Woahh, I never said anything except the stilettos, because that was what was required of my hostessing job. (And even then I got away with flats as often as I could.)
I'm not a master chef; that takes an exceedingly long time to become that and legitimate tests to get the title. I'm just a chef, because I went to school, and because I can cook well and know that food is more than just the taste.
As far as wife, I don't think I've ever said anything like that. I'm not married.
My life is what it is, lol. My mother had me young, so i grew up with my uncles in the house, transferring a love of sports and video games.
@ Dis: I worked at a non chain; it was financed by some of the big names in the city, (Well big names I guess if you follow the socialites.)
We had a legitimate executive chef and sous chef; our GM was our sommelier and we had 3 other managers. Two of them tended to work the night shift, while the non GM worked lunch shift and the GM worked lunch on the weekends. If he came in at night, it was generally to play sommelier to a big party.
Our servers were POS; not all of them, but there were some that excelled at making a bad situation worse. Because we had extensive wine lists (Our restaurant was based around the Sonoma county area in Cali, so wine and a fusion type of cuisine) a server who upsold a bottle of wine was probably making bank. Not many people went to that restaurant not to spend money. I guess to put it in perspective, we often rented out our big room to sports teams that were in town - I usually got called in when the Pens were there, and if they came in in small clusters I was often made to work as a server since the hostesses were dressed better than normal servers. (I'm nothing crazy, but one of our other servers was a contestant for Miss Pennsylvania, and she was fucking gorgeous.)
Rezz's experiences are more spot on with mine, if the restaurant tends to be a singular thing, not a chain. YMMV, but I grew to hate servers in my time spent at the front of the house and then later at the back. You don't sound like those I've worked with, which is refreshing, but I'm surprised you haven't seen it first hand. It can get brutal.