So you're committed enough to the relationship to be convicted as a child molester?
However unlikely you might think that is, I guarantee that there are people sitting in prison right now based on less evidence than your crazy wife could create in 5 minutes.
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So far social services is on my side and the cases have been decently documented
what if she starts planting these ideas into your son's mind? if she talks about it with him enough he's going to start believing it. Questions like "where did you touch daddy to get the pennies?" or "remember that time you and dad went camping (yes) and he touched your body?" instead of "do you ever feel uncomfortable around dad?" to which surly the answer would be no and the conversation would be over.
to me, that was the real significance of the monkey-fence. he loves monkeys and he thought they were there because she was telling him so. its tough, because I cannot teach him to not listen to his mother. Diversionary tactics while avoiding the issue until he gets older is my current strategy.
One time he did ask me, "Why did you hurt my penis?" I was like what did you just ask me. he pointed to hip, I banged it slightly when I was walking by carrying something. I was pissed at her then. she wasn't home at the time though. I figured it was just the reality I must live in.
He's perceptive and has intervened on my behalf more than a little bit, making me both prideful and shamed that he has to. I've been training him that families are teams that help each other out when one gets frustrated, cranky, tired, and overwhelmed.
scary shit man. idk what state you live in but it's a crime to not protect your minor from a situation you know is dangerous. i know a girl whose husband lost custody of their 3 kids for running around the house with a gun trying to shoot the monsters that lived in their attic while she wasnt home. then she lost custody when the judge deemed her an unfit mother for letting her kids be unsupervised around him when she knew he was schizo and having an episode. they had drugs and stuff going on too, still serious biz. or that andrea yates shit. he knew she couldnt be unsupervised, had his mom coming over, but had her alone with them for 1 hour and that's all she needed.
Oh absolutely. fuck yes I've thought of all of this. the bullshit realist in me says worst case scenario is I can make another one.
Her first episode with me, she was pregnant and I considered abortion and when he was first born, she attacked my father. we had her committed and I started to process for custody then. her mother fought it and I was more of an idealist then (because her shit had not amped up yet), and I backed off and things returned to normal - she was released less than a month later. At the time I had good relations with her doctor and assigned case worker. I was cautious for those next few months. I would tell myself and others it was due to pregnancy hormones.
but over the next two years no real incidents. She had a jealousy phase, which was annoying, but not crazy - and all my exes had those, so i figured it was a chick thing.
