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What habits are you falling back into? Things that helped me with self control and limiting consumption included running and keeping my fridge and pantry bare bones and weighing/portioning food into a bowl instead munching from the whole bag/container. Also, start rethinking food as a fuel/necessity instead of an indulgence or something you "deserve".
Pretty much just no portion control, just grazing all day, and by grazing I mean just housing entire pizzas on a whim. Food just keeping me sane and helping me cope. Still tracking my calories, though, so I can watch myself run at around 2500-3500/day.
 

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Pretty much just no portion control, just grazing all day, and by grazing I mean just housing entire pizzas on a whim. Food just keeping me sane and helping me cope. Still tracking my calories, though, so I can watch myself run at around 2500-3500/day.

Sounds like the best solution is to not just have it in the house at all until you can at least get used to sustaining a good habit, which takes over 30 days to develop. Limiting shopping to once a week and buy exactly what you'll eat for the next 7 days, no more no less.
 
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Sounds like the best solution is to not just have it in the house at all until you can at least get used to sustaining a good habit, which takes over 30 days to develop. Limiting shopping to once a week and buy exactly what you'll eat for the next 7 days, no more no less.
This is why, when I have my cheat days, I make sure to either A: only buy enough for that day or B: eat all of what it is I bought or C: throw it the fuck away afterwards
 
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Koushirou

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Sounds like the best solution is to not just have it in the house at all until you can at least get used to sustaining a good habit, which takes over 30 days to develop. Limiting shopping to once a week and buy exactly what you'll eat for the next 7 days, no more no less.
Yeah, I know. I'm just pretty weak-willed, ATM, so when I do my weekly store run, even if I have a list I still just end up saying fuck it and snagging snacks. It's just so hard to care anymore.
 
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On the other side of things, my attempt at trying to get back into the weight loss swing has completely failed. I'm still going to the gym twice a week and was able to get a new walking pad, but I've completely lost all my self-control on the eating front. I'm back up to 220, which is pretty much where I started at. Really disappointed and just discouraged now, but only have myself to blame. I just apparently don't give enough of a shit.
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What were you trying to do diet wise, and what are you doing gym wise? Also, what's the reason(s) behind wanting to lose the weight? Any major habit changes I think require a serious mental switch if you want it to be permanent. Kinda like how if you 'want to quit smoking' because it'd be nice to save the money or whatever other reason, but you don't actually want to quit smoking, you'll end up starting again. That kind of thing I think will carry over to weight loss, just like it carries over to people who 'want to get in shape' and sign up for the gym and go twice and then never again, etc. Diet/exercise routine and stuff can definitely make it easier or harder to stay on the bandwagon for x amount of time, though.

Yeah, I know. I'm just pretty weak-willed, ATM, so when I do my weekly store run, even if I have a list I still just end up saying fuck it and snagging snacks. It's just so hard to care anymore.

Ah, yep, that'll make it tough.
 

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Yeah, I know. I'm just pretty weak-willed, ATM, so when I do my weekly store run, even if I have a list I still just end up saying fuck it and snagging snacks. It's just so hard to care anymore.
Everyone else will give you healthy advice, and you should take it. If you can't/won't, glp1's are magic. 225 now. I've had to buy new clothes again recently, and I'm just like wtf these sizes don't even make sense to my brain.
 

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What were you trying to do diet wise, and what are you doing gym wise? Also, what's the reason(s) behind wanting to lose the weight? Any major habit changes I think require a serious mental switch if you want it to be permanent. Kinda like how if you 'want to quit smoking' because it'd be nice to save the money or whatever other reason, but you don't actually want to quit smoking, you'll end up starting again. That kind of thing I think will carry over to weight loss, just like it carries over to people who 'want to get in shape' and sign up for the gym and go twice and then never again, etc. Diet/exercise routine and stuff can definitely make it easier or harder to stay on the bandwagon for x amount of time, though.



Ah, yep, that'll make it tough.
Previous time I lost 40lbs by just staying under 1300 cal/day + the walking pad during raids and the two gym days. Gym days are 15min on the stair master at a level that kicks my ass, then ~45min of weights. I'd like to lose weight because I don't particularly enjoy being a fat, ugly piece of shit and the fat part is kind of the only thing I can fix, but I apparently don't hate being fat as much as I enjoy pounding down another pouch of decorating frosting. Almost made it through buying groceries without some this time, but my "nothing matters anyway" brain won in the end.

