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I also read that situation as a weird awkward girl talking herself down so you wouldn"t get disappointed when you discover she"s weird and awkward. On the phone/txt/during date, just point out a quirk she has and compliment her on it. Make her feel comfortable being herself around you. Only...

Broke up with the gf on Saturday. She showed no emotion whatsoever other than the tension I could read on her face. She"s always been prideful and I didn"t expect her to weep at my feet but I was kinda expecting a more honest reaction. Hell, she started to cry a little one day weeks ago when I...

I"ve never done it and never wanted to, but after years of hearing it referenced I"m kinda driven to try it simply out of curiosity. The only thing is, if I smell that shit (pun INTENDED) I"ll loose any erection instantly.

Ok thanks for feedback. That"s basically what I thought. I can sum up the backstory and just say she"s incredibly insecure and selfish. She wants to get married and have babies at 21 and I think her ONLY motivation for all that is to lock him down. I think she knows she isn"t good enough for my...

It"s a friend, hence the quote, the name, and the breaking up a few weeks ago =p I want to see what people think about the quote without any context. I know too much context and my opinion of it is undeniably affected by that. So feel free to judge, make conclusions, whatever, based just on...

I will give context after opinions. What"s the first thing that comes to your mind:

I"m gonna stay consistent in my advice and suggest you don"t worry about asking the chick out until you actually meet her and decide you like her. And naturally, since that option is already done for, it will be the same. And +1 on the tape recorder idea.

I"m gonna say listen to the guys with personal experience with the exact same issue, and bow outa this one. Let us know how it goes.

The only thing that sticks out to me as a deal breaker is when the guy (props to him btw for respecting your territory in the IM) said no dice and she says "you never know *wink*." That shit is a biiig fuck you to you. The "the best 5 months were when I was single" is a big wtf as well. Those 2...

I"m totally lost on everyone"s stories. Post fucking links please or spoiler the backstory copied from previous post.

You suggested he not ask her (I don"t know how to quote quotes). And with an early relationship there"s no reason to stick around and work out a problem. I put those 2 together to mean break up. Incorrect inference I guess. So the suggestion is either accept that she"s distant for a week...

What"s with all the advice to end a relationship the instant an issue comes up. There"s one thing that"s bugging you and "ok, that"s it we"re through." He could ask the girl about it, get a perfectly legit and understandable answer and the issue goes away like that. He didn"t even fuckin ask...

Haha, so on the money. I seriously thought it was a real post at first and thought "god not this again." Well done sir. To OP, there"s too many possibilities to speculate. Ask her about it. Should be easy to tell if she gives / tries to give you a real answer, or if she gives you the run-around.

Sound like one of my best friends back home. I"m always trying to be unbiased with him and not push my opinion on him, but one day I told him for an hour why he should break up with his girlfriend that he is temporarily split up with. The entire conversation was all epiphany after epiphany for...

New SS challenge: get a girl in bed without kissing her. Go.

Every success post I read I think "fuck, and I bet they have real conversations too." Hah. Every day my Thailand vacation gets closer and I think how much I wanna be single for that... I think DG and I are gonna break up soon. It"s difficult as always but I just don"t get that feeling of...

Yea movies are a terrible date. Alcohol is good. I always at least suggest a beer with dinner. Girl needs to loosen up also. And going to your place at date 3 especially if things aren"t goin that well is kinda odd. I don"t expect the girl to be comfortable enough with you for that. And...

I slightly disagree with the consensus here, but I will agree with the conclusion that it"s time to move on. I think it"s hard to say where you stand with her, beyond the obvious conclusion of: not first choice. I"d tentatively say you"re between friend zone and romantic interest. If you told...

Hahahaha. Maybe you should publish your findings and become the most famous psychologist in the history of mankind. God can those of us interested in making productive posts here all collectively agree to ignore these clowns shitting up the thread? Posts like dianetics asking for advice...

The signal you want to look for when you meet her is: hair teasing when talking to you, bashfullness, touching you gently, hitting you when you tease her, or anything else that shows even the faintest hint of nervousness around you. But the bottom line is that the bolded part is what holds...

