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Not all girls are sluts that get DPed every week.

Again, after our talk she said I can come over any time I want. So, the mexican family, 2 black dudes and Korean boyfriend that she plans on marrying while she fucks me on the side have all moved out. And I"m guessing they"ll be strategically replaced with dunkin donuts boxes to be more...

Whyme is absolutely right. In addition to having great advice, the point about things not being cut and dry that when there"s an issue at all its time to say "ok you"re in column B of lying bitches and we"re breaking up" is right on. Coming out with "it"s time to dump her" is a pretty good sign...

It"s not an ongoing issue. It came up in the past but my response, to her, has never been anything but confusion and ultimately indifference. I only ever brought it up here because I found it strange and wanted to know if it was a common thing for Korean women, as I know a couple posters have...

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Heh, I feel like if I post any more details about the situation to justify my position I"m gonna be accused of being delusional, so I"m just gonna not bother arguing about it until I find out the real reason. But anyway, thanks for the feedback. I really just wanted another perspective to see...

Nothing you said even remotely exemplifies my position on cases here nor anything that I have said. "I"m not surprised since she was 18 blah blah" = "doomed to failure." And "given when I know I don"t think..." = "I got this bitch all figured out." Well I"m thankful for the feedback from...

Haha no, but lying about that wouldn"t make sense at all. My intuition just says its insecurity. She says its packed to the gills with supplies for her store. There is the smallest chance she"s hiding some skeletons but something like a live-in boyfriend or any really shitty/immoral thing is...

She lives alone and her parents are 5 hours away.

I"m posting this mostly for entertainment/venting purposes, and maybe some feedback if it turns out everyone says I"m insane. I got into sorta a fight today with my girlfriend over something pretty trivial. I mentioned before she was apprehensive about me seeing her apartment. At one point, and...

First, drinking yourself into a coma is a terrible way to "get over" an ex. If you"re still upset about it, you really shouldn"t be drinking at all. It masks the unhappiness with a substance. That leads to a habit. You know when moms give their kids ice cream and snacks when they had a bad day...

Why does anyone respond to Degrassi anyway? He"s just a big a faggot as ark, except ark is more like the "I like to insult anyone and everyone at the tip of a hat" style faggot whereas Degrassi is the "I"M SO FUCKING AWESOME LOOK AT ME" style faggot. I"ve never met a single person in my life who...

All out of a girl you didn"t give a fuck about at first. Hah. Well done sir. And yea remember to keep it toned down for at least a couple weeks.

Don"t answer that number anymore. Problem solved.

Number one, find out if other teachers have dated students, and what the school"s policy is. Find out without revealing anything about yourself, if possible, but if it"s not possible, find out anyway. I"m teaching abroad too and know how important your job is to your life there. Under normal...

This.

You should kill yourself for not calling her a stupid bitch and waste of oxygen right after hearing about her routinely stealing clothes from stores. And she says "can I sell your furniture" and you say "lol lets go on a date!" gtfo

I think girls who seem really into you at times, and distant at others, are actually just really into you and trying to hold back to not creep you out and/or get hurt themselves. There is also the option that the chick is a headcase and loves the flavor of the month, but obviously this case...

First, the clarification makes more sense of the situation. This is a case where just being completely honest is the best call imo. Do you wanna get back together with her? If so, tell her, address the problem, and find out if you can come up with a solution. We/I always talk about not being...

This is a good call. And I am also a fan of simply saying something along the lines of "it is impossible to have a real friendship when there are romantic feelings, so at least for right now I don"t think we should try to be friends." Honesty is so underrated and in cases like these just makes...

Eomer. Think about this. Pretend you dated a girl for a bit. You liked her personality a lot and you two seem to just fit well together. You are excited at first, but soon realize something is missing for the long-term. You just didn"t have that feeling of admiration you want to have about...

Should have been the end of that texting convo. You"re just searching for any means necessary to continue any contact you get with her. It"s incredibly obvious, and if it"s obvious to me, a male, she senses it 10x as much. You know she"s baiting you for attention. She wants you to grovel at...

You guys live in a closet or haven"t fucking dated as adults in the past decade. Or you live in like rural Ohio or something. That"s the shit I get here, my korean friend telling me this girl he just started dating a week ago professing her love for him. In many parts of the world and many...

looks like someone is still bitter from not being listened to like a month ago

haha well played and really, did anyone NOT know for 100% fact that brad was gonna fuck this girl again, and soon? not a criticism btw

What"s it gonna take to rename this chick?

I get it; didn"t see/consider that point of view. Only saw it as asking for reassurance. So yea ignore my statement.

Fine Fail Looks like it doesn"t matter though, but usually dropping something like "is that an issue?" with a 9/10 results in an automatic total failure. I shouldn"t have to explain that one.

What do you want to do on Friday? Do that, and tell her that"s what you are going to do. "I think I"m just gonna stay in and relax on Friday" is a perfectly acceptable statement. I usually say something along the lines of "I hope you don"t think I"m blowing you off, I just enjoy time by...

It"s a very delicate balance. Too much contact and you lose your appeal, too little and she gets discouraged. It is a balance that I have only ever achieved when my disinterest isreal. I"ve tried to fake it many times. Making the girl chase me used to be my move 100% of the time, but I found I...

Can"t you do it gradually? Saying something like "I really like spending time with you," and not expecting a response (but of course the purpose is to gauge her response) is less of a commitment than "lets be exclusive." If she reciprocates you can escalate the conversation to exclusivity. If...

Tarrant, I"ll just say that if you"re not used to the situation, you REALLY gotta keep up the hard-to-get routine or she"ll lose interest quick. And it"s not surprising you said the girl is more attractive than you"ve ever gone out with. Being unobtainable is a million times more effective with...

Well done tarrant. Ballsy move on the canceling chick but it worked and now she"s in the palm of your hand.

They said that in the past, they"re agreeing with you now. Maybe you convinced them? Isn"t that the opposite of insanity...learning something? Now granted, Eomer talking about a 19 year old hehasn"t gone out with or even talked to in personand using words like "we"ll see what happens" is...

Ronaan is right Antarius. The girl has no job, no drive, no prospects, and fucks guys she meets on an iphone app (wtf?). Obviously that is not good relationship material. If you don"t know when is the "right time" to enter a relationship, start with simple and obvious: when you really like...

As it should. If you can manipulate your mind to make THAT the end goal, make the goal to go in as confident as possible and to perfect your approach, rather than the outcome (date or no date) being the goal, you naturally stop caring as much and are almost always happy with the results, which...

And here I am to tell you things you fucked up! First, you had the balls to ask her out directly so well done. And on second read I think you may have made up for a couple mistakes. First one should be obvious, we have been preaching this since day 1: have a date plan, don"t just say "lets...

Eomer I"ve noticed with girls you"re always wanting to know more, asking questions constantly, always interested in what they have to say regardless of the circumstances. You always have a response, no matter what they say. I feel like a girl could call you a piece of shit waste of oxygen and...

I choose it over friend because friend kinda sounds like you"re 12 and read comic books together. Much preferable is mate, but alas I was not born in Australia or the UK.

Great post. I will break my "no one can give you advice here" statement for a moment just to second this part. Don"t avoid the pain with booze or any other substance (which includes obsessive MMO playing). It will keep you mentally fucked up longer doing that. You should, however, see a grief...