured into the work of sifting through a generation of young men who frequently seem to not have their shit together on multiple levels.
 

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So how did this asexual pronouncement occur? Was she just telling you or mom she has no interest in sex or did she proclaim she’s asexual on social media? I’m wondering if she’s truly just not interested in sex or she just needed a label like all kids now seem to need and none of the gay ones worked for her situation.
We talk about pretty much everything, it came up because I said just please don't get pregnant as none of the options are good in texas. She said I have no interest in sex at all and never tried it, I told her if you trust your boyfriend then you should at least try it but she finds even the thought of it unappealing.

I do agree it will work out fine.
 

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We talk about pretty much everything, it came up because I said just please don't get pregnant as none of the options are good in texas. She said I have no interest in sex at all and never tried it, I told her if you trust your boyfriend then you should at least try it but she finds even the thought of it unappealing.

I do agree it will work out fine.
There are so many questions I can think of that might help get to the bottom of this and for the life of me I cannot ever imagine a father asking his daughter any of them lol.
 

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There are so many questions I can think of that might help get to the bottom of this and for the life of me I cannot ever imagine a father asking his daughter any of them lol.
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There are so many questions I can think of that might help get to the bottom of this and for the life of me I cannot ever imagine a father asking his daughter any of them lol.
I did ask some awkward ones but we talked about it well enough, she doesn’t even flick the bean etc. As I said I can’t relate at all but I am supportive, I know the situation could be far worse.
 

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she doesn’t even flick the bean
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Hatorade

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Yup…don’t get me wrong in my mind it went like that but I promised her and myself that she can always trust and talk to me. She is focused on college enrollment and finding a decent job right now so she can support herself when the time comes. I have nothing to complain about.
 

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I’m curious if they were both on meds growing up that could’ve caused it? Personal question so feel free to not answer.

I mean if it works for them and they’re happy, cool I suppose. There’s a lot worse things out there to be happening with her.
 

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I’m curious if they were both on meds growing up that could’ve caused it? Personal question so feel free to not answer.

I mean if it works for them and they’re happy, cool I suppose. There’s a lot worse things out there to be happening with her.
No meds on my daughters side.
 

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Does the dude seem gay-ish? Some gay dudes are happy to be with a chick that doesn't pressure them for sex since they aren't interested anyway.
I don’t think so but I am not a good judge of that, but I like him as much as any dad can like a daughter’s boyfriend.
 

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I don’t think so but I am not a good judge of that, but I like him as much as any dad can like a daughter’s boyfriend.
I guess all of us sitting here discussing why your daughter doesn't want to have sex is better than the opposite at this age. Maybe there's always a bright side.