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  1. Cutlery

    Home buying thread

    Don"t do it. Seriously, you will not talk to this guy in 6 years if you do, it will be THAT big of a pain in the ass.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, sounds like your choice is clear. See above. She ain"t sending you pictures of her scantily clad if she doesn"t consider you a prospect.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Do you see a situation where that would somehow be a tenable relationship? I mean, that"s a huge hurdle man. It sucks if you really have a connection with someone who lives that far away, but what are the alternatives? Try to somehow make it work without knowing what"s going on on the other end...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You think too much about this shit. If you"re posting it here, you"re thinking too much about it. You ask her if she wants to go out. If she makes up some bullshit excuse without offering an alternative date, she"s not interested.
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    Home buying thread

    I have 5.5, and we talked to the mortgage guy awhile ago about refi"ing down, he said it wasn"t worth it. New rules in place for FHA loans and the mortgage insurance premium increased as well, would end up being a wash on monthly payment. VA obviously a bit different deal than most homeowners.
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    Home buying thread

    That"s actually an easy fix, when you think about it. I know what my home is worth on the real estate market, and my insurance guy is pretty confident in his numbers on cost to rebuild. The absolute last thing I want to have to do if a tornado walks away with my house is have to finish the...
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    Home buying thread

    Eh, you probably insulted the guy with something you said somewhere, and he just refused to sell it to you for what you wanted to pay for it, and if he was gonna sell it to you, it wouldda been on his terms. I can see that happening, especially in this market. People put a lot of value on what...
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    Adventures with lyrical - buying a business

    This guy"s got some good ideas, but if you do go this route, remember that you pay guys 4k a month. If it"s 2k in cash and 2k in bonuses, don"t cut off the fucking bonuses when times get lean like a lot of other places do. I"ve worked for jobs like that where the hourly wage was shit, but you...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    She? I don"t think you"ve met chu before. It was definitely a he, which actually explains the skidmark epidemic he has going on.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This is all you have to say for yourself? No explanation from her? No ideas on what it could possibly be? Come on man, that conversation had to be gold.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Aren"t you being a little hasty here? You might need to borrow her car, bro.
  12. Cutlery

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You"d be able to control yourself pretty quick once you remembered how goddamned dumb high school girls are.
  13. Cutlery

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Pretty solid, dude.
  14. Cutlery

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Never went, long story, don"t need to get into it. Seems like an odd abbreviation, even for the net though.
  15. Cutlery

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Alright, I"m trying, but I can"t come up with it. Wrt? I can"t work that one out.
  16. Cutlery

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Then....he"s dating all of us?
  17. Cutlery

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Run for the hills.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Nor do I give a shit about that. I do however, find it amusing that all he"s doing is providing a shitload of ammunition for when his balls actually drop and decides to have kids and then realizes that his children actually ARE the most important thing in the world instead of mocking me for it...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Your stalking is getting cute. Unlike those girl pants.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So wait a minute, I just need to get this straight. It"s a special occasion when you get laid while you"re married, but it"s the millionth time? I"m really confused about the message you"re trying to convey here, because I"m not sure if you"re claiming that married people never fuck, or if...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    And that has to do with what, exactly? Because the way it"s portrayed, it sure seems like the problem here is grade A douche bag parents. Let that sink in for a little while. Parents that aren"t grade A douche bags don"t cause the BF of their daughter to come to FOH and freak out because things...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    TC is also completely right. How"s Xerxes working out for you again? Still stringing you along like a puppy dog? I don"t have time to get into it, but it"s a pretty simple concept. If she"s still living at home, her parents get to have a say in what she does. That doesn"t mean they run her life...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Don"t date people that still live at home when you"re 26. See how that works out for awhile, and report back.
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    Home buying thread

    Nope. Bought a foreclosure, bid on a foreclosure before that, and everyone know personally who"s done the same has had the same experiences. With a short sale, you at least get the owner"s sign off on it as communication before you wait for the bank, and have kind of an intermediary you can...
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    Home buying thread

    Don"t even fuck with a foreclosure unless you are in a position to not need the property. IE: lease running out, selling your place, etc. The timescales that are associated with foreclosures are not to be underestimated at all. You really need to be prepared to wait and to walk away from one if...
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    Home buying thread

    News last week was saying with the glut of pending foreclosures, could take till 2015 or 2016 to sell through them all, which means the prices should keep going down. However, if we keep playing shenanigans with the debt ceiling, say goodbye to your sub 5% interest rate.
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    Home buying thread

    Yeah, sounds like a solid plan that"s worked out pretty well for everyone up until now.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Look at what you"ve done. Etoille agrees with me. I feel so goddamned dirty. I"m gonna go sit in the shower for a few hours.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s exactly the way I look at it. I don"t have a whole lot of respect for the white man/asian woman thing because it just seems like the continuation on the Russian bride shit. They"re not with you because you"re fucking interesting, they"re with you because you make more money in your...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Know what I call that? Stockholm Syndrome.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    They"re great for the socially awkward people with no game for American women. Also easier to beat up since they"re smaller.
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    Salary Negotiation

    Look at the flip side of it. If you were a senior software engineer at IBM, why aren"t you now? Who"d you piss off there? Why couldn"t you hack it? In short, why are you now asking ME for a job?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Maybe you shouldn"t be posting it on the internet then.
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    Salary Negotiation

    You"ve got 2 recruitment offers and that"s your dilemma? That makes it easy. You decide which one you want to work for, and you go tell the other one that you want bank. Big bank. If they tell you no, you"ve lost nothing, you"re working for the company you already decided to work for. If you...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, this has certainly improved the quality of the thread. Are we then to assume that Kegkilla is Screamfeeder, and as a result, Tyen is also Screamfeeder? I"m actually starting to wonder if this entire board isn"t just multiple personalities.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This will make it a little clearer for you. She couldn"t commit....to you.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s basically the truth. He"ll get tired of fucking her and that"ll be the end of another one.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, fortunately for you, unless he puts it in your ass, you"re probably not gonna get AIDS. I can"t help you with the naked part though.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    We bought silver bands when we were married because we were fucking poor. I bought her a small white gold/diamond band a couple years later. Neither of us wear them anymore because it"s fucking ridiculous and the rings are not the reason we"re together. We also don"t need to be reminded that...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    uhhhhhhh