So....
As per my last post in this thread, GF is in the reserves now and currently at her MOS school until probably beginning of December. Seeing as how this is a LDR until then, things are obviously different namely a complete and utter lack of intimacy or sexual interaction between us now.
Before she left we were fairly sexual. Sex was once 1-2 a week usually since we didnt live together but sexting/skype/pictures was an every day and constant thing for us. There literally wasnt a day that went by that something sexual between us happened. Id randomly get pictures from her or she would ask me to send something to her. If I asked her to take a picture of herself I would get 5-6 pictures.
Flash forward to now and there is absolutely none of that anymore, its like that aspect of our relationship never existed at all. No I miss being in bed with you, no I had a dream about this or I cant wait to do xyz etc. no banter or flirting or anything at all. She will kind of respond if I say something to her, but her response seems token. Shes sent 3-4 pictures to me, but that was only after practically begging for them.
Naturally I ask whats going on why the change. She simply says she cant text/talk or be like that because there simply isnt any privacy now. Which is true to an extend, she lives in a small room with 3 other girls. Thing is though privacy has never stopped her before. She never had problems texting sexually or sneaking away to snap a picture before when she was our with her parents, at work etc.
Example of this is this morning. I sent her a text saying I woke up incredibly hard, zero acknowledgement of that text. Last week she was out shopping for clothes. Usually this would mean id get a picture of her in a changing room, nothing. Even after I asked.
So this leads me to being incredibly frustrated sexually, and just in general. Is my frustration justified or am I blowing this out of proportion?
