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Let"s see, throwing away absolutely all of your personal and career goals for an insecure woman that is 50% older than you, with 3 kids, and to work at a restaurant for the rest of your life? There"s no way that can go wrong edit: I just realized I have 2222 posts, therefore I dedicate...

No one here is qualified to give advice on that matter. Go to a counselor and deal with it through him/her. P.S. How do they not know the cause of death? And if she"s buried, they aren"t gonna find out now, no?

It"s not your job to care or think about it at all. You can"t help how often she pops up in your mind involuntarily, but you can help allowing yourself to mull over questions regarding her. And the more you do that, the more she is gonna keep popping up in your head. When your ex pops into...

Been here 7 1/2 months now, but I"ll be staying for a 2nd year. So...like 16 more months. I wasn"t dismissing it, I just kinda mentally gagged when I heard it put in that way "love is truth." Sound like one of those bible quotes they use in marriage toasts or something. But I know what she...

DG was asking me a lot of questions the other day and we ended up talking about some more serious things the other day and I wanted to mention them. I found out she"s only slept with one other guy (sorta volunteered by her), who she dated for 7 years (what?!). It took them 14 months before...

Spent a good amount of time together, had fun, and was the first to call it a night...Good call for date #1. Most people are lonely. You just gotta tough it out and make sure you keep your dignity intact until something good comes around again. And it will. It is highly unlikely your ex is...

Ok more time to respond now... For video games, I love video games, and played them obsessively in high school and off and on in college. That being said, even I would be cautious about dating any girl who plays MMOs. The chance of them neglecting their life in some manner is significantly...

Too late. Though of course I was wrong with the "You wont get a date out of this" statement after your just-met post. Short guess is this: because she was dating someone, you had to impress her an extra amount. You didn"t so she stayed w/ him. No time for more now..

Heh, you kinda gloss over this like its some mundane event. A girl you spent, what, a month intensely trying to win back now suddenly has come around. I think you definitely made the right call but it couldn"t have been that easy. I"m actually curious about the story behind that. But...if you...

Actually if you look, I didn"t offer any opinion at all. I don"t know enough information to offer an opinion. I offered possibilities and general advice that could apply to any situation. When and if we hear more of the story we can start making opinions, but at this point any opinion negative...

The entire last 2-3 pages are filled with nothing but baseless negative assumptions. Yea, there are things that Dianetics should becautiousabout, but you guys take less than 8 paragraphs of information and make extreme, baseless assumptions about this girl. Yea, you should take a girl"s...

If you say it while drunk, you probably have thought it sober... Saying the next day that it was meant in a "I love everyone" sorta way sounds like she was just saving face. I think IF you were to say it, she would also say it in return. However, as everyone else has said, 6 weeks it not even...

I suggested this before but no one took me up on it, so I"ll put my money where my mouth is. If you have a story with background info that"s been posted previously, do us a favor and add the last post or something in spoilers. There"s like 10 stories going on simultaneously and it"s hard to keep...

That"s why you stay away from the passionate, overtly emotion-driven types. Yea, they can be wild and fun, and offer a lot of affection, but they can also swing the other way in a heartbeat. You really can"t even be friends with most of them. I can"t say for all, but they generally have a...

My post was a little unnecessarily rough. Her calling you is certainly different than you calling her 5 days straight so the tone of my post wasn"t necessary. Plus improvement can"t all come at once. But still I"d suggest not answering one or two calls and texting later to say you"re busy and...

Seconded. How many times do we have to repeat the same line, and how many failures is it gonna take for people to actually listen to advice that is proven time after time? Stop being so available.

I"d never post face pics on here. You never know when some douchebag you pissed off will go on a mission to fuck with your life. I don"t know how people even go about digging up personal info, but I know it must not be too hard. Fuck, I figured out Tenks and I went to the same high school and...

I hate when people pull that "this is the girls that broke your heart thread" line. It"s not, and it hasn"t been that for like a year. It"s the all things fucking & dating thread. Aychamo spawned the preposterous idea of crying your heart out to a bunch of strangers about some bitch you aren"t...

She picked some guy really far away over you. Even if she breaks up and wants to get back with you, you are #2 to a long distance relationship. She will just move on to some other guy once he comes along. After all that time, choosing the other guy was the nail in the coffin in my opinion...

