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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I gotta play devil"s advocate here. You were emotionally open with each other, but clearly not in an official relationship. It"s unclear if you even established sexual interest. Hand-holding isn"t necessarily a sign, nor is making out. Normally kissing is, but if its of the occasional "I feel...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i vote murder suicide
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    How about some actual numbers so people have a clue what you"re talking about. To me, a large age gap would most definitely cause problems. Hell I am different than I was 2 years ago, and 2 years from now I"ll be different than I am now. But it depends on the person and the age difference...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    i am deeply sorry for causing such a burden
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I wanted to save my 2000th post for something special. So here is a girl I hooked up with about 3 years ago, climbing backwards onto the bed.
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    Tarrant I think it is possible to be dominant and also respectful at the same time. I think changing any plans (eg not goin to party that you otherwise would go to) to avoid her is a collosal mistake. You can"t avoid her your entire life. And if you don"t address it now, it will be harder and...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Have you hung out 4 days straight? That is ultra dangerous, especially at the beginning. If you are really just awesome together you can get away with being around more frequently, but it"s a death sentence if you aren"t unavailable at times doing other things with friends or family. Don"t lose...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Update on my asian adventures. Hung out with the korean girl twice since last post a week ago. Sunday we went to an amusement park followed by DVD room (private room since we can"t go to each others apt due to distance). 5th date. Was a really good time. Korean girls are so much more...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I have some horrible feeling that in a few weeks if things are still really exciting you are gonna think "fuck it I wanna tell her how I feel" and freak her out. I dropped the L bomb only once and it was after 2 months of seeing the girl 4-6 days a week in a absolutely perfect relationship that...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s a tossup. Usually orange giant upper body is accompanied by bird legs. However his name IS dzul. Ps aliens aren"t hot, so until that chick is the color of a normal human, she"s not hot
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You failed with your last line. "when can I take you out" is about the worst thing you can ever say to a girl. The girl is clearly an attention whore/fake. 1000 guys are sayin "when can I take you out." with a girl like that you gotta lean towards the asshole side, towing the line of...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Getting friended isn"t really a proper term for when you bang a girl repeatedly and she breaks it off. Getting friended is when you fail to advance to a sexual relationship due to pussy behavior. I think he was willing to continue the sexual relationship (for better or worse) despite the...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Wat Did you read a different post than I did? Because your entire post made 0 sense. Ps the story was funny Pps you are a dumbfuck
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    Good god. Has anyone seen a girl even close to the blue one? That"s so ridiculous I can"t believe it"s real. I hooked up with a girl in college who had nips like first pic and it was a huge turn off. That and the fact that she apparently popped a squat in my bedroom because after she left I...
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    It"s so much less intriguing with grob on ignore. I just have To assumethat he has bananas on his mind ever since the ex
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Dead on. This is the #1 benefit, and it is huge. A distant 2nd is just to build a deeper understanding of how women work. Ps eomer for the love of god stop saying swell Pps my guess is xerxes still wants you. From your whole history that I"ve read, she"s still hopin you will come around. Her...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You"re the man, it is 100% your job to take charge. She will not call you if you say "call me if you ever want a climbing partner." if you"re interested, grow a pair and ask her out. It is annoying to always have to take charge and provide entertainment, but that"s the reality of dealing with...
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    Thirded on eomers point. People don"t break contact with someone they really like so they can have casual fun with people they like less. I don"t really think the "afraid of commitment" excuse is legit except rare rare occassions. Usually instead the man just loses his allure because HE is...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If u haven"t noticed I"ve consistently given my opinions in this thread. I was making fun of the prospect of strangers giving advice, even though I think it can be valuable and I do it frequently. If this thread can survive a week or two more I promise to deliver some old pics that are...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Wow you are just a total faggot. Whether it was a troll attempt or now you are backpeddling and making it appear to be a troll attempt you are a tool either way. Can people stop fagging up this thread and get back to stories of trainwreck failures, dead girlfriends, and complete strangers...
