Dating

Daidraco said:

The wife and her lover are attractive for their age. I think theyre in their mid 50's and he's in his 60's. I can only imagine how awful that house has been at times when both of those women were or have likely gone through menopause, though. Brother's girlfriend is going through menopause right now and Im surprised that with the anger issues my brother has, he hasnt killed the woman yet.

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Anyone else instinctively imagine they were in their 30s or some 40ish MILFs? Thanks for ruining it.

So, this is what I should have been doing all this time...

Juvarisx said:

It's Nirgoncel's wet dream. LOL. Its dead in a month tho

You have to upload pictures in dual camera mode, it forces off filters, and it randomly tells you when to upload the photo any time of day and I guess if you dont it wont show your profile to potential matches to swipe on for the rest of the day.

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Holy shit, that's awesome. Almost every date I ever went on off of a dating app, the woman in person looked like 7 years older than her pictures (and when the 7 years in question are, say, 28 to 35, that might as well be 50 years).

I don't see many women using this app, as a result. It'll weed out the fakes but it'll also just be another lopsided app with 10 men competing for 3 women.

Enjoy it will it lasts or as long as you have the patience for it. Def dont blow a load in her.

Rajaah said:

So, this is what I should have been doing all this time...

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What is #LBFM?

Pancreas said:

(she was afraid that someone was following her home? not sure what I was supposed to do about that)

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Ask her if she got a good look at him, and she'll tell you it wouldn't do any good because it was a different person every time she turned around.

grats on the crazy pussy. Sounds like she knows where you live, so you broke Rule #1. Hopefully that's an apartment you can ditch easily.

Pancreas said:

So I was dating this girl for 5 months. Things were not great. She is pretty unstable, like diagnosed with a few things. She's pretty hot and the sex was awesome though, the rumors are true. Things ended like two months ago. I was pretty burnt out and done with it. We weren't really angry with each other, just tired of the friction. Anyways, out of the blue she calls me a few days ago, (she was afraid that someone was following her home? not sure what I was supposed to do about that) We ended up talking about how great the sex was, and decided to just meet up to fuck.

I picked her up, grabbed some food. She paid for herself. Took her home to my place and fucked for a few hours. Took her back, and dropped her off. We're planning on doing that every Sunday with basically no contact during the week. She is pretty adamant about preserving her alone time and I am happy to give it to her.

The whole thing seems too good to be true but I don't think she has any other motive. She is just super horny and needs something or else she starts to get even weirder. If it wasn't for the mental health stuff she would be perfect. Huge nerd (she's into dnd, mtg and warhammer), submissive, cute, horny, desires alone time.

But I guess I am just done with dating for a bit while this plays out. I'm curious if anyone has had experience with this sort of situation and what problems popped up because of it.

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She sounds almost exactly like the woman I was with for most of the 2010s. Great bod, great sex, super horny, huge nerd, submissive, needs a lot of alone time to deal with her issues, came over on the weekends. We were together on and off and were FWBs even when we were off. To the detriment of my other relationships because I wasn't willing to give her up or be exclusive with other women. And I dated some really awesome women who deserved better. One in particular was legitimate wife material and the best girlfriend I've ever had, but I wouldn't be exclusive because I was there for my ex/bestie/FWB. The perfect girlfriend was fine with sharing me for a while, then she wasn't, and broke things off. I've regretted that one ever since. Except that then I got back together with the ex/bestie/FWB yet again and we had an amazing couple of years before the next breakup.

I was kind of relieved when she found someone else that could deal with her issues better, and we stopped seeing each other so she could focus on that relationship. Then out of the blue she shot herself in the head.

...so I guess that's the "what problems can arise" part.

It's pretty great to feel like you wasted close to ten years in your prime (my late 20's and most of my 30's) with someone who definitely prevented other relationships (that one girl mentioned above, that I let walk out the door, is one I think about regularly because she was so damn perfect for me in every way). It's only "wasted" because she fuckin' offed herself later. I guess I'm lucky that she didn't do that when she was with me, and can take some solace in the fact that I showed her a really nice time over eight of her last ten years or so. Maybe she would have done it sooner without me around for support.

Don't end up like me, waking up at 40, realizing you let a lot of time go by, having the women you want (24-28 year olds) be a niche that is barely still within reach, and having missed years worth of opportunity to find someone you can get old with, due to being content banging a super cute redhead every weekend that you know isn't going to work out or result in a family. We're not Peter Pan and we're not perpetually college guys having fun, at some point life needs to be taken seriously or it'll become a deep regret.