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TheCutlery, sorry buddy but no one made any judgment about you being happy or not until you brought it out first. Tenks was just calling Grobbee out on being a dumbfuck as usual, you came in with your "my way is the only way" stupidity, and Tenks successfully baited you into some rageout with...

Gone 3 days, here"s what I basically read Grobbee: Only married people with kids can truly be happy Tenks: People are different, if you need another person to be happy then your life is sad Thecutlery: You think you"re happy as a single person but you"re not Tenks: life experience cheap...

I really liked your post until this part. Whether you think he looks ridiculous or his methods are fake, he"s an expert at getting women. And you being a woman means he probably knows how to hit all the right buttons with you as well. "Oh but that wouldn"t work on ME!" Give me a break...

Goin away for a weekend with her + "we shouldn"t date" conversation sounds like an awesome combo for ruining both your times. But tell her so she doesn"t get the wrong idea, preferably before the trip. Being honest and up front makes your life a million times easier. Girls often ignore it...

Guy has good advice. The girl isn"t relationship material. Yea, you hit the jackpot for a fuck buddy. Enjoy it. But don"t think you"re building to a relationship. She wants you to fuck other girls. No normal functioning girl who is relationship material will EVER say that. Are you gonna marry...

I get your point and I agree. But restraint sets the tone for a more mature and real relationship. (It can also rile a girl up and keep her more interested and for longer if you are just looking for a fuck buddy.) And her perception matters also. What do you think of when you meet a girl and...

The last girl fizzled because you fucked her immediately or because you tried to hold off and build anticipation? I think denying her with a real/responsible reason like early work can amplify a girl"s attraction because almost no guy will turn down even the slightest chance of sex for any...

V day is tricky as hell for ambiguous relationships. But, you both know what fucking day it is, and you both are wondering how the other thinks of it, so if you ignore it and never mention it you look like a god damn weirdo. And you ARE a weirdo for never mentioning it. Even if you have a fb...

The point is, the people giving the advice are completely serious about it. Coming in and going "yea dude get a paternity test and go on MAURY!" would be funny. But these people actually think this is the best option for the guy. And when he disagrees they go off like he"s some naive dumbass...

A+. I changed my mind...can we be friends? Did anyone notice how the paternity test insanity came about? No one said anything for what, 2-3 days, then one guy said "you had only 2 breaks and she got pregnant? maybe you wanna get a paternity test." Then when Tarrant denied that possibility 2-3...

Eomer, if there"s EVER a time to say "never again," this is it. Hopefully that cemented in your mind that shit is never fucking gonna work out with this girl. You will know the answer why she was acting like she is. Don"t contact her ever again, see other women, and move on with your life. In...

Having a misunderstanding from ambiguous wording and making an assumption without having hardly any information are not the same. They"re not even in the same ballpark. Tarrant...I"m always backing you but I gotta be honest: I think you are rationalizing after finding out you might be having...

Haha, I read "two breaks" as break in relationship, implying she may have slept with another guy, rather than condom breaks. Oops

hahaha fucking hilarious You had 2 breaks, as in you broke up and she may have banged another dude? Damn...

Better than I expected. The more affection I show her the more responsive she is, and the more open she gets. I sorta keep forgetting that fact. It"s going a whole lot better than before. She"s a lot more open, jokes back with me more often, has some more balls... But, I"m not the sorta guy to...

Here it goes again with the entire thread making assumptions about something they know absolutely nothing about. Good:I used to do theater, the cast always slept together, so be wary of that. I used to direct movies, and most of the actresses were sluts, keep that in mind. Bad:I used to...

Calling your girlfriend"s boss would be ridiculous. The guy is pissing you off because he"s not respecting you. One attempt is one thing, but to constantly pursue a girl in a relationship is a slap to the boyfriend. Do you ever see him? Just call him on it, casually and without anger. Make...

Don"t play cat and mouse games when you"re the mouse. Add more one line wisdom

I"m not knockin casual relationships. Just sayin there are certain girls it typically flies with, certain girls it doesn"t. And most of the time, the girls it flies with are just the type of girls you"d only want to have a casual relationship with. The girls it doesn"t, ie the girls you screen...