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    Feel free to stop by again never I"m now swayed to the other side that threesome is prob gonna end up ending the relationship. You saw it here first, an internet poster admitting he was wrong. As for the phone business, ain"t really a big deal. Not something you should make a habit of...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Thanks for the info. Good stuff. I sort of know what you mean in regards to female dating behavior. When I first started talking to her and went out the first time, after that I played it the same way I usually do, a little cocky/funny in texts, and wasn"t getting the expected response. I...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It"s finally time that I can contribute to the thread for real. I had a looong dry period because I moved back home to save money in preparation for coming to Korea, and had few contacts back there and had some really stressful events that kept me from wanting to pursue anything. By the way...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No more advice about the threesome from me, but for others doubting a girls long term prospects bc she is open to a threesome is absurb. They"re in their 20s (right?), she has never done it, it seems new and exciting to her, WHY is that a character flaw? Have you guys never wanted to try...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It"s like it"s some new fad to pretend you are a threesome expert and always advise "no don"t do it!" like that makes you look ultra cool because not only are you subtly mentioning that you"ve had one but somehow advising against one of the greatest feats of man (I"m being dramatic here) makes...
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    Oh my god I just typed out like 2 pages on a fuckin iPod and the battery died and it all went away. Maybe tomorrow I will retype at work. I have a long argument that ultimately concludes that cheating is bad, but I use most of sharmais own premises to do that. A few years ago I concluded that...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Brad that attitude about getting professional help is stupid. The reasoning doest make sense, so it"s probably your ego getting in the way. Everyone thinks they can do everything on their own. You probably can, but why would you not want to significantly speed up the process. The issue obviously...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    For real. That"s no different than the ex in that one guys story who cockblocked his pickup by mentioning a fake baby. You"re tryin to cause her harm because you cared about her and it turns out she didn"t care about you so you got hurt. Don"t try to masquerade it as concern for her, you want to...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I hate to break the news, but you just got friended. And to make matters worse, you volunteered for the position by volunteering to be at her side as plan b after he gives her the hiv and ditches her again. I don"t think anyone said to bring up your concern if you aren"t yet dating. Have you...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Be more specific about the details of your relationship with her. Have you banged, how long have you been seeing each other (doesn"t really count until you kissed, at theearliest), etc. If you are not in a mutually agreed-upon monogamous relationship by the time he comes you probably run at...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Lost a baby 2 WEEKS ago? Um whose baby and why is she jumping your bones so fast? You seem to have the right idea. Just for the love of god when that day comes when you forget the condom or it breaks don"t allow your dick to win the "I"m sure it"ll be fine without it just once" argument with...
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    The thing is that schizophrenia is quite serious and covers pretty much every area of someones life. It doesn"t explain simple weirdness, you should be able to notice other VERY odd things in addition to the lockup (her being indecesive is called being a girl). Plus schizophrenia is iirc...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    The thing is that schizophrenia is quite serious and covers pretty much every area of someones life. It doesn"t explain simple weirdness, you should be able to notice other VERY odd things in addition to the lockup (her being indecesive is called being a girl). Plus schizophrenia is iirc...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"m confused is this a medical condition that causes her to lock up randomly or something mental? Is she weird in other ways also, paranoid or delusional? Never heard of anything like that except in catatonic schozophrenics.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Post a pic and we will decide for you
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Guys who do shit like that should be executed
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Alcestes makes a solid point w/ the quoted paragraph, maybe it wasn"t handled perfectly, but it was still handled enormously better than similar situations in the past so I gotta give props for improving anyway. You got lucky that jessie put up with all the bs though. Most girls woulda bailed...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Also, gotta give the guy a little slack. He knows he handled the ex poorly in the past. If he fucked up again at least he"s made progress. Can"t completely change over one encounter. As long as you see where you went wrong at every mistake and learn from it then you"re good.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    What you quoted isn"t necessarily bad. If I were in that situation, I would almost definitely go down very briefly just to reinforce that it"s over and make sure she"s leaving. 3 minutes tops. I would make sure the new girl knew this wAs my purpose and my purpose was NOT to hear the ex out...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Ronaan: Your ex didn"t realize that you are "the one". She saw you possibly with another woman, when she currently has no other man, and the human fear of loss kicked in and drove her to get you to sabatage your current romantic interest. If she had discovered that instead you were at home...