Depression
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moonarchia
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Sure they do. Not enough ports for al those dongles.
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Cutlery
Kill All the White People
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You guys are retarded.
I'd explain it, but it doesn't fucking matter anyway.
Good luck!
Izo
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Cad
scientia potentia est
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They are definitely retarded, but you've got to admit staying in contact with exes like that is abnormal.
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Gutterflesh
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Closing in on 20 years of a high trust marriage. I never cheated on my wife, but early on in our marriage I had an ex reach out to me via LinkedIn. I didn't think much of it at the time, but my wife found out and it clearly hurt her feelings so I killed all communications with the ex.
I've done a lot of fucked up things in my life, but the one thing I've never done is been unfaithful to my wife (physically or emotionally).
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Koushirou
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Did end up going for a couple days to Ocean City with the family. Told myself I was just going to have a good time and focus on positive things and I think I held up pretty well. Didn’t get into the funk of thinking about being the fifth wheel, etc. Did some beach time, went fishing for the first time and caught a bass that I got to eat later that night, which felt cool as hell. Got to visit an aunt and uncle on the way back and also stop to chat at my grandparents’ graves which I haven’t been able to do for a few years. So overall, was good, except maybe my weight when I got back… Tomorrow, going over to a guildy’s house for a cookout who lives about an hour away, so that should hopefully be fun. Busy week, but it’s keeping me distracted in a good way.
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Aldarion
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Aside from divorces with shared kids, etc., there is just nothing good to be gained from staying in touch with exes. I'm skeptical its ever done innocently. "You used to suck my dick but I'm totally not thinking about that right now we're just chatting and being friends". uh huh. sure.
8 billion people on the planet and its just sooo important you stay in touch with the person you used to fuck?
Obviously if youre just single its whatever, but if you move on to a new relationship its important to move on IMO.
8 billion people on the planet and its just sooo important you stay in touch with the person you used to fuck?
Obviously if youre just single its whatever, but if you move on to a new relationship its important to move on IMO.
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No way dude. Just strictly platonic friendships with someone you’ve never really been friends with but casually dated in elementary school. Totally normal.
Cutlery
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Why? You guys already passed judgement. No discussion to be had.
I've been on this board a long fucking time. There's no point in even trying to explain shit to a pre-emptive dog pile.
See the above reply. Grown up forum or no, no one is going to be a grown up about that discussion. So no, fuck yourselves
Cad
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I mean if it works for you it works for you, as always our thoughts are just our thoughts. It's one of those things like oh I just do heroin on the weekends, I'm straight during the week. It's like, sure that could work out, and you might be the guy that handles it. But its risky! Thats all I'm saying.
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Izo
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Already asked, nicely, how you justify this possible cognitive dissonance. Teach your fellow FoH-bros how you do it. Generally curious.
moonarchia
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This is the depression thread. Your spinoff is a cliche for the divorce thread. I hope you found a unicorn, but that is just a entire field of landmines and red flags. Good luck! You might need both threads in due time, and we will be here for you.
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Izo
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This is the crux of the whole thing and why everyone is telling you to square the shit up and life gets better
I had a girlfriend in 1st grade. I don't remember why, I don't remember how it started, but we would hold hands in library while we were watching some shit about the Dewey decimal system or some shit. It was just innocent, 6 year old love. She changed schools after first grade and I never saw her again. Tried looking for her many times over the years, just curiosity, mostly. Couldn't find her. It's like she vanished off the face of the earth.
Turns out she just got married young (just like I did) and changed her name. Later on when she got divorced and went back to her name, found her on Facebook. Turns out she never forgot me either but couldn't remember how to spell my name, and I don't have any social media anyway. So I was unfindable too. She was basically living just down the road (metaphorically speaking, she's just a city over from me) the whole fucking time.
We've still got a crazy spark between us. It's something that's indescribable and just magnetic. It's weird when you spend so long thinking about someone and never forget them. She feels the same way I do about it.
Anyway, I got divorced and I basically told her "well, now's your chance," and she was still trying to make shit work with the drunk she was with. I started dating, met my fiance, dumped my fiance because it was too soon for me to be seriosuly dating, went thru a few more women, then got to a point where I was just tired of the whole thing. So I asked her again if she wanted to try. She was still insistent on trying to make it work with this dude, so I got back together with the fiance because I was in a better place and ready to have a real relationship (obviously she wasn't my fiance this whole time, it's just the descriptor for her). Now we're getting hitched in a couple months here and guess who's a complete fucking wreck about it?
If you guessed the one in a relationship with an abusive drunk who caught a DUi dealing with his retarded shit and now she can't even drive and is going bankrupt and getting shit repossessed because she bet on the wrong fucking horse while some other woman has a ring, well, it's not that hard to figure out. She's a complete wreck and tells me all the same shit. Crying all day, doesn't have any idea how she's gonna make it all work.
Its hard to have sympathy for her. I gave her a fuckin chance. Multiple ones, in fact. She didn't wanna do the hard shit and get her life in order. She was assuming a broken relationship would work, which I don't blame her for, but now she's extremely despondent that she missed her chance because she was wasting time with someone who wasn't worth wasting time on.
Your life sucks right now. It's not gonna stop sucking until you rip the bandaid off. It's still gonna suck for awhile afterwards, but at least you're gonna be on the path to healing. Every day you waste with this loser is one more guy getting married to someone else. You can't expect them to give you anything if you can't even get the old trash outta the house. That's not to say you can't talk about the old trash, and all the fun times you had with the old trash, but the bag can't be sitting beside you.
Take out the trash,Koushirou , you'll feel better. And the room will probably smell better too.
Well, you started the whole thing, telling us a long and weird story about, well, whatever it is because you don't clarify it, for a simple point. Asked to clarify you just pussy out bc we don't understand your special relationsship. That's fine. But don't pretend you didn't leave us blue balled in the depression thread. Feel free to clarify in a thread of your chosing. Or don't. Whatever.
? How did it go from clean your room to clean your dick?? Where was this therapeutic magic when I needed it.
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