"Man up" statement is a direct statement of interest. You"ll never get more direct than that. It allows her to express interest without completely commiting to it (she can always say it was a joke if you reject her). But it"s a sign of interest. Now, given that you admitted you were a pussy...

I"d suggest maybe just backing off a little, go back to the other girls for a bit then find a way to bump back into this chick and start over. If she is in fact losing interest, you gotta hit the reset button if you want it back. In this case I don"t think it"s too difficult, but if your...

I would be taking the lead when it comes to planning dates. You can let her text a majority for pointless chitchat, but when it comes to making plans, you should be the one doing it. P.S. Shut up grob no one cares

the clap?

huh?

I think I need a pregnancy or std scare to make me more responsible. I simply say fuck it too often when I"m drunk or haven"t gotten it in a while, or run outa condoms or something and go pullout method. Or like I need to get something curable like the clap to scare me. I"m much, much better...

Yea I was being serious

I just bought some japanese condoms because they were 1/2 the price of durex and the durex I tried fucking sucked. These"ll prob be even smaller though bc they"re japanese brand ><

My philosophy has always been do what I can, but if the girl won"t tell me her preferences when I ask, and I can"t figure it out on my own, fuck it. Don"t rack your brain about it. She"s an Asian chick? Good luck getting past the 5 million mental barriers preventing her from just letting go...

So I mentioned like Tuesday that I told DG that I intended to stick to my plan of going back to the states in 16 months. She ignored my texts for 2 days but I decided to go about business as usual and continue to message her every now and then, no more no less. I figured she"d either be in a...

You don"t respect her career or her philosophy about life. Anything else could be absolutely 100% perfect and it would be doomed because of this fact. It is absolutely a deal breaker. You can never build a life around someone who has a belief system that you flat out don"t respect at all...

Eomer, my prediction was wrong. I was expecting a reply probe from her within hours. Brekk actually had a fantastic point though. A disinterested all business reply is probably a clearer message than ignoring. In any event, that"s 1 step closer to fully breaking contact with her. I"m not opposed...

If he will listen to me and let me test my theories, I support continuing to text her. P.S. Update necessary P.P.S. After I resolved the issue with DG (minus making sure she kept her word by seeing her apartment draped in black penis wallpaper) she was over last night and I stupidly...

She doesn"t want you to move on because she likes when you sell your dignity to even have a brief conversation with her. She"ll keep doing it as long as you keep responding. It"s not a coincidence that it"s timed out so perfectly every time. For the love of god, please don"t buy into that...

You can like a chick but just not be intrigued by her. It"s kinda the male equivalent of friend-zoning or the place-holder boyfriend, only since you"re a guy there"s sex involved regardless, so it"s less cut and dry. No worries, just be honest, and as long as you do that you have nothing to be...

So, I re-read the trainwreck from start to finish to get a better perspective of what actually made this thread go to shit. Zehn"s absolutely right, I shoulda taken the criticism in stride and laughed about it. As I go back, the only ones who were jumping down my throat from the beginning are...

What advice? All that happened was I got mobbed by a bunch of people who have never posted in the thread before with such vigor that they had to have been jerking off as they were typing. There is no advice in this thread in regards to me other than what whyme posted.

The difference is that when my girl acts shady, I am supremely confident in my ability to handle the situation properly and make sure it doesn"t happen again. And if I am unable to change anything, I am supremely confident in my ability to recognize that and act accordingly. I am not confident...

Yea I had to cherry pick this statement, but that is the issue to me and I agree with you. Fortunately, issues building trust is something I explicitly prepared myself for from the moment I decided to date a Korean girl given how reserved they are, how westerners have a reputation for using them...

I"m laughing as I"m typing this because this whole thing has just turned preposterous. *I* mentioned the apartment thingon here onlymonths ago because it was confusing to me but it has NEVER arisen as an issue between me and her until this mini mini argument we had on Saturday. Oct. 31 was given...