The jealousy and bitterness spiel is the usual from people who hear RP thinking for the first time. Take a look at the reddit, as it's full of the same commentary. Yes, when you're first exposed to it, you will feel those feelings, and again like I said, any humanwouldfeel bitter once the idealistic notions of romance, not just sex, are wrought bare, for all to see. Once that religious idealism is expunged from how you mentally conceive of and process relationships,only thencan you speak of truth, can you talk of how things really are.
Look at your 2nd paragraph, Cad, for example - you did the very thing I warned against in a previous post: you're using the word 'love' to describe a relationship as if 'love' is something intrinsic to reality itself. 'If she loves you [...]' gets us nowhere as it describes nothing. Did the wife of a couple years 'love' the spreadsheet guy? Do the wives of all the men who get frivorced love their husbands? Sure. Probably.But they're not attracted to them anymore.
We can sit here all day in fluffstuff fantasies of idealism, of love and unicorns. Sure, I would love to find a non-carousel HB9 who 'loved me for who I am', is super-logical, and didn't shit-test to infinity. Every single woman who is at that level of physical attractiveness will behave in theoppositemanner, will be susceptible to flights of emotion, will shit-test, will want attention from other men at some point. That's thenature of the thing, of women. If yours isn't, then she's either not attractive enough or is, in fact, a special unicorn.
I'm using specific, descriptive language to describe in some scientific capacity the psycho-social components of relationships. All you guys have done is say, 'No! If she loves u ur the best!!!'
C'mon.
