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  1. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    On the flip side, how fair is it for your kids to not be able to see one parent or the other for 5 days - 2 weeks at a time? It's bullshit, and it's selfish garbage perpetrated BY adults ON children who have no choice in the matter. My kids were failed by their parents, absolutely no doubt...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    mcdj22 -- you're handling this poorly. Don't ever make anyone you're in a relationship with pick anyone over you, nor put them in a position for them to do so. The only exception is another guy she has romantic interests in. You don't get to dictate her friends or family, and you're in the...
  3. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Big Jay Oakerson has a bit on his netflix special where he accidentally saw his 16 year old daughter naked, full bush. Now when women get naked around him and they have a bush he's like "WHOA, WHOA, what the fuck? You get in that bathroom right now and shave your pussy like an adult, you...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I would have agreed with all of you married guys 4-5 years ago. In fact, I did. But, when 18 years can go south in the blink of an eye because one party decided "you know what, I don't need to be reasonable anymore," and ruin your fucking life, you really do need to be more practical about...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It'll be fine. You only need one good parent, and I do everything that's necessary to be that one. Like I said...I never would have left her. Health is one thing, but if you're just gonna be a useless drain on my resources with no appreciation for 18+ years together, then GTFO. It absolutely...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So what do you do when she's garbage with you too? Let's go over the last month before my separation. She says she's going to her mother's for the weekend, leaves me home with the kids. Then spends the weekend in a hotel room with her new human garbage boyfriend. Insists that she didn't lie to...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It steadily got worse. She was always a minor problem being late for shit, but it just grew into more and more and her excuses got weaker and weaker until eventually it was little more than "fuck you, I do what I want." Okay. I reckon that's one position. I don't think it's the right position...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    A lot of times it's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation, and you're probably better off getting rid of the bitch. The problem with my marriage is I was increasingly doing more and more and she was doing less and less. Sexually compatible just fine. We could fuck all day and it was...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Women aren't interested in your appearance. They don't give a shit how you do your hair and how you dress. Some do, but they're retarded cunts anyway. Women care about the aura you give off. They look at dudes and the energy they have in a room and say to themselves "there's a guy I want to...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    That's your dick talking. It's still a horrible idea. Horrible ideas can also work out. It doesn't make them not horrible ideas.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Yes, all SSRI's have this as a side effect. It's complete horseshit. Not being able to enjoy sex is depressing, might as well not even be on the fucking things. At least sex cheers you up for 20 minutes. About the only good thing I noticed about them was that it really, really helped with the...
  12. Cutlery

    The Official Guitar Thread

    Yeah, it sucks. Don't. Jamplay or Songsterr are far better.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Stop feeling guilty about it. Women are at their peak 18-29. Men own the next 3 decades. Fucking enjoy it. It is absolutely obscene how just living your life the way you were taught to do makes you a fucking superhero to women. You're reaping the rewards of getting out of your parent's house...
  14. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    A fine compromise. Now just make sure your next vehicle has an aluminum body and you're set.
  15. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Fuck the patriarchy! While i'm doing this traditional female gender role craft!
  16. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Married for 19 years. She found someone else, and that magnified all the shit I was putting up with significantly. I asked her to step up and take care of her responsibilities, she refused, doubled down and it obliterated over the span of a few weeks. I was pissed at the ungratefulness of the...
  17. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    All the Rock Hard Weekend in the world wasn't gonna save my marriage!
  18. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You have me confused with someone else. My job, pension, and life came out unscathed. Inherited a good bit of debt to balance the books, but whatever. Can always make more money.
  19. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Yep, finally. What a fucking shitshow. But, much happier now. I've got the house, better than half time with my kids, the dog, and the cat. I've got everything but the problem.
  20. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    My oldest said about a month ago "I'm not sure what bothers me more...the fact that mom has changed so much, or the possibility that she hasn't." All you can do is be the stability for your kids. Just be the rock they need for whatever time they're with you. You can't control what happens when...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Well, and that's the thing. Everyone here is talking about what kind of relationship you'd have with a 16 year gap, and that's not really the point. Early on, relationships are based upon chemistry anyway, and either the spark is there or it's not. There's nothing wrong with throwing down...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Brad, stop. There's enough red flags there. Just walk away
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    Car ?'s

    Kind of an old post, but it's been a rough summer. They redesigned the Ram to it's new style in 03 I believe. I know they didn't offer it for very long, so I'm guessing 03-05. Its one of those things I was probably stoked about when I got it but I've long since forgotten about, since I just...
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    Poll Chipotle vs Moes - why does one suck shit while the other is great?

    Can't speak for Hawaii, but the first runs of the year for the mainland were a couple weeks ago.
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    The Metal Thread

    The new Dee Snider album is heavy as shit. Pretty much just an hour of riffs.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't disagree with you, but my ex does. And therein lies the problem..finding something you both agree on. Fuck, we had one "organic" lube we tried that was like $25 a bottle and all it did was just give us yeast infections back and forth for like a month until we figured out what was...
  27. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It's hard to find a good one that doesn't irritate either of you, cleans up easily, stays slick and doesn't gum up, and doesn't taste like shit.
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    Poll Chipotle vs Moes - why does one suck shit while the other is great?

    Cherry Sprite is a normal flavor. Has been for almost 2 years. Also, the next Sprite flavor coming down the pipe is
  29. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Pho answers the question of "what happens when a former child soldier pours hot rain water over fish nightmares?"
  30. Cutlery

    FOH Shower Thoughts

    Nah, those farts are just contractions for the turd baby you're gonna push out later.
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    The Paranormal, UFO's, and Mysteries of the Unknown

    Hrm, that raises an interesting question. So, we still have gold, so they weren't after that, but what if they were after something that we don't have? The periodic table has elements that don't occur in nature...what if they were all used up and that's why they don't? What applications could...
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    Gloomhaven

    How could you only have 2 or 3 perks at level 5? You get one every time you level up, in addition to check marks.
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    Tool might eventually release a new album someday

    It's not gonna be worth the wait and we all know it.
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    Gloomhaven

    The Gloomhaven Reddit has an excellent write up on every starting class. You may not agree with every decision they make, but it definitely helps you get your feet in the water until you can start making your own decisions based upon your playstyle.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I like you bro, we've had a lot of good discussions over the years, but you're making way too many assumptions here. She has always been number one. Always. Side action is side action. Furthermore, the open relationship was her idea. Due to the childhood I had, she wanted me to form more...
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    Car ?'s

    Not so much a question, but a brag. I have a 2004 Dodge Ram with 189k miles on it. A couple weeks ago, the rear axle started just roaring, I figured the differential probably went out on it. Brought it to my local shop, they call me back and say "Yep, pinion bearing broken. We're gonna order...
  37. Cutlery

    Vasectomy Inc

    I still get pain from time to time, but I can say without a doubt I'd do it again. My orgasms have changed now, almost to be like a second peak midway thru. Sex is easily twice as good now. Totally worth all the hell I went thru at the beginning.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    To be fair, I was tricked. She moved in with me pretty quickly, and didn't bring a lot. It wasn't until her mom sold her townhouse that she called and said "Hey, are you gonna come get all the shit out of your room?" That was when I first gazed into the abyss, and the abyss gazed back.
  39. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    The kids preceded it. And as it turns out, it works out fine with ground rules. It does not work out fine when one party is completely inappropriate with their emotional attachment. We call this party "Women." However, uhh, yeah, open relationships are shit. Every single one I know of has...
  40. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It's entirely possible. I do have a bit of a homewrecker streak. They know what they're signing up for, though!