As for the GLP-1s, I don't really want, nor can afford, to spend $1000/mo just to get ozempic pussy and go blind trying to accomplish something I can do for free if I wasn't a dumb loser. I need to just stop fucking eating, but easier said than done when stuffing my face full of sugar is the only thing I have to look forward to every day.
 
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TheNozz

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“Normal” weight is bullshit, btw. Get where you feel comfortable and confident.
While i appreciate the encouragement, the cold hard fact I've learned, with 20 + years of weight loss battles, is that I fall solidly into a category of someone whos BMI is accurately predicted by the NIH website. In fact, I'd be willing to bet that most individuals do.

I know people talk about muscle mass and bone density throwing off BMI values, but I'd bet the vast majority of the population do not lift/have the muscle enough to fall in this category.

I'm starting more and more to ascribe to the adage "Most people are fatter than they realize."

But, I also don't think that's an excuse to not pursue lifting or strength goals. I can finally do 5 x 5 Dips on parallel bars, and I'm pretty sure I'll be getting back to doing pullups soon after I've mastered inverted rows. I mostly focused on total fat loss this year, with calisthenics as a supplement for strength, and was going to focus more on muscle building in 2027.
Previous time I lost 40lbs by just staying under 1300 cal/day + the walking pad during raids and the two gym days. Gym days are 15min on the stair master at a level that kicks my ass, then ~45min of weights. I'd like to lose weight because I don't particularly enjoy being a fat, ugly piece of shit and the fat part is kind of the only thing I can fix, but I apparently don't hate being fat as much as I enjoy pounding down another pouch of decorating frosting. Almost made it through buying groceries without some this time, but my "nothing matters anyway" brain won in the end.

As for the GLP-1s, I don't really want, nor can afford, to spend $1000/mo just to get ozempic pussy and go blind trying to accomplish something I can do for free if I wasn't a dumb loser. I need to just stop fucking eating, but easier said than done when stuffing my face full of sugar is the only thing I have to look forward to every day.
Man, I can totally sympathize with this. Too often in the past, I'd go cycling for hours with friends, and then throw away that progress by stuffing myself with pizza.

I can tell you, for me, that limiting my net carbs to 50G or less per day, has an amazing effect at curbing hunger. But also remember to drink a lot of water and to get some keto friendly electrolyte powder mixed into it once or twice a day otherwise you'll dehydrate yourself extremely fast as your body wont retain much fluid.

You really do have to look at your weight loss journey like this:


I'm pretty sure that, once I've attained my ideal weight, I can generally get enough physical activity to maintain: I've had years of experience where I would eat like shit, but stay the same weight for months on end. Didn't lose weight, but didn't gain either. You should be checking the scale at least once per week.
 
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Previous time I lost 40lbs by just staying under 1300 cal/day + the walking pad during raids and the two gym days. Gym days are 15min on the stair master at a level that kicks my ass, then ~45min of weights. I'd like to lose weight because I don't particularly enjoy being a fat, ugly piece of shit and the fat part is kind of the only thing I can fix, but I apparently don't hate being fat as much as I enjoy pounding down another pouch of decorating frosting. Almost made it through buying groceries without some this time, but my "nothing matters anyway" brain won in the end.

As for the GLP-1s, I don't really want, nor can afford, to spend $1000/mo just to get ozempic pussy and go blind trying to accomplish something I can do for free if I wasn't a dumb loser. I need to just stop fucking eating, but easier said than done when stuffing my face full of sugar is the only thing I have to look forward to every day.
With insurance or a compounding pharmacy you can get the lower dosage Ozempic for a reasonable cost. I get wanting to do it on your own, but it really is a powerful tool if your willpower isn't getting the job done.
 
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With insurance or a compounding pharmacy you can get the lower dosage Ozempic for a reasonable cost. I get wanting to do it on your own, but it really is a powerful tool if your willpower isn't getting the job done.
At the least, it might be worth a try for 4-6 months to see if it does anything and you feel ok.
 

zombiewizardhawk

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Previous time I lost 40lbs by just staying under 1300 cal/day + the walking pad during raids and the two gym days. Gym days are 15min on the stair master at a level that kicks my ass, then ~45min of weights. I'd like to lose weight because I don't particularly enjoy being a fat, ugly piece of shit and the fat part is kind of the only thing I can fix, but I apparently don't hate being fat as much as I enjoy pounding down another pouch of decorating frosting. Almost made it through buying groceries without some this time, but my "nothing matters anyway" brain won in the end.

