Hah! Sorry man, wasn't my intention. To clarify, Cad is our resident lawyer, I just do financial planning in partnership with law firms, CPAs, and RIAs. I should have gone into law, but I missed that boat. You are right about the privacy thing though. I have historically been close to the vest. But, over the years - and thanks to sections of the forum like this - I've decided to open up a little more from time to time and ask questions that I don't have answers to, or share things that might help someone else. I don't 100% agree yet, but my wife says its OK to be vulnerable, lol.
Rural OK huh? I guess that does limit your options. If you can't get a coach, then YouTube starter routines and go with a buddy. Having a second person there, even if they aren't a professional, is much better than going it alone. Bounce ideas back and forth, spot each other if the weight is intimidating. Make suggestions if lifting form is off or potentially risky. And, the camaraderie and support can be huge for confidence and motivation.