Casual relationships work great for the restaurant business, sluts, bar girls, bar women who think they"re girls, girls with no pride, and a select other few. That kinda game don"t work on all women...notably, the ones you actually wanna date.

Your girl will dump you if she"s all you have going for you. She probably senses it now and that"s why you hardly see each other. Force yourself out of the house. Meetup.com is a great place to find weird people to do the same shit you like to do.

To me it"s always been about practicing or mimicking certain behaviors until it became natural for me. If you aren"t good at talking to girls, you have to practice and fail before you get good, as is the case with any skill. If you don"t know what you"re doing or get unexpected reactions all the...

Haha, seriously this is problably the best likelihood for success. Not that the relationship has a chance for long term if you do this, but it"s a good experiment to see just how much changing a key detail can change her opinion of you. But, my money"s on the same shit happening, only 2-3...

Ok, can you name the new one like Annabel or something so I don"t have to squint to see who you"re talkin about? heh, or just something else entirely since names being similar is irrelevant when you"re making the name up anyway

I"m confused, is this the chick you dated and she wanted time for weeks to think things over then you broke up, and we all criticized you for hanging on to every weekly text? Or is this someone else, and why do they have the same name on here? I"m honestly lost and I read every painfully long...

Haha, this made me laugh, and smile.

I got a little story that is not really related to this thread but close enough as this is more or less the livejournal thread. I have this friend in Korea, an American, who is a lesbian. She is quite sure of her sexuality and never dabbles in men, ever, and never desires to. Over the past few...

It"s even creepier when you find the penis

Erica and....Eric

Yea I don"t really have any delusions about what will happen. If I were to go on my own judgment at this very moment, I"d say it"s probably best to leave it alone. But I"m exploring a different avenue than I usually take, partly because I"m tired of going years between relationships because I...

The friendship isn"t real anyway. He might think it is, but I"ve known girls like that and they are mostly parasites. If they are having a shit time you might have their back, but if you are, they are no where to be seen. And if the new flavor of the month comes along, you"re out also. I"m a...

Brad she"s completely manipulating you into paying her bills. How long have you been separated? Clearly enough time for her to set up on her own. Don"t take that shit and her emotionally whoring herself out for your sympathy. Even her texting you all that stuff is bullshit. She"s trying to make...

This. I"m not married/divorced nor do I have a child so I"m not making any judgments, but I can give you the child"s perspective and tell you without a doubt what will happen if you follow a certain path. My parents went through a really shitty and vindictive divorce. 12-some years later they...

Not giving a fuck is important because it shows that you don"t go on looks alone and are selective about a girl"s personality. That is completely not the case when you already know them. However it is still important to not come on too strongly and scare her away. Just proceed with cautious...

Back from a 2 week vacation and only like 3 pages have gone on. Weak! Girls with self-esteem issues will only cause you frustration. Can"t see em naked, you can"t get up and go do something spontaneously because they always gotta get ready, the list is endless, plus yea they are more likely...

Who gives a fuck If she knows your ex. How does that matter at all? It matters only because you make a big deal about it. Send her a message probing how well she knows her? Grats on looking like a huge vagina and totally telegraphing that youre worried how shell react. If a girl is into you...

Well, date was sorta boring. I did my best to liven it up and set up some back-and-forth banter but nothing took. And she wasn"t as cute as I remembered (I was drunk when I met her). I think I"m gonna try somethin bold with the convenience store girl near my house. I saw something in her eyes...

Felt shitty Tuesday so I didn"t call her and slept instead. Called today from work after lunch, secured a date for later tonight. Got an immediate yes, then we stumbled for 2 min because she was so quiet and I couldn"t understand her telling me where she lived (it"s hard enough understanding it...

Good story

Holy shit I agree with something gryeyes has said. But as always, its a mixture of both. People may have a natural tendency towards being dominant or submissive, but the circumstance ultimately dictates the social hierarchy. An absurdly small number of alpha males are alpha in every...