As for the GLP-1s, I don't really want, nor can afford, to spend $1000/mo just to get ozempic pussy and go blind trying to accomplish something I can do for free if I wasn't a dumb loser. I need to just stop fucking eating, but easier said than done when stuffing my face full of sugar is the only thing I have to look forward to every day.
Well, trying to go from 2500-3500 calories down to 1300 is a huge swing, probably too big unless you have an iron will and even then maybe too much. The mental battle is almost always way harder than any physical battle involved with change.

I have heard good things about keto/carnivore from people IRL, both on the curbing hunger side and on the clearing up random minor health/skin/etc. issues.

As far as the hating yourself/finding motivation side, I can't really help much there since I think that's a battle that everyone kinda has to face on their own and at least for me, what other people say doesn't really ever impact how I feel about myself in those regards, even if objectively I agree with them. I'm up to floating around 185-190ish and fairly muscular (used to be 145 before I quit smoking and started working out) but I still look at myself in the mirror all the time and tell myself I haven't made any changes at all and am tiny.
 

Fogel

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Previous time I lost 40lbs by just staying under 1300 cal/day + the walking pad during raids and the two gym days. Gym days are 15min on the stair master at a level that kicks my ass, then ~45min of weights. I'd like to lose weight because I don't particularly enjoy being a fat, ugly piece of shit and the fat part is kind of the only thing I can fix, but I apparently don't hate being fat as much as I enjoy pounding down another pouch of decorating frosting. Almost made it through buying groceries without some this time, but my "nothing matters anyway" brain won in the end.

As for the GLP-1s, I don't really want, nor can afford, to spend $1000/mo just to get ozempic pussy and go blind trying to accomplish something I can do for free if I wasn't a dumb loser. I need to just stop fucking eating, but easier said than done when stuffing my face full of sugar is the only thing I have to look forward to every day.
Sounds like you need a weight loss or workout friend that can help you keep yourself accountable. That person that is going to give you a hard time if you buy the tub of frosting.
 

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Sounds like you need a weight loss or workout friend that can help you keep yourself accountable. That person that is going to give you a hard time if you buy the tub of frosting.
Male privilege. Men have no problem calling each other lazy retarded fatasses, but women all sit around and tell each other "you're beautiful" or whatever else no matter how much of a fruit loops orbit they develop. I doubt she's going to find someone to tell her to stop being the hoover dam IRL.
 
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Koushirou

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Sounds like you need a weight loss or workout friend that can help you keep yourself accountable. That person that is going to give you a hard time if you buy the tub of frosting.
Shaming me for frosting was probably the only thing my ex-husband was good at doing for me. Though, I didn’t actually start losing weight until we split up and was still fat as fuck anyway. He straight up would refuse to buy me just a single slice of cake for my birthdays.
 

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Shaming me for frosting was probably the only thing my ex-husband was good at doing for me. Though, I didn’t actually start losing weight until we split up and was still fat as fuck anyway. He straight up would refuse to buy me just a single slice of cake for my birthdays.
Step 1. Stop buying frosting
 

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Shaming me for frosting was probably the only thing my ex-husband was good at doing for me. Though, I didn’t actually start losing weight until we split up and was still fat as fuck anyway. He straight up would refuse to buy me just a single slice of cake for my birthdays.

My workplace of 700+ medical people has a huge number who are doing GLPs right now. It may not be healthy in the long run but it's making a lot of people happier and healthier right now. Lots of possible SEs that you have to manage but it is an option if you want it. Couple of 'dealers' are providing most of it, but you can get it cheap on your own from what one of my coworkers has been telling me. Like $50 or less per bottle (bottle lasts 4 weeks). If you like, I can find out for you. I understand both your safety concerns and wanting to do it on your own. I also understand how difficult it is to lose weight (and keep it off) and the feelings of don't give a fuck during this presidency and the previous one. World's getting shittier but we enjoy you being here and if you want help we're here to do what we can.