Great description exactly how I felt....... After the realms are connected does the cross realm BS go away ? My server has always been small and I enjoyed that for it was easy to camp a rare hunter pet or what ever item(s) you needed to pick up for faction ( netherwing eggs etc ) however now it just sucks.Connected = a server merge in everything but name. You can form guilds and raid heroics and everything else as if you were all one server.
Cross realm dogcrap = every pre 90 zone is overcamped or full of gankers looking for "world pvp" aka "farming a lowbie endlessly while beating off because you're such an awesome troll and lol I bet that guy is SO mad huehuehue" You can from dungeon and raid groups with these people, but not do current normal/heroic raids. Soon possibly just heroic raids, because who the fuck cares.