I"m not really sure whether offering a choice like that is a good or ball call. I tend to suggest not to but tarrant offers a good point. I strongly disagree about the "you should always offer multiple options" statement though. There"s another problem to me, and that is that you never...

She gave your sister her email to give to you, meaning she"s not exclusive with the other guy. In ANY situation like that, you shouldunquestionablyignore the other guy"s existence. Your attitude should be that no other guy could possibly be competition for you, so you don"t give a shit if...

On an unrelated note, I would totally bang alcestis in a heartbeat, just for the attitude, even if she was a whale the likes of which etoille has never seen, Although my line was a little uninspired lost, for a girl like that just insult her about her looks, tell her she"s got too much...

Cancel one and move it to the same day as another one, then try to juggle 2 dates at the same time. It will make things more interesting...But it is important to be dressed like an old nanny or it won"t work.

I"d go with the older one for fun. The previous oldest I had sex with was 24, and though my sample size is a massive 1, even as a timid asian chick the 31 year old was a whole new experience. A 40-something that looks 30 with a rock solid body? I think you"d be a fool to pass that up for some...

I met DG again last night (Tuesday) with the absolute intention to get her to let me see her apartment. I come back from an obligation in Seoul 3 days a week about 1 hr before she finishes work, so I hang out around the area and study korean until she"s off (note, I only did this AFTER we were...

Fixed. Jesus dude, she"s married, and not only that, but a god damn newlywed, and you"re hanging around hoping for a shot. YOU MISSED IT BY A 1000 FUCKING MILES. You aren"t interested in her because she"s a great catch, you"re interested in her because she makes you feel good about yourself...

Tenks pretty much has all the right answers. Pick one, not both. And commit. You can"t ask both out. Yea, you may pick one and find out she"s not interested and the other is. It"s a gamble, and the price you pay for not picking one and escalating at the wedding like you should have. Resist the...

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really good call, ill try that

Haha. Your concern the first time you sleep with a chick though isn"t only about birth control. You"re playing russian roulette with your dick by barebacking a girl you haven"t been dating for a while. Hell I"d sooner bareback a girl that wasn"t on bc but I knew was clean than I would a girl I...

There was no hook. She could be interested, but she could also be nice and answering a 100% neutral question to help out someone new to the city. At some point you"re gonna have to change the topic and go into showing or creating interest, and going from a neutral question to that can be...

Yea, living in a polar opposite culture and having to relearn everything you know about people and dating, being constantly challenged by things you used to take for granted, and developing new perspectives about everything is REALLY boring man. While its often frustrating and irritating...

Getting married at 19 sounds like a whole lot of boring, perfect girl or not.

Well, we never actually had any relationship convo, which from what I know is very unusual here, but we started dating almost 2 months ago I believe, with the first kiss on the 2nd date. Time is fuzzy, but we"ve been "together" for I"d say at least a month now, likely more than that in her mind...

I just made sure to avoid topics like going out partying and stuff like that. I don"t do it that often anymore, but I wanted to avoid her possibly perceiving me as a guy who does all the time so I made sure to not mention that sort of thing. But yea no matter the age, with confidence all girls...

Jesus, he"s what, 28? This isn"t the 1950s, all the good ones aren"t getting married at 18. People are single longer and I"d wager the ones who are still single in mid-late 20s are probably more intelligent and emotionally stable that those who got married in their early 20s. I don"t know why...

I"m legitimately happy to read this post. Sometimes when you do some stupid shit and realize the error of your ways it causes you to withdrawal if you"re a certain type of personality. I do it, haven"t really been excessively social (except for when I force myself in order to avoid being a...

Anyway Eomer, what you paid or didn"t pay for a ticket is irrelevant. The only thing that is relevant is the value of the ticket. If you shat out Coach purses, you shouldn"t give a purse to a girl you just met, because they are worth a lot of money andshe hasn"t earned it yet.You should throw...

Haha I Worf"d his post because it made me laugh a lot. I don"t know, 150lbs heavier than you is pretty fuckin enormous, but you got a point. At 27 if you"re a virgin, it"s time to fuck something. Now, you should never at any point mention this to anyone in real life, and if anyone should find...

Wanted to comment on brad"s post in more detail since after all the bitching and proding we gave him, no one (myself included) actually gave anything positive beyond "good job" after he did what we all suggested It doesn"t take strength to avoid a problem and never correct it. A weak man does...