Thats the same thing in different clothing - you're saying you're protecting his feelings, but thats not your job. Certainly not at this stage of a relationship. You're using that as an out so you don't have to take the risk and put yourself out there. He's a grown man, he can put his feelings out there if he wants to. And so can you!
Doing like my wife does on many subjects, anxiety takes hold then goes looking for every possible reason to self sabotage.Thats the same thing in different clothing - you're saying you're protecting his feelings, but thats not your job. Certainly not at this stage of a relationship. You're using that as an out so you don't have to take the risk and put yourself out there. He's a grown man, he can put his feelings out there if he wants to. And so can you!
Don't want to be too forceful with how I say it, but DO IT !
Believe me, if I could swap out woman brain for literally anything else, I would. It is fucking torture.
I get more chicks blatantly looking at me/trying to talk to me even when my wife and kids are with me now that I'm almost 50 than I did when I was younger. It makes the whole "gross old men were looking at me" thing chicks say all the time seem to be serious projection. Y'all are the ones looking at us, hoes.
PM me his info. I'll fix it. Don't click the spoilers if you are koushirou. I said don't click, you can't handle the plan. I'll call him and tell him to just buy her a fucking ticket to NY already